What should I do if my girlfriend wants to give up chasing stars? What should I do if I mind my girl

Updated on amusement 2024-06-14
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you want to give up, then give up, because chasing stars, this is this star, either impulsively, or from his appearance, or from his talent, no matter what it is from, when chasing this star, he must have brought you some motivation.

    Well, as I get older, and now there are more and more stars, and it may not be particularly firm to the star I was chasing, and I will slowly change a target, which is actually normal.

    I've been chasing a star, and it's been almost ten years now, and then it hasn't changed, although it's slowly not as energetic as before, but now I still feel full of enthusiasm when I mention him.

    Because he brought me a lot of his habits, his values unconsciously influenced me.

    If your best friend wants to give up chasing this star, then there is no need to twist him, and don't think about what to do Because after all, the twisted melon is not sweet, and he may just want to fan others.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    What's wrong with giving up chasing stars, giving up represents her growth, no longer blindly chasing stars, but has her own judgment, and her favorite job, and other spiritual sustenance, which means that she has grown up and matured. That's a good performance, why stop it?

    Everyone will grow up, and the phenomenon of chasing stars will become more and more rational, and it is impossible to walk on the road of chasing stars all the time, so just go with the flow.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The latest is not chasing stars is personal freedom, if he feels that he wants to chase stars, he may go to chase it, if he feels that the age is up, it is not suitable for the latest, then give up.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    My girlfriend wants to give up chasing stars, what do you say? He chases stars, as long as he doesn't chase the stars I want to chase. I will support him whatever he chases. As long as you don't give me a robbery, I want to chase it, because we are good girlfriends. However, now I have seen too many girlfriends, and some even grab men.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If the girlfriend's star chasing is particularly serious, then you can support her to give up!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Explain that she is mature and you should support and encourage her ...

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Mind because of love.

    You love her very much, and your anger, jealousy, dissatisfaction, and contradictions are all because of love.

    Me too. My boyfriend and his former girlfriend have been in love for 6 years, they are first love, and they live together.

    As soon as I thought about it, I was worried, and I saw that he was angry, so I deliberately made awkward contact with him.

    And then we quarreled.,And then I said I'm not good, I'm not as good as your previous partner.,You've been 6 years.,You and her are still doing that every day.。。。 And then he was helpless. When I cried, he would come and coax me, and he would get drunk with my praise and say that I was much better than her.

    Then,,, next time,,, I don't know when, I will eat the same vinegar, get angry,,, he will coax me the same, because I remember again, in fact, it's just my own demons. I've asked myself countless times if I love him.

    The answer is yes ...

    Then I have to accept everything ...

    Because history cannot be changed, everything is a given.

    The only thing that can change is my mind ...

    If I continue to make trouble, the only end will be to break up.

    So I think about it from another angle, what if he is with a few people, anyway, he is mine in the end, then I am the ultimate winner.

    If you love her, love everything about her, including her past.

    You have to grasp her present and future, not the past.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Talk to her well, don't affect your life and work because of excessive star chasing, we and stars are two parallel lines that do not intersect, I can't chase stars now, my goddess has passed away.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think it's a helpless experience. She is so good at chasing stars, she likes some celebrities very much, and she is a star when she opens and closes her mouth, I think it's a little helpless.

    In fact, I like an idol, maybe because of his good-looking eyebrows and eyes, his amazing talent, he is occasionally naughty, occasionally mature, everything about him is what you like, and you can't help but be happy when you see him. You like him, his words and deeds will more or less give you some influence, when you are confused and helpless, when you go through hardship, think of him is very hard-working, very brave, never give up easily, your heart is also inspired.

    That's the positive effect. Learn from the idol his excellent qualities, and the power of the idol will also bring fans the determination to do good. The most important thing is to chase stars and do what you can, not to compare, not to compete.

    There are two sides to everything, too much, like an idol, let him be your strength, you also have to have your own life. People around you, thank them and get along with them. I can do well in my studies or work and keep moving forward.

    Like an idol, let him be your strength, you also have to have your own life, the people around you, thank them, and get along with them. I can do well in my studies or work, keep moving forward, not to mention reaching the height of an idol, at least I can't become a self that I don't like. Many people don't understand star chasing, and it is true that sometimes it is too crazy and unreasonable in the eyes of others.

    For a person, across the night, shuttle between cities, just to see him. Buy his **, merch and everything about him. In fact, sometimes it's just because you love it too much, you like it too much, and others can't understand such feelings.

    As long as you have the ability, you can do what you like, but I also want to say that students who are still studying should still focus on their studies and do things that they are passionate about, and wait for you to grow up!

    Don't you want to be a good person, to be a good person like your idol. I've seen many reports before that a certain student was successfully admitted to Peking University and Tsinghua University because he followed his idol and studied hard. This is also a kind of positive energy, because I like him, so I work hard and get closer to him.

