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Are you a girl? Grasp your studies, your parents spent a lot of experience in order to provide you with school, now although you love each other, but, to look ahead, there are many excellent people of the opposite sex in front, people's life is not about their own love, but in this life is meaningless, give up, early love is not good, it is just a beautiful and bitter fruit.
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You're stupid, you're only a few years old, there's still a long way to go in the future, don't be for a woman you're not sure if it's your true love.
Give up on your bright future.
Wait until you succeed in your studies to find true love.
It's only a sophomore in high school, and since you know that studying is very important, don't be confused and step up your study.
Listen to me and learn well is very important.
Besides, you can only find a good job if you have a good study and take care of your beloved girl in the future.
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I'm graduating this year. Experience. Talking about the old age. To put it mildly, you like him or her, and it's not necessary to break up.
Nowadays, what is early love, elementary school students are in love.
Since they are all high school students, they have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong and feelings, and it is okay to fall in love.
If you really love each other, you can study together and work together, and when you study, you will be more energetic together, and it is very helpful to encourage each other.
It turns out that there is a pair in my class, from one year of high school to graduation, and now they are also very good, and their grades have also improved a lot after being together, really).
People who really like each other will not fall in love at the cost of delaying each other's studies.
Just spend a few hours together on a day off or something, and you must not squeeze out study time to play together, otherwise it is not good to delay each other.
Once your relationship has too much impact on your studies, you must choose to focus on studying.
After you finish the college entrance examination, you will realize that studying is more important than anything else.
Let's study hard with the people you love!
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Neither karma nor love matters! The important thing is that you have experienced it!
Youth is short-lived!As for your hesitation there, it's better to have a good love! Even if it's hurt, it's okay! Because you get the experience! You've experienced that don't wait until it's time to tie this damn tie, there's no time!
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Study, come over, learn first, if she is a good girl, she can understand.
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Let's learn, and there will be plenty of opportunities in the future. Or, one day in the future, you will be proud of your decision today, or you will regret it, and weigh it yourself.
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There is no conflict between study and love, and if you work together, there will be a great future
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Learn, it's too early to talk about feelings.
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Everyone is different, and I can not think about anything else while I study.
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Love is sweet and bitter, some love is young and some love is mature, and different people will have different feelings when they fall in love. In today's social environment, there are many distorted views of love, and college is no exception. For example, money worshippers who love money too much will do things out of the ordinary for money, and some college students are willing to marry each other just for a little academic welfare, and even more so on college campuses, some people are proud of fast-food love, and are ashamed of long-distance love and being serious and responsible, which is not right.
Love is selfless, not for the sake of having a picture and yearning for it, the initial love may indeed be because of some superficial phenomena, but slowly get along for a long time will become more and more like each other, and fall in love with each other's advantages and disadvantages, love is inclusive, will not abandon each other casually because the other party has any mistakes.
The love of contemporary college students gradually tends to fast-food love, at the beginning you and I are nong, but slowly a little thing begins to break up, and the breakup is quite simple, without looking back. This is because everyone didn't really treat this relationship at the beginning, just with the mentality of giving it a try, just wanting to get sweetness in love, but never thinking about how to deal with disputes in love, and only acting on their own feelings. Therefore, everyone will emphasize their gains and losses more in the relationship, and be ready to withdraw at any time.
Some people say that this is actually very good, showing their independent personality, love and hate.
Therefore, college students should put the same thoughts, common beliefs and pursuits in the first place, and take the good soul, noble sentiment and psychological integration as the first criterion for choosing a mate.
Correctly handle the relationship between love and study.
Love is beautiful, it is an important part of the content of life, but it is not the whole of life, it should be subordinated to studies and promote the development of studies. A person's love will only be better if he succeeds in his studies. Therefore, college students should put their studies first and put the relationship between love and academics right.
Understand that love is a kind of giving.
College students should understand that love is not only to get, but more importantly, a kind of responsibility and dedication. Once a college student enters the kingdom of love, he must have a strong sense of responsibility and dedication in order to attain noble love.
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Love and studies are more important, I haven't understood it since I was young, it's not that I don't understand it, it's that I don't understand it at all.
