No one has a period of confusion when they reach 19 or 20?

I'm a girl, and I feel the same way, and I always feel that sometimes working hard is just the way it looks, and I can't think about it, and doing everything is boring and boring, and I feel like I've lost the direction and motivation to work hard, and I feel so lost, and I hate myself now, but I can't not be myself, and I can't let myself go on like this, and I waste all my time and energy on depression, and I waste my time like this, so I put a circle on the calendar every day from Monday to Saturday, and when I look back on Sunday, the days have been passed by me as an ellipsis Hey, don't say it These ellipses really reminded me that we still have to do what we have to do, we are not exempt from vulgarity, we all have to fight for bread and ideals, if we just complain every day with a sad face, it would be useful This society does not raise idlers, so I think it is normal for us to have such thoughts and depression at our age All the difficulties that will be encountered in the future and the things that do not go well will be waited until ten years from now to look at the difficulties ahead"Break"Just on the line After all, none of us can predict the future often get together with classmates and friends to discuss how to go in the future But sometimes the back foot on the road The road doesn't have its own direction So we have to work hard to get out of our own way, the landlord gogo come on!!

That's basically it. This age is considered a transition period between maturity and immaturity.

I've been a little lost lately.

No direction I just graduated from school.

Graduated from technical secondary school.

I'm still taking my self-exam.

But as long as I read on Sunday, I would be fine.

Monday to 6 I don't know what to do.

In October, the exam will be taken.

3men professional.

I haven't even read the book.

Because I can't see it.

It's so boring to be online all day at home.

Yes, there is, and as long as we know the taste, because we will have to rely on ourselves in the future, your parents are getting old day by day, and you don't know how to maintain it, your own time is also flying, and in a blink of an eye you are no longer a student, you can no longer enjoy the winter and summer vacations so easily, and in a blink of an eye, the burden on your shoulders seems to be a lot heavier, the future home, the future of your her, now I don't know if the future will be happy......

I used to be the same as you, but then I realized that thinking so much really only needs to make our hearts tired, so we can live a simpler life, work hard, do a good job in the task at hand, and live and work with a normal heart. You will find that although life is plain, it is sweet; Although life is stressful, you can face it calmly, and with a partner with you, you won't have so many distractions.

There is always an end to time, make good use of every minute, and strive to do more things that are meaningful to you. I sincerely advise you to get out of the fog, and the willows will be bright.

It's still a matter of mentality, make more good friends, communicate more with your parents, do more meaningful activities, don't think about useless things, adjust your mentality, and put learning first!

I'm 20 years old now, and when I think back to my 20s, I'm very confused.

Why do I say this, first of all, I saw the teenagers and began to discuss very clearly which school I want to go to, what major to study, and how many points I am still away from this school; When you encounter something that has set the direction of your life since you were a child, you have to learn something and take the road in this direction; I also understood that the money for a villa was not so easy to earn. Because I haven't encountered these things now, I realized how hot my 20-year-old self was. There is no direction, no positioning, no planning.

Take one step at a time to see the state of one step at a time.

I started working at the age of 22, I chose the company at will, the position I chose at will, the promotion at will without knowing the reason, and I was transferred to become a worker in the field of training at will, until 3 years ago, I was determined to do training in the field of talent development, why do I want to do this profession, how high is the prospect of this profession and how high is the ceiling, what is the development that can be derived from this profession, and I have been thinking about it for a long time? It wasn't until 2 years ago that I was able to talk to the company about salary increases, why give me a rise, my value point is **, whether I am worth it, slippery because the time in the first company is very long, salary and benefits are what the company wants to give as much as I want, I accept it.

Now it looks like I'm slowly coming out of the confusion, and I summarize the following 5 points:

1. Be sure to find a powerful senior to communicate the career development path, and don't go forward by yourself. If you don't have anyone to consult, search for *** in the field, Douyin, Weibo, Zhihu, etc., there are many teachers who are talking about this content.

2. At a lower cost, I read more books, such as: workplace, tools, biographies, and inspirational books.

4. I think people in the workplace can often ask themselves such a sentence: what am I worth now, and how much am I worth! Don't look inside the company, look at the market for your own position or you want to achieve high requirements, the recruitment ** is very clear, according to the requirements of the recruitment position to check and fill in the gaps, directional promotion.

20 years old, which is an enviable age. If I were to go back in time, I would like to go back to 20 years old, even if it was 10 years. This is a helpless sigh from the elders.

For a person who has come over, I can understand your confused feelings, after all, I have experienced twenty years of age along the way. "I eat more salt than you eat, and I cross more bridges than you walk. "I don't know if you've ever heard that?

This sentence is a sentence that an elder often said to me at that time, but I didn't think so at that time. What is your future? Did you have a good second half of your life?

If you are not born in a golden nest, there are two important choices in this life. When he was a student, he studied hard, was diligent and studious, and used knowledge to change his fate. This is the best choice for poor families and children from ordinary civilian families without a background, and the ancients were all like this.

If you're not sure about me in this level, then choose the second level. Take advantage of your age to learn a skill (craft) while you are young. Old people often say:

With an art in hand, you don't have to worry about eating and drinking. Craftspeople definitely earn more than the average office worker, unless you're a capable executive. First bitter and then sweet, if you want to be superior, you must first be bitter.

