Why is it that at the same age, others have a car, a house, and a girlfriend, but I don t have it

First of all, you are not a rich second generation, and you don't have rich and powerful parents, so you have to work your own to make your children become rich second generation; Secondly, you are not handsome enough, at least not to the point of having beautiful women upside down, so you have to try to make up for this fact from somewhere else, that is, work hard to make yourself charismatic.

You are still very young, work hard, 80% of this society is your current state of people, no need to be psychologically unbalanced!

This is called sharpening the knife and cutting firewood. As the saying goes, useless is a scholar. IQ multiplied by knowledge = gain.

Sharpening knives plus chopping wood for a day, intelligence and learning for a lifetime. People who only pay attention to learning are naturally not comparable to others, and people who only know how to play, so what to compare. The right allocation of time between you and others in terms of broadening your mind and learning knowledge is what differentiates you from others.

When I feel that I am lacking in knowledge when I am working. Explain that you lack the time to study. When you learn to find that the results of your work are not as good as you imagined, it means that you should have fun, go out for a walk, broaden your mind, improve your IQ, and feel very different when you return to work.

Within a certain range, it is normal for "things to gather like and people to divide into groups". As for the behavior of looking down on people, it may actually be an abnormal reaction that has not gotten rid of the previous inferiority complex after regaining self-esteem. In addition, it may indeed be a sudden burst of vanity, which brings a sense of superiority at work.

There is nothing to look down on, he looks down on you and doesn't tell you, one day her man dumped her, and when he was looking for teeth all over the ground, there were times when you were happy. The more you can. The sooner the person who shows off dies.

Only you know whether you are doing well or not, and it is not certain whether you are crying or laughing! Don't envy, don't be jealous, don't blush, live your own life, work hard to be yourself, and be down-to-earth with what you have gained through your own hard work.

Is it a common girl who looks down on you who has a car and a house, and you can afford nothing and still sour others every day?

The boyfriend is the boyfriend, and it's quite outrageous to start the dream of a broad wife before he gets married, and many girls may end up getting married and being lost by themselves.

It may be that the more people feel that they are missing something, the more they will show off to others.

It is undeniable that some women are indeed as you say, but there are also many women who have a very positive outlook. So, don't be discouraged, maybe one day, you'll meet a good girl.

Now girls will choose to have a house and a car when they are looking for a boyfriend, because the environment is good and the conditions are good, and girls will live better when they get married in the future.

Older age is one of the reasons, but there are other reasons as well.

1.I am busy with work and have no time, people who have a house and a car are generally busy at work, and when I was young, I worked hard to make money, and I didn't practice fighting to find a partner, so I have never had a partner.

2.If you can't meet the right person, when you are young, there are many single people around you, and you can choose from a wide range, but when you get older, you find that the people around you are basically married. It's too hard to meet the right people, 3

Personality problems, both men and women, there are quite a few people, and many of them are more homely and introverted. It's especially difficult to even speak and communicate, let alone spark love.

4.There is no good blind date channel.

1.Put finding a partner in the first place, take time, now that you have a car and a house, you don't have to work so hard, and spend more time and energy on finding a partner.

2.Change your personality, get rid of the status quo of lazy home, socialize more, and attend more parties.

3.Make good use of mobile phones, such as a marriage and love, 51 blind dates in the same city, and many single users above. It greatly ensures the safety of users, and the information is very clear, because everyone has a clear purpose, so the efficiency of getting rid of orders will be higher.

If you can't find a partner with a house and a car, it may be a bit of a big reason, or it may be that the requirements are too high, and you haven't met the right person for you. Of course, sexual reasons and so on are not excluded. Let's take a look at the relevant knowledge.

How to find a partner:

Participating in social activities mainly refers to making full use of the social activities organized by units and related institutions to broaden their horizons and improve the probability of finding suitable objects. When using the mate selection vehicle, it is necessary to pay attention to two points: First, it is necessary to have a sense of self-protection, to participate in the social activities organized by regular units and institutions with relevant qualifications, and to pay attention to protecting personal privacy and preventing being deceived.

The second is to improve the ability to discriminate, there are many institutions for marriage now, some personal information may be incomplete and inaccurate, and some people may have various purposes, and they must improve their ability to discriminate.

There are many ways to find the right object. Either way, it's important to: set the criteria and be thoughtful; Expand the scope and actively search; Take the initiative to do it.

I hope that every man and woman of appropriate age can find a suitable object and be able to taste the fruits of love.

Expanding the scope of mate selection in a timely manner mainly refers to expanding the scope of one's choice of partners in a timely manner, and selecting the best of the best. Everyone's life circle, work circle, and interpersonal circle are certain, and if you only find a partner in your familiar circle, it has certain limitations. In order to find the right object, it is necessary to go out of your circle and expand the scope of the object you are looking for.

For example, crossing the field of work, crossing geographical restrictions, cultivating more hobbies and making more friends, and so on. It is necessary to expand the scope of mate selection, broaden one's horizons, and choose the best of the best.

No, there are many reasons for finding a significant other, such as personality, social circle, interpersonal relationships, etc.

The age factor is only a part, and I personally feel that personality accounts for the majority.

For example, some people have girlfriends in their twenties, and some people are also about the same age and can't find them, and it is possible that there is a girlfriend who is not as good-looking as another.

Some are in their thirties, to be honest, it's not too early to get married, or they are already married, but the opposite sex is very good, and even married, but there are many ambiguous objects, and some are not married in their thirties and have no girlfriends. It is possible that the conditions of the former are not as good as the latter.

So I always feel that personality is the main reason.

No, it's because many people now will live well if they don't get married, so they don't get married.

Is it because of the age that you can't find a partner with a car and a house, in fact, the more high-income people tend to have higher requirements for the other half. It's hard to find someone with similar qualifications. Sometimes there is a reason for being older, but the ultimate reason is not this.

It is also caused by the harsh requirements of the mate chooser.

Of course not, because you haven't met the right person yet, you are not in a hurry to find a partner, the more anxious you are, the more you can't find a good one, after all, you have to live with us for a lifetime, and you have to find those boys who match you with your three views and like you very much.

Hello, this should be a personal reason. Now love knows no age, as long as you have the conditions, you can find the other half.

No, Yang Zhenning is old, Zhang Jizhong is old, not they have all found a partner, or their own reasons.

My daughter can't find a partner and doesn't want to settle, and now that she's old and hasn't gotten married, what should I do? Don't settle, meet the right person at the right time to be happy, don't rush to marry just because you're old, you still have to find the object, but don't be in a hurry to marry. It's important to meet the right people.

Since you will have more free time when you are single, you might as well learn more things, such as swimming, fitness, yoga, or traveling, languages, cooking, etc. Let life be full of life, maybe you will find the right one.

Nowadays, if you have a house and a car, you can't find a partner, maybe you are older and less than you, and it's hard to find.

It is also possible that such people have their own requirements, and even now they only want to focus on their careers, which will make them postpone finding a partner.