In fact, in this and real society, most people will say that if you have a career, you will have love, so if you don't have a career, there will be no love! The answer is definitely no.
Love is very important in college, which is more important and which can be chosen, it is not who has the final say, it depends on the degree of personal understanding. I think it's better than my studies. It should be four years later, going their separate ways, who cares about whom, who will pay attention to whom.
Those who have given up their studies can only regret there.
I'm not saying that there can't be love, I'm just saying that the proportional ones say that they are divided into perfect ** dividing points, no more and no less, not all of them, and not all of them.
It's all personal. This is a personal opinion. It does not represent the opinion of the general public.
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With academic love, come by yourself.
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The relationship between academic performance and affection is an important issue that is difficult for college students to control and must be handled correctly.
Love is sweet, but in addition to the beautiful side in love, sometimes there are hidden dangers. For example, some people will use mind control to satisfy their own desire for control by destroying others' self-esteem and self-confidence, and manipulating others. What should you do when faced with love that is against your will or not for you?
The first is to resolutely refuse, dare to say no, and take the initiative to inform relatives or friends of their situation, listen to their advice, and seek legal or psychological assistance if necessary; The second is to enhance self-confidence, firmly believe that you are valuable, worthy of love, and worthy of respect; The third is to learn to channel negative emotions, negative emotions can not be suppressed too much but should be properly vented, "talking to friends" is much more comfortable than "putting it in your heart and solving it yourself". You can also find other reasonable ways to vent your negative emotions.
When love encounters setbacks, college students should learn to self-mediate and dredge and improve their own endurance. So what do you do when your love is frustrated or you fall out of love? The first is to evaluate oneself correctly and reasonably, that is, to calmly analyze the reasons for falling out of love, find out one's own shortcomings and try to correct them, and constantly improve oneself.
The second is positive self-suggestion, that is, after falling out of love, you can't use "I'm not as good as others" to imply yourself, so as to avoid falling into a negative psychological stereotype. The third is emotional sublimation, turning to rationality with an open-minded attitude, and turning the pain of falling out of love into a motivation for learning. Realize from a rational level that losing love does not mean losing the meaning of life, devote your mind to learning, and transform negative emotions into positive behaviors.
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1. We must know how to understand and trust each other.
Couples must learn to understand and trust each other, so as to create a happy and relaxed atmosphere, must not be constrained by love, whether it is a man or a woman, must have a certain sense of morality and responsibility for love.
In addition, you should balance the relationship between career and love, and don't spend all your precious time in love and relax your studies.
2. Develop healthy love behaviors.
In the process of falling in love, couples must maintain respect for each other, and cannot tease one party or greatly belittle each other, which is easy to hurt their self-esteem and affect their feelings.
In addition, love behavior should be down-to-earth and generous, and it is necessary to pay attention to the behavior and demeanor should not be too little intimate behavior, otherwise it will lead to disgust of the woman.
3. Learn to control your feelings.
When you are in love, it is easy to arouse sexual impulses, and you must learn to regulate and control them in a timely manner, and you can try to divert your attention and participate in more interest activities.
In such a process, we must pay attention to elegance in speech, avoid rude behavior, and never speak disrespectfully, otherwise it will cause damage to the self-esteem of the other party and affect the relationship between couples.
It is important to note that there are elegant intimate gestures, which can not only maintain the relationship between couples, but also warm up the relationship, but vulgar intimate gestures may cause negativity.
4. Feelings must be single-minded.
When college students fall in love, they must correct the relationship between friendship and love, because their thinking is not very mature, and they are easily swayed by the surrounding environment and people, which affects the relationship between them.
You can't have an affair with other women, and you must ensure that your relationship is exclusive during your relationship.
First, you must not be in the morning.
5. Economically, we must do what we can.
During college, the economy is not independent, and the living expenses are mainly in Brother Min's family, and when you fall in love, you must have a certain amount of economic consumption, you must do what you can, and you must not exceed the range you can afford, otherwise it will affect your life and study.
Both men and women must give more when they are in love, rather than taking it directly, which will make one party very tired, so it is necessary to establish a correct love relationship and think more about each other.
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