Suddenly I found out that my family is very strange! 20

The older generation will think that reading will be promising, especially in today's society, the threshold is high, parents will pay more attention to their children's education, and the pressure on children is also relatively large. Part of your parents' sense of superiority comes from the family, and part of it is from the achievement, maybe your parents' small business is doing well, and some achievements will produce this feeling.

I don't know how much difference your age is with me, in fact, there are many such families around me, including sometimes I doubt it, sometimes I hate my family, I feel that my parents don't give me a very good environment, which causes me to feel bad sometimes, especially in high school, because the people around me have received a better education, I feel that I am very bad, and then I begin to condemn my parents in my heart, and after I go to college, I feel that I am slowly maturing in an instant, and my brain will not have that kind of thought, In fact, parents are also a generation of education victims, they have not been loved well, so they don't know how to love us, and then come in their own way, but I feel that they also give us the best, their generation's thinking is really difficult to change, may be influenced by the surroundings, we grow up, may slowly understand their thoughts.

This is not surprising, many, even most families are like this, not that they don't work hard, but that they have spare energy and are insufficient, the world of adults and children is different, children always think that the world of adults is very free, no one cares, no one asks, don't do homework. However, adults need to earn money and take care of their families and children, and most adults give up their initial dreams because of life. Therefore, some adults can find their own shadow in the child and want to pin their hopes on the child, although this is a manifestation of selfishness, but they are not reconciled.

Don't think that your parents are frogs at the bottom of the well, you will never be qualified to think like this, when you are an adult and have your own family, think about whether this sentence can pull your face, don't ask this and that, study hard, not for your parents but for yourself, because your own eyes do not look out, only focus on the shortcomings of your parents, so why are you not a frog at the bottom of the well?

This is the case in many families, where parents put their own unfinished goals on their children and let them do it for them. Or take so-and-so as an example, let the child learn from him, let the child become him. These are not right and can easily backfire.

Child, this is not a problem with you, it is a problem with your mind. Your family is a microcosm of thousands of Chinese families, you don't understand the suffering of your parents, on the one hand, you have to earn money, on the other hand, you have to accompany, if your parents go out, you can't accompany you, you and your younger brother can take care of your daily life, if your parents go out, you will blame your parents if you don't see them all year round, no matter how hard your parents are, they hope that one earns money, one accompanies you, can create a good learning environment for you, change your fate. Children must cherish, understand their parents, and study hard to serve the difficulties in front of them, and you will understand the difficulties of your parents when you grow up.

Every family has the characteristics of each family, I used to get used to it, and now I find it strange, and it is also that you have grown up and have your own thoughts. Parents have formed a fixed pattern due to living habits and environmental reasons, so try to change yourself while adapting to them, and don't use sharp language to evaluate them.

The thinking of my parents' generation is like this, if you can't accept it, then you have to change, if you can't change. Then you can only accept it. Anyway, that's your parents, you can't say that.

Our exposure to education is different from them, and you shouldn't look at them from your point of view. Instead, we should compare our hearts with each other and look at each other from each other's point of view. That's how my parents' generation thinks.

Not surprising. This is very normal, on the one hand, parents want their children to live well, and on the other hand, they like to impose their own wishes on their children, hoping that their children will help them realize their dreams. Maybe your parents are obsessed with reading!

Your family is not strange at all, many people are like this, their parents are not highly educated, they only know how to rely on the next generation, and whip them behind them.

Your parents' environment is in a small place, and there is little knowledge, as the so-called reading thousands of books, traveling thousands of miles, more knowledge can know more, read more to change the ideology, and then change the behavior! Don't complain about your parents, they are also limited by the environment, or study hard by yourself, let yourself become an eagle soaring in the sky, and take your parents to see the wonderful world outside when you have the conditions in the future!

This is not surprising, the post-80s generation generally hopes that their sons will become dragons and daughters will become phoenixes, thinking about the good things of one person and the whole family, so they will put all their hopes on you and your brother, and if you don't work hard, you will look forward to the two of you.

Whatever? Your own life, make your own decisions, study hard, and get into a good university, why do you say that? If you are admitted to a good university, you can also find a good job, your life will change, you hate your current family, then you change with your heart, the life you want, this is very important.

There are no parents in the world, they give you life to raise you to grow up, this is what you need to be grateful for as children, other people's parents will not give you money when they have the ability, no matter how poor the parents are, they will do everything to their children, so don't dislike them for not having the ability.

In fact, children's life is not as simple as you think, your parents also have their own way of life, expecting children to study well and get ahead in the future is not for themselves, but for their children to have a better future.

It's not that your family is weird, it's that you're too weird, the dog doesn't think the family is poor, the child doesn't think the mother is ugly, you must first face your parents' efforts correctly, without their contributions, there will be no life you have now, and do and cherish it.

Having such thoughts means that you have grown up, so be a way to show them that you are very good, that they are not wrong in choosing you, and that you can bring about a huge change in them. Come on, but don't brag, you have to surpass them.