Threesome, there must be my teacher, 20 years old, with good people, radiant, with bad people, fall into the abyss, to be with people who dare to criticize your mistakes, he is your guiding light, do not be with those who talk flatteringly, because you have no ability to discern, it is easy to be used, there are thousands of roads, life is constantly choosing and abandoning, and the essence of the final filter is your future direction.

The age of 20 years old is the age when there are young people who are confused. You should be calm. Be brave enough to face the difficulties you face in your life and work.

Lost because you are not strong enough in your own heart. I can't bear the pressure of society. It's normal to be confused.

Because you are not yet familiar with the realities of this society. and the pressures of this society. Want to survive in this society.

It's about facing all the challenges in life and at work. Then you will mature slowly. I know how to adapt to this society.

When you are confused, you have to choose a path that truly belongs to you. Don't take a detour. Follow the right people.

Study hard. Work hard. Down-to-earth.

Conscientious. Giving will always pay off, and I wish all young people the road ahead. It's getting better and better.

The work went well. In good shape. Family harmony.

20 years old, everyone has to go through the ** age, to go through the life choice of the pass, people don't often say: women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, men are afraid of choosing the wrong line, it is the confused period of life, looking back at the youth, I can't help but want to laugh, looking forward to the future journey, I can't help but feel melancholy, at this crossroads, choose the right way you are brilliant, choose the dark is death, in fact, who persuades you is useless, the key is your own control, restrain your arrogance, open your arms, take your steps, Show your smile, break, you have to have no hesitation, keep, you have to strengthen your confidence, flat, you can only eat and wait for death, mediocre, you can only go home to gnaw the old. The road is at the foot, the things are man-made, the human heart is elusive, the last moment is still young and frivolous, the next moment has already been exported, relying on no one is as confident as their own, relying on no one is as firm as their own ism.

In this watershed between teenagers and young people, that is, there is the excitement of the career, and there is the fear of starting a business, in fact, when it comes to a certain age, the ideas are different, just want to stabilize the elderly will definitely say: down-to-earth, do what they should do well, cherish what they are looking for, because they know that they just blindly rush and hit, by mistake, it is like hitting the marriage, with luck, your fate can be handed over to the will of God. And for some middle-aged people:

Although, just crossed the threshold of 20 years old, they will definitely say: young people should dare to fight, can afford to take, can put down, in their hearts more or less, and some are unwilling, and they can't be careless, in one of the old and young, they must learn to forbear, so, they will let you break through.

20-year-old girls must establish the concept of independence, diligence and thrift! When looking for a boyfriend, you can't blindly ask for 'rich and handsome', but you should pay attention to the like-mindedness and temperament, and be able to 'take care of your family, love your wife and protect your children', take care of each other and live a good life! In this way, 20-year-old young people who have a clear direction will grow up while studying, working hard, and exploring and growing, and will soon mature and steady, and their future will gradually become clearer!

With the accumulation of experience, the refinement of the mind, and the ability to become stronger and stronger, it is natural that you will no longer be confused!

In particular, I want to emphasize that this age group must establish a correct view of marriage: 20-year-old boys must establish the concept of self-improvement and support for their families! When looking for a girlfriend, you can't blindly ask for 'white rich beauty', but you should pay attention to the like-mindedness and temperament, and be able to 'husband and children' take care of each other and live a good life!

I'll tell you again: 20-year-old people, boys and girls, need to start thinking about how they can earn money to support themselves! Don't have the idea of relying on your parents for the rest of your life!

Even if you don't have an accurate goal for a while, don't panic, this is also a normal phenomenon, don't worry at all! You can start planning your own work ideals that you can or are interested in, try to enter the society, cross the river by feeling the stones, and gradually accumulate experience and succeed!

20 years old is not too old or too young, and you may still be studying on a college campus, so at this age, what you are confused about is watching your classmates around you indulge in games, watching the moment of graduation come, and your heart is flustered. I don't know if I am serious and hard working in school, and whether I can adapt and play well in the job after entering the society. Or maybe they have already entered the society and started working, but because they left the society early, their cultural level is a little lacking.

In addition, the mentality at this age is not very stable, and there are more or less complaints from young people. Faced with the salary received every month, the Huabei and credit cards owed every month, and they were unable to pay it back. So you're lost.

It doesn't matter where you are at 20 and what the situation is. You should be clear about what you want, what you want to do, what you can do, and what you can do well, in the final analysis, the end of confusion is how to make money. So go for it.

Nowadays, many young people complain every day that they have no money, no house, no car, or the pressure of having to pay off their mortgage. If you want to live a comfortable life, you will naturally be stressed. Instead of being a resentful woman complaining all day long, it is better to be a young man who puts down his head and works hard.

At the age of 20, if we work diligently for ten years and save 3,000 a month, it will be more than 300,000 yuan in ten years. When we have the start-up capital, at that time you are not satisfied with the status quo, you can invest in the business. If you are content with the status quo, take a mortgage, buy a house, buy a car, and live a stable and happy life with your family.

Don't stare at other people's houses and cars, have you ever thought that other people's money is not earned overnight, you only see other people's laughter, but you don't see other people's crying. Unless you have a father like Ma Yun, but have you thought about it, Ma Yun was not born rich, he is as unknown as you at the age of twenty, and he has been confused about his future at the age of twenty. Hard work to get rich, a famous saying since ancient times.

There is no shortcut in life, and if you want to change your destiny, you can only be down-to-earth and grasp every opportunity. You have lost your first chance, and if you give up again, hold back, look left and right, and waste your time, you will only be left with regret. You only have one life, and she won't wait for you.