What do you think it s like to work in a big city?

Alone, unless you have a high-paying job. Otherwise, you will really see the world, many times you will encounter difficulties that you can't imagine, and it is not particularly painful, but it will be very sad, especially if you are only alone, and you may not even have someone to talk to when you get home from work.

Many people think that going to a big city alone can be very lonely and easy to be sentimental, but in fact, when you are doing a job that you love, fulfilling and happy, all problems are not a problem.

Being in a big city is nothing more than feeling stressed, and there is no happiness in life. I had lived in Dalian for two years, Dalian was a city with high consumption and low income, so I felt that I was very poor, and buying a house was simply a luxury, so I especially wanted to go home.

I lived in a big city for a while, and I felt that it didn't matter, anyway, I was in the countryside, and I couldn't compare with the people in the city, and I only thought about how to fill my stomach every day, and I didn't ask too much, and I was always hungry and full.

Living in a big city without money is not as safe and happy as a farmer who farms at home. Rich people live in the same way. There will be a sense of happiness every day. Being rich and capable is more important than living in any big city.

Big cities generally have good infrastructure, high-quality cultural environment and historical heritage, more resources in culture, education and medical care, more opportunities for young and middle-aged people to find employment, and good development platforms and prospects for professionals.

I've gone from a little northern girl to now a lady with high heels, makeup, and all kinds of dresses all year round. From a person who has only spent time in his own city to a person with little knowledge, he now spans half of China. From asking for others in everything, to now relying on yourself in everything.

To survive in a big city, you must earn money, you must earn more money, although it sounds harsh and vulgar, but it is a must! Only by earning money can we survive in the cracks of big cities, and only by earning more money can we live a quality life in big cities.

It's really hard to live. If you are a renter, you can't save on food, housing and transportation. After graduating from college, I rented a house for a period of time, the rent was 400 a month, the water and electricity bills were almost 50, and the remaining 200 was not enough for rations.

I used to be a teacher at school, and her daughter worked hard in a big city, and the family scraped together one or two million to buy a small house of dozens of square meters.

I once went to Beijing alone, and went from Beijing to Shanghai alone. decided to stay in Shanghai and choose this city for the rest of his life. There is also fear, the common human reaction in the face of the unknown.

It's competitive, hectic, but fulfilling.

Big cities have a good environment and broad development space, and are places that many people yearn for. When you come to live in a big city, different people will have different impressions and feelings about life and work here. ......Personally, my feelings about living in a big city include a good living environment and broad career development space in a big city, a fast pace of life in a big city, fierce competition in work, and a relatively noisy city and a difficult mood to calm down.

1. Big cities have a good living environment and broad career development space.

The most intuitive feeling left by big cities is that they have a good living environment and have a broad space for career development. ......Big cities concentrate a large number of advantageous resources, which makes big cities have a good living environment, where you can enjoy more comfortable living conditions. ......More importantly, big cities provide a broad space for career development, and you can get more help to develop your career in big cities.

2. The pace of life in big cities is fast, and the competition in the workplace is very fierce.

Because of the abundant resources in big cities, they attract more people to develop, which makes the workplace competition in big cities very fierce, and it is more difficult to succeed in your career. ......At the same time, the fierce competition in the workplace has also made the pace of life in big cities faster, and people are in a hurry to shoot and move, which is in stark contrast to small and medium-sized cities.

3. Big cities are noisy, and it is difficult to calm down the mood of attack.

Although big cities have a good living environment and career development space, they also bring some problems. ......One of the most obvious aspects is that working and living in a big city will bring more pressure to yourself, and you will feel that the surrounding environment is more noisy, which will make it difficult for you to calm down, and even be in a state of tension all the time, which will have an impact on your life and work, and many people will feel the most profound about this situation after coming to live and work in a big city.

I am from a mountain town in the south, I have been to Hangzhou once after graduating from primary school, but I am too young to feel deeply, and I finally have the opportunity to go to the big city outside when I go to university, and I feel different when I pass by Hangzhou again.

First of all, it is big, you can only rely on navigation to identify the direction, there is no online navigation tool to move an inch, and it is really easy to get lost when walking aimlessly.

The second is the bustle, which is reflected in all aspects of the city, the subway, shopping malls, and scenic spots are full of people, and even at 10 or 11 o'clock in the evening, there are still many people coming and going.

Then there is loneliness, the feeling of the night is the deepest, the city is brightly lit, countless figures pass by you, they don't know you, you don't know them, you may see them once again in your life, we are all passing by each other, no one matters, and we don't remember each other's needs, each heart seems to be very close but far away, this lonely gap is close to the end of the world. Finally, there is confusion, you may want to stay on this huge stage and do not want to return to your hometown for the rest of your life.

But the language barrier, the unfamiliar environment, personal ability, huge pressure, etc. will make you hesitate, where is the future? The heart is destined to be at peace, leaving only sighs and confusion.

It is summarized as follows. 1.There are many people in big cities, so relatively speaking, there are great pressures, great opportunities, and great progress, especially the problem of renting, and the rent difference between big cities and small cities is not a little bit; 2.

There are not so many people in small cities, the pace of life in small cities is not so fast, safe and stable, if there are no particularly ambitious or grand goals, small cities are a good choice; 3.The difference between other meals is not big, the key is that you go to ** consumption, just like a city like Guangzhou, there are still more than a dozen pieces of fast food; 4.Daily necessities, clothing, this difference is not big, now that e-commerce is so developed, I believe that many people are more willing to shop online; 5.

So, as long as there is a goal, there is an ideal. In every city, it is the same. The only thing you want to do is stay in your own home city.