This is what many families look like now, and it's not just that they feel this way.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, just be yourself.

It is better to count on others than on yourself!

You should see a psychologist as soon as possible.

How could this kid say that? Is it wrong for your parents to work hard to earn money for you to study, hoping that you can change your fate?

You are so old, you should be financially independent, and you can't rely on others anymore (you are no longer the same as when you were a child, your relatives and parents around you will also grow up and get old, they all have their own favorite things to do, they also need money, and they may not be able to take care of you if they don't earn much).

30-year-old, you should also have your own career, and you are still gnawing the old people, I don't think you should be! It's not that people are indifferent, but that you don't want to forge ahead!

The two hardest things in the world are making money and borrowing money. It's normal, it always has been. It's just that you're only experiencing it now, so it feels bleaker than before.

Try harder and do more with all your heart.

People should be self-reliant, self-respecting, self-confident, whether they have money or not, they must have dignity,,, how difficult it is for our parents to raise us!

You're 30 years old, why should you ask your parents for money?

It's not terrible to fail, it's terrible to stop.

The springs are pressed the lowest and the springs are the highest.

It's like telling an ancient, bizarre and absurd legend.

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Yes, it's a luxury to get married now, unless you meet a family that is not powerful. It's simple, or the woman's family is very ordinary and empathetic. But you may not want to look for such an ordinary one with such conditions.

It's hard to do that with you. Then when you get married, you spend less, but after you get married and have children, this consumption is bigger. So these are the questions.

That's right, getting married in a second-tier city is a luxury under your current conditions. I now earn 6,000 a month and my wife 3,000My child's monthly fixed expenditure is about 2500 (milk powder, various nutrition expenses), monthly mortgage 2500, monthly adult phone bill 100*2, meal fee monthly adult 700*2 (Chinese food 2 people eat near the unit).

These add up to 6600, which means that these must be spent, as well as fruits, children's snacks, toys, children's injections, etc., these are all money. If you encounter a child with a cold and fever, don't worry about the money, throw it into the hospital. I don't even dare to buy a car now.

To sum up, the total income of 9,000 per month for 2 people lives with a mortgage in the 2 first cities, and basically 1-20,000 yuan per year for parental support, which is still not unexpected.

Marriage has some similarities with shopping. Those with good economic conditions can buy luxury goods; If the conditions are not good, you can buy affordable goods with strong applicability. Do what you can, and always meet the needs.

But if you blindly compare and look up, it can only be that the people's hearts are not enough to swallow the elephant, and in the end they will either be trampled to death by the elephant or supported to death by the elephant's legs; Or forever in longing.

Don't compare yourself to others. There are always people who are better and richer than you. How much money you have, how much you do. Facts can't be changed, but mindsets can.

My husband and I used to develop in the provincial capital, but then the house was too expensive, so we came to a small city, and now we have a house, and we have jobs, and it's just a turn.

I think in the book Jane Eyre, the main thing that stands out is the image of Jane Eyre, which describes the love between Jane Eyre and Rochester. The image of the mad woman was created in order to highlight the character traits of Jane Eyre and the hard-won love between Jane Eyre and Rochester. I think that today's young people should have the courage and dedication to love at the stage of love, and after marriage, they should focus on family and responsibility.

I remember when I was a Chinese teacher in the second year of junior high school, I played the movie Jane Eyre, and when I watched it, I cried a lot, and I felt very scary, and I was very moved in the end.

Guidance: Hello, I think you should listen to your parents, after all, their vision is still very accurate, they are the most selfless people in the world who love you the most, if you can be happy, will your parents stop you? It's better to listen to your parents' advice, otherwise it's too late to regret it.

Put some attention on the children. Every day when I come home from school, I give him the best tutoring. From kindergarten to primary school, some receive quickly, and some slowly. If you put some thought into it, the child will have confidence when the grades go up, but if you don't care about the consequences, it will not be ideal.

If he has any difficulties in learning, you can talk to him, or contact the teacher to see how the child is doing at school.

Child, all your thoughts are about playing, and you can't remember normal, were you different when you were a child? Learning is sometimes a hurdle, you can understand everything when you turn it over, and it is not easy to understand anything without it! Nothing, don't worry.

I don't like to read, or it's not the material for reading, but I can only slowly cultivate my interest in reading

My son too, too playful.

Guoman is like this.,Although I haven't been a Guoman for a long time.。。。 But occasionally buy a copy and be surprised to find,You can spend most of the plagiarized characters,For example, the name of the unheard flower was copied,Black Butler,Even Tongzi is not spared,The development of Guoman is still there,Built on the Japanese comics,These comics are also made by the second or third generation of China,After all, comics are not cultivated by the state。

I don't think so...What did the early painting style fall into?,It's not like the Wuhua Temple.,The character is not like it.,It's completely different.。

Nothing, it looks completely different.