I always want to prove my friendship with others

What if you put yourself in your friend's shoes?

I hope you think more about him, since he is so important to you.

You should care a lot about his feelings.

If you do that, he won't be disgusted?

Personal opinion.

Bless you to put.

Don't leave even if you're ignored. If you leave, the friendship of those three people is over. So you have to make yourself shine harder and let them look at your brilliance.

I think it's better to find another friend to join you, or just go to someone else, because there must be a light bulb in a threesome.

It's better to quit silently. If two of the three people have a particularly good relationship, it will make the other person feel uncomfortable. At this time, nothing will be done, and the best option is to quit silently.

I think that since I already feel that I have been neglected, maybe this friendship is a bubble friendship, if the relationship is really good, there will be no such feelings, since it is a bubble friendship, don't care too much.

If you are the one who is ignored, then I suggest that such girls do not put too much emotion into it, otherwise it will hurt more, and if you cherish this relationship, you must find your own sense of existence.

Girls don't have the friendship of three people, only two people's best friends, and three women will always go wrong together, and they are always ignored, indicating that you and they are not fellow travelers.

You're too anxious.

If it's not something very important, there's really no need to be so demanding.

It is recommended to exercise more, relax and be more confident.

If the other party doesn't reply to the message, it will be uncomfortable for anyone, especially for the person you like. If the other party doesn't reply to messages, don't deliberately keep sending messages, that will make you very passive. You can send out a message at a different time, and if you send a message, don't always send a regular one, you can send a ** topic.

It may be that there is nothing to talk about, and it is better to find another person to talk to.

I used to be like this, I thought if I said something wrong, but now I don't, first, maybe someone else just went to do something and forgot to tell you. Second, and most importantly, I don't have to be responsible for other people's emotions. Heck, it's really nothing, you don't have too much psychological pressure, just be casual.

It's a situation that everyone will encounter. I believe that everyone's mood is the same. When you are chatting with someone, they don't reply, and you must feel uncomfortable.

I've been in this situation as well. When I meet such a person, I won't take the initiative to chat with him next time. Relatively speaking, the psychological quality of this kind of person is a little lower.

When someone comes to you and you don't reply, it's also a sign of disrespect. For such a person, talk to him less in the future and leave farther away.

This shows that you are a more sensitive and inferior person, you want to be valued by others, and there are often a lot of negative thoughts in your heart, sometimes you know that this is not right, but such thoughts will still pop up. My advice is, don't care too much about what other people think, don't think too negatively about other people, and don't think too much about many things.

Your expectations are too high, and the web chat is casual, don't mind too much.

You have to relax, don't think too much, it's still quite happy to pretend to be stupid occasionally, and you will be very happy.

If you feel uncomfortable, no one can help you.

When chatting often, everyone pays more attention to the object and content of the chat, but sometimes there may be something and cannot reply to the version in time; For example, if you go to the health room, or come to the guests, or come to **, you can't help but take urgent matters, and you won't be able to reply in time, so you have to understand, you can ask afterwards, and if there is something, talk about it next time.

Normal scheming, it means that you don't have a sense of security, people don't reply to your messages, do you think people are ignoring you, angry, or you just made a mistake in your language and hurt others. In fact, you don't need to think like this, wow, people may have something, or people are busy, suddenly someone comes, is accompanying a guest, or diarrhea to the toilet, you don't always can't think about it, think about it, but in fact, your idea is also very good, because I think you are very kind, waste materials you care about the feeling of love.

1. Early experience with high expectations.

If a person receives little attention when they are young, or is often ignored, they will be especially eager to receive attention from others when they grow up.

Our psyche is often the same as our body, and we crave what we lack.

Maslow believes that people need to obtain the most basic physiological needs (eating, drinking, Lazar, etc.) before they will pursue a higher level of security needs (whether they are safe, first physiologically, and then psychologically, including whether they have money, etc.), and then we will pursue whether to belong and love (whether to be loved, whether to integrate into the collective, whether to be concerned, whether to love others or things, etc.), and then to pursue the need for respect (whether to be respected, whether to be recognized, whether to achieve, etc.), Finally, there is the need to pursue self-realization (aesthetic, self-cultivation, spiritual pursuit, etc.).

From Maslow's hierarchy of needs, we need to obtain the lowest level of needs before we pursue higher levels of needs.

Psychology believes that need is our internal driving force, is the driving force that prompts us to continue to obtain, it is precisely because of the existence of need that we can continue to obtain, and continue to grow on the way to meet needs.

But those unmet needs, such as the lack of attention we talked about above, will continue to push us to acquire them in various ways as we grow up, and make us wonder if we are being noticed in life.

That's why we are unusually concerned about whether the other party replies to the message in a timely manner, because it involves whether we are paid attention to in a timely manner.

Gave the other person high expectations, looking forward to being replied to, looking forward to being noticed.

2. The suppression of the "superego".

There is such a type of people, they represent the "superego" of social morality and norms is extremely powerful, and they often appear as "good people" in life, and often do not know how to reject others, and often "deduct the black pot" for others or watch others "deduct the black pot" for themselves.

Even if you know that others will not reply to your messages in time, as long as others send a message, you will reply quickly, for fear that others will have any prejudices against you. Even if you know that the other person doesn't reply to messages very often, or even won't reply to your own messages, you still want to get a reply from others, and you care about it.

