What do you do when you have money that you can t get back?

Money.

Should you give it or give it, if you can't get it back, you can't get it back, and you don't point to these hundreds of dollars to make a fortune, it's worth it to recognize people's hearts with this money.

Maybe everyone will think that I am unkind, but I am just an ordinary classmate, and I don't have any old acquaintances with interests, and I won't go to the wedding if I am notified, and I will not go to the wedding with the money, and a word of congratulations is enough, and there are a lot less such troubles.

If the relationship is not good, you just don't follow it, and it's useless to follow it, and if you don't follow it, there is no way.

I also encountered the same thing, a classmate who had a good relationship got married, and I gave 600 when she got married, but WeChat showed that after she received the money, there was no follow-up, and she didn't reply to WeChat. For those who do not exchange this kind of gift, they will all be blocked.

Just spend money to recognize a person, although you will feel a little sad, but if you recognize the relationship, you don't have to make friends in the future.

I also met a colleague, I left the post for half a year, he sent me WeChat to say that he was going to get married, said several times, and then I gave him 400 yuan, although it is not much, but a colleague has followed, and then one day I flipped through WeChat (he is selling houses), I feel that he has not posted a circle of friends for a long time, and then I saw that it was deleted, I laughed at the time.

It depends on what the relationship is, if the relationship is very good, and it is not intentional to not give it to me, I must pretend that there is nothing, and I can follow as much as I want.

No matter what happened before, it is worth seeing a person clearly and having a clear conscience, and there is nothing to worry about, or you will not associate with him in the future.

I just didn't follow it, I knew that I didn't follow it, and I still wanted it, this kind of person, I'm also drunk.

In the future, this kind of person will not have to contact him, and he will be fine with the money.

Their family married their daughter and my husband went to Sui Li 8o0, and when our house moved to a new house, they came with 2oo, and then their son got married and notified us, we definitely didn't go.

It's time to go or to cheer! Life is not just a matter of two money!

What about those who don't return the gift.

1. Euphemism implies that when chatting with the other party, for fear that the other party will forget, you can inadvertently joke and say, "I'm getting married, are you ready for money?" If you don't have someone who understands your hints, such a friend just doesn't want to follow and don't associate with him in the future. 2. JokingWhen you invite someone to your wedding, if the other party says that you can't participate, then you can joke and say, "People are not polite, but they must come, oh, generally people who hear this say know what it means."

Todu will ask someone to send a red envelope to your wedding. 3. Ask a friend to help If you have a common good, you can ask a friend who has a good relationship to help you go to the side to listen, let this friend talk to him, and ask him how many red envelopes he gives, so as to remind him. This is the most direct way to send an invitation, that is, to send a clear post, regardless of whether the other party can be searched or not, he will talk to you, which means that he has been invited.

No matter if he can come or not, he can't make excuses and say "I forgot, I didn't invite me" This kind of excuse doesn't return the gift Let's talk about the rules of the return gift.

1. Most of the equivalent money is an equivalent gift. Not all returns are worth money, and in some cases they can be equal. For example, the time interval between receiving gifts and returning gifts is very short, not even more than a month, then you can return gifts to the other party at the same price.

There is also a situation that the two parties are colleagues, and the gift money exchange is carried out according to the high "**" in the unit, so the return gift can also be returned according to the amount of the internal gift within the unit. Second, when increasing the price to return the money, usually the most common way we do is to add some more to the amount received before as a return gift. We have always paid attention to the exchange of gifts, but whenever we give gifts in return, we will add a part to the original basis.

Of course, when you add money, remember that the amount of the return gift should be even. For example, the other party gave 600 yuan in money, and when you return the gift, you can return 800 or 1000 to Minzao, and still make up an auspicious number conclusion: if these hints are useless, it means that this person is really unwilling to give you a gift in return.

Such a person will have less contact in the future, after all, it is a share of money, and he can't ask others directly, but he can take this opportunity to see a person clearly.

For those who are married or not, it is indeed very hateful, they don't know how to be sophisticated, and they do do a bit excessive, you can try to use the following methods!

First, talk to them calmly.

Second, explain to the person concerned the tradition of reciprocal exchanges.

For those who are not familiar with etiquette, they may not understand that their behavior is impolite. Explain it to them well and let them understand the background and significance of this tradition.

Third, remind again within the intimate confines.

You can ask some friends or relatives to remind them of the importance of returning the gift in a more personal setting.

Fourth, try to tell them what the gift means to you.

If you give your beloved gift, hoping that the other party can understand its importance to you, maybe this kind of emotional exchange can make the other party better understand the meaning of returning the gift. Seventh, don't give any more gifts. If you have made your expectations clear to the other party, if you have given them multiple opportunities to return the gift, but they have not responded, then don't give another gift.

Fifth, give the other party some room for special circumstances. There are some reasons why people may not be able to send gifts in time, which cannot be avoided. If you know of a friend in this situation, consider giving them some grace.

They can be given a second chance. Maybe the other party really just forgot to return the gift, or didn't bother to return it. Under the concept of courtesy, give the other party a chance, maybe he will remember to return the gift!

If the above methods are useless, it means that the other party either really does not understand, or is unwilling to return the gift. In this case, you can only ignore the money. After all, this is not borrowing money, and it is not good to ask the other party directly.

can only say that through this matter, I can see a person clearly, and I don't contact him at all!

There are several ways to not return the gift.

1. Just kidding.

When you get married, invite each other to the wedding. If the other party says that he can't come to the wedding, he can jokingly say, "If you don't get a gift, you can get it!" Hearing this, people who want a little bit of face will send you a wedding red envelope back when you get married.

2. Euphemistically implying that when chatting with the other party, you can inadvertently say, "I'm getting married, are you ready for money"? Hint to him, and anyone who understands a little bit knows that you are thinking about your intentions.

3. Ask a friend for help.

If you have a mutual friend who has a better relationship with you, then you can ask this friend for help, let this friend talk to him, ask him how many red envelopes he plans to give, and see how he is.

4. Send invitations directly.

Sending an invitation is the most direct way, and the other party should tell you about it after receiving the invitation, whether they can come or not. And sending an invitation means that you have invited him, which is equivalent to reminding him to return the gift. At this time, he can't use the excuse of "I don't know about it, I didn't invite me" and so on to say that he missed the return gift.

Summary: If the above hints are useless, it means that the other party really doesn't understand whether he wants to regret it, or he is unwilling to return the gift. In this case, you can only ignore the money.

After all, this is not borrowing money, and it is not good to ask the other party directly. It can only be said that through this incident, I can see a person clearly.