I fell in love with a sister who was four years older than me

I think it's right, age is not a problem, if you like each other very much, then confess to the other person.

I'm not against ethical love, love is everyone's freedom, not to mention that it's not an ethical issue, distant cousins are already far away in blood relationships. Height is not an issue, age is not distance.

The most important thing is that if she doesn't have the idea of you being together, please let her go, and silently wish her happiness in your heart.

First of all, this must be a difficult journey, and the end is all to the cliff, you belong to the forbidden love, and it may be just your unrequited love, so that you will not be able to walk a smooth road like a normal couple.

Let me tell you a story, it is a true story that happened to me, at that time I was only in the sixth grade of primary school, one of my sisters who played well was two years older than me, she studied late, and she was in the first year of junior high school, and the girls at that time didn't know what love was like, but they all more or less touched the threshold of love, and knew what the special feelings for the opposite sex were about, so they also began to have their own little secrets of adolescence. My relationship with this little sister is very good, and the two of them often secretly go to each other's homes to sleep at night, and naturally want to share their hearts before going to sleep, one day, maybe she feels that her little secret is going to be suppressed, so she said it, hoping that I can share it with her. She told me that she fell in love with the cousin who went to and from school with us every day, saying that it was a cousin, but in fact, it was just that their father was from the same village, although there was a blood relationship, but it was not the kind of cousin, and the age difference between the two people was not much, the boy was a lively and active person, and liked to make girls happy, no matter what relationship you had with her, so it accidentally touched a girl's heart, but the other party didn't know it.

There was not much to say about the process, the girl anonymously wrote a love letter to him with her left hand, but said that it was written by another girl, but the boy did not realize that this should be the bravest thing she had ever done for the little secret of adolescence. In the end, both of them went out to work, and the girl is now the mother of three children, and she basically doesn't come back, and the boy also has a girlfriend, and this relationship seems to have nothing but my memory. Therefore, the forbidden love must be unsightly, and the ending is naturally the most unpredictable, it is better to cherish the feelings in your heart, so that she will always be the most beautiful.

First of all, you need to figure out whether you two belong to the type of person who can't get married, then you need to knock on the side of your parents to see if they can accept this relationship, and finally confess to your cousin. If the first two don't work, rest assured.

If you really like her, you must cherish it. Be bold and let go, and don't be bound by the age of ethics.

Of course, I also hope that you can think carefully about whether you really like her.

Actually, I don't think it's good to say that, after all, it's your cousin.

There is a difference between what is said on the first floor and what is prescribed by law. The law stipulates that you must be outside the five suits to get married. You're all in the fourth suit now.

Marriage of consanguineous relatives is not good for offspring. You were right to decide to quit her life. I want to explain to him calmly and seriously the reasons why I can't fall in love, so that she can understand.