This type of person is generally because they may have been in a situation of domestic violence, dominance, and dispute for a long time in their early experience, so that they will hurt themselves or back down in exchange for "harmony" in adulthood, even if they know that the other party will not reply to their messages, but they still can't help but wonder if there is something wrong with them, or they will think that "they are not good" and the other party does not reply.

Signs of insecurity, try not to think about the outcome, and don't take the person you're talking to so important. Someone is generally because they care too much about the other party will not receive the other party's response is not a taste, to put it bluntly, the heart has a sense of dependence on this person, you have to try to relieve this sense of dependence with him, to understand, no one has to reply to your message, if she really deliberately does not want to pay attention to you, then you will ignore him in the future, there must be something more important to you in the world than her replying to your message! Negligible!

Usually he doesn't reply to your messages.

Just don't look forward to it.

Find someone who likes you.

In fact, there are several situations when people don't reply to you:

Didn't see it, missed it.

I feel that the topic can be over, and there is no need to reply.

I really don't know what to answer.

Don't think too much, don't go back if you don't go back.

Probably everyone has this feeling more or less, the more people who care, the stronger this feeling, the more people often want to get what they can't get, so they may care more about the more they can't get it, they won't do what they want, but they often backfire, so they should be at peace with the situation, don't care so much, and often warn themselves, just like doing business and always thinking about making a lot of money, but not making money, not thinking about how much money to make, but there will be unexpected gains, so if you want things to become ideal, you have to change your mood, The more you want him to reply to you, the more he will not reply, then you have to change your state of mind, you don't want him to reply, it doesn't matter if you don't reply or not, anyway, I don't have that extravagant hope for what will happen, then things will be different, good luck.

This only shows that you are not mature enough and a little selfish. It's understandable that others also have their own things and may be busy, it's not that the other party will reply to you immediately if you send a message, so you have to overcome this mental effect of yourself, so that you can make more good friends.

You don't have to be uncomfortable if you don't reply to your messages when you chat with others, maybe your friend is inconvenient, maybe someone is working, or something is inconvenient, you should be understandable, you can be in the micro when you think he is not busy, like meal time, if you finish the other party, he has not replied to your question, it is not easy to say, if so, you can try to give him a ** to see how people talk to you, communicate if you don't listen well, Then you can just put it down, if you still have the other party in your heart, he will explain it to you, and have a meal together to increase friendship

It's better not to take it to heart, we all have this kind of thing. Some are because I didn't see it at the time, if I see that most people will reply, but there will be no return, at this time who will feel uncomfortable, if it's the same person, you always don't reply after sending a chat message, then don't talk to someone, that person doesn't want to talk to you, can't go to the heart, what a big deal, think about it.

Chat with others and don't reply to your message normal reaction, but don't think too much, maybe the other party is busy and doesn't have time, you have to consider the problem from all aspects, under normal circumstances, you will basically reply, or the other party doesn't want to chat with you, nothing uncomfortable and calm down. In fact, sometimes don't care too much about some small things, so you feel unhappy.

I think maybe you are not confident in your heart, and you are always afraid that you will say the wrong thing and others will be unhappy. In fact, you don't have to care too much about other people's opinions, you don't have other bad intentions, so the other person won't think that way. It doesn't matter if the other party doesn't like it, who can guarantee that everyone likes them, just be yourself.

When you ask this question, think about it, are you in trouble, is it that the person you always thought was a friend suddenly cold to you or something? In the past, I felt the same way, no matter how close my friends were, it was annoying to stick together for three days, and I always thought that I didn't have good friends, until now I found out that in fact, those are my best friends. What I want to say to you is that everyone has their own space, no matter how close friends are, they must keep themselves and respect each other, and do a better job of themselves, if you think that is a rare friend, and he is indeed not bad, then you should cherish it, and don't say that it will last forever, love is still difficult to say, for friendship naturally can not be too fantasizing, everyone in this society has his things to be busy, true friendship is indeed able to stand the test of time, but absolutely you always see the connection, this is a feelingAs I said upstairs, sometimes managing friendships is also about looking at some art.

As long as it involves people's feelings, it all depends on both parties, I dare not say that the friendship between me and my friends will last forever, but I dare to say that they are rare and rare friends I have met, so cherish them. Bless you.

It is very rare, if a person is unwilling to contact each other in his heart, it is difficult to become a friend, so men and women have become good friends, then it means that the heart has not been excluded, then it is possible to become any relationship, to have a pure friendship, it is only a period of time...

In fact, there is no absolutely right answer to many things, and of course there is no absolute error. Personally, I believe that there is a pure friendship between men and women!

Because people are lonely animals, they need the care and love of others, they need someone to talk to when they are troubled, and they need to have caring friends (regardless of gender).

After all, there are only a limited number of people in this world who can become boyfriend and girlfriend, and there are more factors to consider in a relationship than a friend. Friends only need to fall in love and get along with each other happily, especially there are many kinds of friends, and they may only need to be good friends with you in a certain aspect.

However, if friends of the opposite sex have too close a relationship, or if the relationship gradually changes over time, it is also very likely to develop into lovers.

But it won't last long.

As long as you believe in each other, why care what others think?

Don't care too much about what others think.

It's good to believe it yourself.