After breaking up with my boyfriend, why is he still friends with me as always?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-29
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I think so. He really lets you go. It's not good to be friends with you.

    If I still love you or still have a little feeling for you. He asked for more than just a friend.

    Then you have to let go of him at this time.

    Stick to a guy who doesn't love you. It's just you who suffers.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In general, there are two situations in which this happens.

    One is. He never loved you.

    Feel like you're better suited to be friends than a lover.

    The second is. He loves you.

    But he doesn't want to be too far away from you after you separate.

    So he's going to be friends with you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Do you want to break off the relationship? It doesn't have to be like this, he is friends with you, he just likes you and thinks you are good, so he will naturally do it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Then you can be friends with him, too! You're working on a subject like this, see how he is! Do you still want to be friends with him?

    If you don't want to, tell him you have a partner! What does he look like? Do you still ignore him, if you still ignore him, ask yourself, why do you want to be friends with him?

    That's dividing people!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Is that good? From lovers to friends, he can be so sensible, and his love is not very deep, it is better to be friends and friends with distance, and it is good for you and him!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Many couples are like this! It's a matter of mentality! I'm in the same situation as you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It is not necessary that if you can't be a lover, you can't be a friend, maybe it's more appropriate to be a friend than a lover.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    He doesn't love you and it doesn't matter if you're friends with you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think it's better not to be like this, it's hard to tell the difference between lovers and friends.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'm like you, I've always been attached to a man who doesn't love me.

    He doesn't love me.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't be friends after a breakup! Love is a matter of two people. Now that we're separated, don't contact each other anymore, for whatever reason.

    Now it doesn't matter if you feel that the inextricable connection will affect your future love, you must separate like a quick knife cutting through the mess. Otherwise, one day you will become like this: you have dinner with your boyfriend at night, and you receive a ** from your ex-boyfriend saying that he is sick, and you go to see him and leave your boyfriend behind, what will he think?

    Is this responsible? Will the relationship last? If you don't tell your boyfriend to sneak a look, what will he think if he finds out?

    Men always generously think that since they have broken up, it is not a big deal to be friends or friends. He has no apologies and regrets for the harm he caused to women in his last relationship.

    From the perspective of female advantages, it is more appropriate for women not to have any contact with their ex-boyfriends after a breakup. If a man has a woman in his heart, then he can get back together directly. There is no need to treat two people as ordinary friends.

    If a man doesn't have a woman in his heart, then don't associate with the other person anymore. There is no need for a woman to be sad when she sees a man again. After a breakup, men and women are the most familiar strangers, and not communicating with each other is the best choice for two people.

    This is true for women, and it is true for men. Of course, unless both people want to redeem each other, there is really no need to use ordinary friends to cover up the truth about thinking about each other.

    The ex is just a sign of the relationship we once loved, a memory symbol that tells us that we once simply loved ourselves and hated ourselves bitterly. Without those exes, perhaps you wouldn't have met the later Prince Charming, and it was they who served as a stepping stone in your search for true love. After a breakup, thinking about how good the other person is will only make you fall deeper and deeper, more and more persistent, and more and more attached.

    But this relationship obviously can't go back, and it's useless to look forward to it and insist on it. Why let yourself get caught up in it? Instead of making yourself miserable, it is better to make yourself smarter, turn around bravely, and no longer have any interaction and expectation.

    Love can be a matter of a moment or a lifetime. Everyone falls in love with different people at different times. We can fall in love with someone, but we can't ask the other person to love themselves all the time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't think it's necessary to continue to be friends, since the two have broken up, then it's really no longer necessary to be strangers from now on, otherwise it's very likely that the old relationship will rekindle.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Do you want to keep being friends after your boyfriend breaks up? I felt that since we broke up, there was no need to be friends. After all, if both people are separated, they will definitely break up because of a quarrel over some things, so there is no need to be friends.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    After breaking up with your boyfriend, if the relationship is still very good, you can continue to be friends, and if both of you are hurt a lot, there is no need to be friends.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't think there's any need to be friends after a breakup, since two people have chosen to break up, they have to let go generously.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I didn't say to break up, so I no longer contacted each other, and there should be many reasons in it.

    First of all, they are not particularly satisfied with each other, and they still have a lot of regrets between each other, or a lot of things they don't understand, so the feelings are not so deep, and they slowly fade away, and they naturally break up with each other, that is, naturally.

    The second is that there is no fate, fate has arrived, nothing is a condition, nothing is nothing, the fate of retirement has not arrived, what is also a condition, what is also a reason, so fate has not arrived, such a contact has known each other for a long time, and there will be no more conclusions.

    The third is that there is no love, there is no emotional foundation, if there is true love, if there is an emotional foundation, it will not be so mutual and no longer contact each other, there should be a party if there is some reluctance, and will continue to contact, which shows that both parties have no emotional foundation, Angel is natural, and there is no contact, that is, the terminal human feelings.

    All in all, both parties have no feelings, and there is no desire to contact again, so they slowly fade away, and slowly do not contact, which is the main reason for not contacting, that is, there is no emotional foundation, no love.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Now that they have broken up, there is no need to be friends anymore, and breaking the connection will only bring trouble and pain to the two of them.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Look at what the reason is to break up, it's best not to do it, otherwise it will be embarrassing to meet.

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