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It's simple, just do it.
1.You should determine what you want to do every day, and if you can report your work progress and progress in the work group, try to let people know that you are busy.
This is for office workers. There are many things to do every day, but don't rush and think about what you want to do today on the way to work. Every Monday, make a plan for the week's work. First of all, you'll know what you're going to do today.
Secondly, after thinking clearly, send it to the large group of work. If necessary, you can also Aite the management of the group or your own manager. The advantage of this is that you can make your work more clear. Let your leaders and colleagues know what you're doing.
At this time, even if someone comes to you, you can also talk about what you are busy with now and make the other party feel embarrassed.
2.Nothing is necessary or urgent that is approached by others. You can refer to the first condition to tell the other person that I am busy now, please try not to disturb me. This is mainly about how to communicate with the other party.
This is mainly for sudden work. Not everyone has a plan for what to do today. I will definitely be able to do it today.
Most of them come with a lot of other things to do. If it's a colleague, you can communicate with the other party tactfully, I'm very busy now, if you're not in a hurry or unnecessary, can you wait for me first?
What you must pay attention to here is your attitude. Even if you can't help, don't look like someone owes you money. That way your praise among your colleagues will drop.
In the future, it will be very troublesome if you ask someone to do something. So try to say it nicely, although it will delay a little time, but it will be very important for your future relationships.
3.If you are not in the work group, you can tell yourself about your work first, and remember that if you don't say that you are just busy, no one will know what you are doing.
This is for family members or friends. Sometimes it's really busy when you're working overtime or working on some projects. Then you might as well tell your family or friends first. Generally, the people who love you will quietly let you finish your own things and silently support you behind your back.
But if you don't say you're busy or what you're busy with, there's a good chance you'll have a conflict over this little thing. So be sure to say it first.
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There are many things in life, if you are not the person involved, you will never be able to understand the feelings of the people in them.
For example, you are obviously very busy, and you finally do one thing well, and you have put in a lot of effort and time, but the people around you do not necessarily understand. I thought you made it easy, and I thought you were deliberately pretending to be busy.
In fact, we are most afraid of such things in life, sometimes we are not afraid of paying, we are afraid that the people around us will not understand. This is especially true for couples or couples. You are busy with work every day, but your other half not only doesn't understand you, but also comes to make trouble with you, complaining that you don't go to accompany him and don't care about your family.
So, how do you get the people around you to understand that you are busy with work? The best thing to do is to get them involved.
Of course, the involvement here is not necessarily about asking them to do the work for you, but about letting them feel if you are really busy.
If you need to work overtime at night, you can call him to work overtime with you, and he doesn't necessarily want him to do anything for you, just let him be by your side and watch you busy. At this time, I guess you don't need to say a word, and they can see how busy you are.
Or you can also take the unfinished work home to do, when you have not finished it late at night, I believe that at this time your TA will be very sorry for you, complaining that your boss is really not a thing, giving you so much work.
Therefore, the best understanding is to involve them, otherwise, they will not be able to understand that you are busy at all. If you just complain about being busy with work in front of them, they can't understand it if they don't experience it firsthand.
Many times it is useless to complain, it is better to actually participate once.
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Let who understand, just understand yourself, what is the purpose of work, is to make money, in order to improve yourself, why do we bother to let others understand how busy they are at work, if he understands you, it's okay, if you don't understand, do you have to explain? There is no need to explain to such people, the work is your own, and the money you earn is also your own, there is no need to explain.
The nature of my husband's work is to go out early and return late, and sometimes he doesn't even come back overnight, no way, if I don't understand all kinds of reverie, I think we can't live our lives! And I still take care of the children by myself, he can't help at all, I can't accept it at the earliest, I can't live such a day, this family seems to be my own, and it has nothing to do with others.
Twice I went to work with him, his work was more miscellaneous, and the things he did were also miscellaneous, I followed him twice, and suddenly understood him very much, it was really difficult, he was so busy that he didn't even have time to eat, because he took me, he ate a bowl of wontons in a hurry, and then continued to work, this day his stomach was hungry, but he never complained, and never explained to me, he tried to cater to me when I lost my temper, and never said that he was very tired and let me understand.
I followed it twice, I knew, it is not easy for a man, it is even more difficult to make money to support a family, in this society, there are too many places to spend money, and I am still raising children, how can we live if I don't work hard to make money, those grievances are gone, the rest is just love for my husband, it is not easy for him to be alone for the family in recent years.
So I understand him better, I just hope to go to work early to share the burden for him, now that the child is older, we are both at work, and we work together for our common home, with more understanding and support, and the family will get better and better.
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If they send you a message, you can wait until the evening to get back to them and explain, "I'm sorry, I'm so busy during the day, so I'm only available to reply to you now." "That way people around you can understand that you're busy.
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You can talk to the people around you about your work and what you are doing at work, and tell the people around you that you love your work very much, and you want to do your job well, but when it is time to work, you should work hard, and when you get off work, you should relax and don't let yourself be too tired.
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If you want people around you to understand that you are busy with work, let them know what you do, what you do, what you do.
Communicate more in case of trouble, get along honestly, and put your heart into your heart, and you will definitely be able to get along.
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