Life here is fast-paced, and there is less talk and less communication between people.

It's just that some people have things that they can't get into on their own.

The most lamenting thing is the indifference of people's hearts and the difficulty of living in this big city.

Jobs in big cities are easier to find, but the pay is not particularly large and not particularly secure.

The biggest feeling is that life is convenient, transportation is good in all aspects, but there is no rural comfort.

It felt like I was suddenly being pulled out of a noisy space, suddenly crammed into a strange, empty environment.

It seems a bit hypocritical to say that it is lonely, but sometimes it is real, heavy and curled up on the mouth of the heart, which makes people breathless.

I used to like to be imaginative, but now I only think about the present life.

In the past, the understanding of loneliness was that there were no friends around me.

I wanted to go out and play, but I looked through the address book and found that there was no one on call.

When I was scrolling through Weibo, I saw a funny thing, and I found that no one shared it, so I silently swiped to the next one.

When you wash your hands, you accidentally knock over a plate, but you are quick to hold it up before it hits the ground, and you look around in surprise to find that no one can see how cool you are at that moment.

Now, the understanding of loneliness has gradually become: throwing yourself into the wrong group.

When I first entered the society, it was simply a history of blood and tears.

Sharpen yourself, hone yourself, you regard the people around you as the object you need to fit into, colleague relationship, you never dare to snub anyone, afraid that you will offend anyone if you are not enthusiastic a little.

At first, I didn't know how to refuse at all, and I didn't dare to refuse at all.

Worried that he will inadvertently hurt his relationship with others, and that his words and deeds will make others unhappy, he always tries to meet everyone's requirements.

But over time, I suddenly found that I had become a free labor force in the eyes of others, and when I asked you to help, I occasionally excused myself, and I became stingy and mean.

A friend who hasn't seen you for a long time suddenly contacted, you thought it was a relationship, and after chatting a few words, he suddenly threw out a sentence: Recently, money is a little tight, can you borrow some money to spend?

Another classmate is looking for you, and you click on the message with anticipation, only to find that it is just a wedding invitation.

Sometimes, people come and go, cars come and go, and what can be taken away cannot be kept, and what can be retained will be lost.

After graduation, the class reunion, three or five groups, familiar and unfamiliar all gathered together, after eating, often singing and drinking, a group of people called and drank, hypocritically you respect me, I respect you. What to say is drunk in a bridge town, regardless of the future.

But a group of people brag, have a meal, continue to work the next day, turn around and forget about it on weekdays, at most ask you for help when they are in difficulty, and at other times there is no contact at all.

My biggest feelings about living in a big city are as follows:

1.In a big city, you may be able to get to a place by walking, but in a big city you have to rely on some kind of transportation, such as a subway, a bus, a taxi, etc. It is because of the large place, but also lead to the place where you may live and work is far away, every day you have to spend a lot of time and energy on the road, maybe go to work for an hour or two on the road, so it will give people the feeling that the pace of life in the big city is fast, you may have to get up at six or seven o'clock in the morning, squeeze the bus, subway to go to work, even if you drive, the road is very congested during the rush hour.

2.The biggest advantage of living in a big city is that all kinds of supporting facilities are relatively perfect, and there are many places to eat and play. There are many large stores and supermarkets around, and life will be relatively convenient, and many takeaway, community**, home delivery and other services are more perfect than those in small places.

Life can get lazy. Because you can find a matching service for everything you want. For example, there are special organizers, cleaners, and so on.

As long as you are willing to spend money, you can become lazy.

3.Medical and educational resources are perfect, and the best in big cities is some medical and educational resources, many of which are concentrated in the best and most advanced technology in the country. You can find the corresponding training institution for whatever you want to learn, as long as you are willing to pay, there is nothing you can't do.

4.The type of work is mostly in big cities, you can have a lot of job opportunities, as long as you are willing to work hard, you can mix better, compared to small places that rely on relationships, big cities believe in your efforts more, in big cities you will have more space to play your ability, and many large Internet and other high-tech industries are also concentrated in big cities, you are easy to lose jobs in small cities, and there will be more employment opportunities in big cities.

Most of the big cities give people more of a sense of wandering, lack of human touch, the human touch here does not only refer to the sophistication of human feelings, such as the atmosphere of the New Year's holidays, such as housing prices, such as work pressure, life pressure.

I feel that I don't belong to this city, and every time I think about it, I don't have a sense of security in my heart at all. Many people have a stable job in the big city, but their life is never stable. There is no sense of belonging to the city where you live, mainly because of the interpersonal relationship, thoughts and emotions and no fixed residence.

Whether the big city gives you a sense of wandering or belonging is ultimately defined by material and spiritual satisfaction.

If you come from afar for the sake of knowledge, soak in schools, libraries and other places every day to continuously absorb the nourishment of knowledge, you will not feel adrift, your spirit has found a home, has been satisfied, and you will have a sense of belonging. If you want to go to the next level in your career, seek more opportunities and achieve a greater future, and you meet Bole in this city and develop your ambitions, you will have a sense of belonging.

However, if you are depressed, you have been working all day long without any gain, and the money you have earned so hard is only enough to make ends meet, then you must feel adrift.

How do you feel in a big city?

The so-called sense of wandering and belonging actually has a lot to do with whether you settle down in a big city.

If you have your own small family in a big city, have like-minded friends, and have a good job, you will take root in this city, and you will naturally have a sense of belonging.

If you are alone in a big city, you don't have a satisfactory salary at work, or you can't see room for growth, then it's like duckweed, and you always have a sense of drift.

In the new year, I hope that people in big cities can find their sense of belonging.