    I am becoming better and better on the road of chasing stars. I have said so much earlier, and I have also said a lot about the positive energy of chasing stars, but it does not mean that chasing stars is very important.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    memorizes idols' birthdays and hobbies, and doesn't necessarily know their family's birthdays and hobbies. pulled me to the concert, crying and shouting for an idol autograph, no matter what it takes, I want to chase stars.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I was driven by her to chase stars together. Because she would tell me about her favorite stars every day, and then send me some **, and gradually I became fascinated.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think it's a very speechless experience. Because she is crazy about chasing stars, as long as she says that her idol is not good at all, she will immediately turn her face with you, very speechless.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Changing a "husband" every day, the mobile phone wallpaper is different every day, and what I tell the most is that I have a heartbeat for this star.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    has a girlfriend who chases stars, she has the ** of her favorite star all over her body, and once shook hands with her favorite star, and she hasn't washed her hands for several months.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's a very happy experience to have a girlfriend who chases stars, because I also like to chase stars and have a common hobby.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Very good experience. She and I are both star-chasing girls, and we are both rational star-chasers, and we usually talk about idols when we stay together.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    has a girlfriend who chases stars, her home is covered with posters of celebrities, and she goes shopping with her, and she can't walk when she sees a star.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think it's good, when you have a party, you can hear a lot of celebrity news, which is to add a lot of entertainment topics to the party and make the party more fun.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    No. I think the first thing about this is that the boy should understand each other, and the second is that he should respect the affection of his object. You can also try to find out what they really look like.

    Maybe after you get to know him carefully, you will find that this star is really talented, and there are many great things worth learning from you, and then you can try to get close to him, so that your girlfriend will like you more and more.

    But girls also have to reflect on themselves, have they considered their boyfriend's feelings when chasing idols, and if so, why don't you care about their feelings, and then you have to see if your boyfriend really doesn't like this way, if you don't like it, should you restrain it? If he doesn't like this very much, but you still talk about how good other men are in front of him, I don't think a man is very happy.

    After all, it's not good for your girlfriend to think about other men all day long, right? So this thing is to think about each other's feelings, and then do it, no matter what, you have to think about each other. It's no problem for girls or boys to chase stars, but you must master that amount, if that amount is exceeded, it will cause others to be disgusted.

    This matter will become its own fault, but the incident itself is not sinful, so why bother.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Boyfriend chasing stars, what's there to stop it. In fact, there is no question of whether to stop it, it depends on your adaptability, if you adapt to his various behaviors of the stars you like, you don't think it's a big deal, because anyone has someone they particularly admire in their hearts, whether they are men or women, look at the current airport, there are many people who pick up stars.

    You restrict your boyfriend from chasing stars, and when you see those handsome Oba in Korean dramas drooling vigorously, your boyfriend probably won't care much.

    But if your boyfriend starts spending money on the stars he chases, then you have to pay attention. In fact, when many people are chasing stars, they all know that these female stars have nothing to do with them at all, and it is estimated that they appreciate more than they like it. That kind of feeling is relatively ethereal, so it doesn't really matter if you chase stars or not.

    But if he affects the normal life of the two of you because of chasing stars, then you must consider the situation of your boyfriend reflected in this matter.

    If when he is in love, he is willing to spend money on these things that are impossible to have results, and the cost is very large, then you have to consider whether there will be a lot of such things when the two of you live together in the future, and whether there will be conflicts because of star chasing and other similar things. After all, when you fall in love, you can also talk about some romance and feelings, and after getting married, it is more about firewood, rice, oil and salt in marriage, which needs to consider the economy and reality.

    My roommate's boyfriend likes Jay Chou very much, and I only heard my roommate casually talk about it before, but I didn't expect it to be so serious. Later, every time we got together at a party, my roommate's boyfriend only sang Jay Chou's songs on KTV, and listened to her boyfriend's roommate say that even the pillow pattern used in the bedroom was Jay Chou, and Jay Chou's posters were pasted everywhere on the bedroom table and on the wall, as long as Jay Chou was in ** concert.

    In fact, if you look at the words left by my roommate's boyfriend on the Jay Chou forum, you will find that it is full of positive energy.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think it should be stopped, it's crazy for girls to chase stars, and it's easy for her to get dissatisfied with you because of the huge gap between you and celebrities.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think we should deliberately stop it, girls always think that this kind of problem is not a big deal, but they will lose their care and love for their boyfriends unintentionally!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    No, star-chasing is just one of her hobbies, it's the same as you like to play games, even if you are her boyfriend, you are not qualified to deprive her of her hobbies.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    No, you shouldn't deprive her of her hobbies, as long as star-chasing doesn't affect the lives of the two of you, you shouldn't interfere with her too much.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't think it should be, your girlfriend's star-chasing is her own right, you can't stop her from chasing stars, you can't stop her from pursuing what she likes.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    No, star-chasing is your girlfriend's hobby, you shouldn't interfere with her, you should respect her preferences.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    No, chasing stars is just a hobby, don't care, as long as it doesn't affect normal life, you should tolerate her if you love her.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    No, star-chasing is a personal hobby, if you love her, you should respect her hobby, tolerate everything about her, and shouldn't stop her.

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