What should I do if my girlfriend can t forget her ex boyfriend??? I just had a fight with my girlfr

Updated on amusement 2024-03-03
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Your starting point should be correct, first of all, you can think about it yourself, it is almost impossible to forget a person, you must still have a little impression of a primary school classmate who has not crossed paths, let alone a boyfriend, so it should be to help her let go, not to forget, the more you tell her to forget, or let go, it will have no effect, everyone understands the truth, if she comes to comfort you, she will definitely say a lot and do a lot, but you can really let go?

    So the focus should not be to dissuade, should be to divert attention and guidance, you as a friend, she is uncomfortable for you to listen, and then accompany her to go shopping and relax, accompany her to live a peaceful life, she will eventually slowly let go, if you are so at any time to persuade at any time, in addition to aggravating her troubles, it is not conducive to your friend relationship, so that a friend can do it, a real friend should accompany her at this time, just accompany it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    As a best friend, what you should do should be to enlighten her, not quarrel with her, I have the following methods:1Pay attention to the transfer method (anyone who has seen the love apartment knows how Qin Yumo came out of the second part) 2

    Agitation, but this estimate doesn't work, after all, there was just a quarrel. 3.Education, probably just an example of how bad your ex-boyfriend is, it's up to you to play it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, everyone has their own experiences and stories, and it is her problem not to forget. It has nothing to do with you, even if she is a best friend, she has the right to choose, besides, memories and feelings, these things, not that you can forget if you want to, as a friend, you don't need to say that she can't forget and quarrel with her, she may also have a reason for her insistence, as a best friend, what you should do is to accompany her more and listen to her.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Let his ex-boyfriend beat and scold her.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's normal to have two men.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    First of all, determine whether the relationship between them is unassailable.

    If the relationship between them is very deep, then you should not have the slightest thought, if their relationship itself is problematic, it has nothing to do with you, do not mix with the relationship between them.

    If their relationship breaks down because of you, you are the culprit and the enemy of your girlfriend.

    2. Deliberately keep a distance from your best friend's boyfriend.

    Be sure to keep your distance from your best friend's boyfriend, there isn't much intersection between you, and there is no need to chat or eat together. Your friend is a girlfriend, not his boyfriend. You can leave one for each other**, so that you can contact your girlfriends in special situations.

    There's really no need to do more for the rest. If you really like it, be a crush and hide this feeling silently. If it's really a girlfriend, you won't see your girlfriend sad.

    If you really like her boyfriend, you like it silently in your mind, once it is made public, the three of them will be very painful, it is better to hide this feeling silently, let time dilute everything, this is the best result for the three of them.

    3. If you like each other, you have to figure out how much damage it will do to your girlfriends.

    If you know that your boyfriend is with your best friend, the taste of betrayal is very uncomfortable, on the one hand, the betrayal of your boyfriend, on the other hand, the betrayal of your best friend, this kind of damage is really huge, not a last resort, don't take this step, if you spread it out, then this relationship will definitely end in misfortune.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Love is nothing that can be changed, if you fall in love with him, you are in love with her, after the two of you are together, your best friend will also be relieved, since it has become a thing of the past, and he didn't rob her boyfriend by himself, this ordinary person is also acceptable, rest assured!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you have a good relationship with your girlfriend, then you should not be in contact with his ex-boyfriend, which will only hurt the feelings between you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There are many men in the world, you can try to forget about him and find a lover of your own instead of sharing someone with your girlfriends. Both physical and psychological.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you really like him and want to be with him, you have to accept the entanglement between you and your girlfriend and her ex-boyfriend in the future

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Your best friend's ex-boyfriend and your best friend are already in the past tense, you fall in love with your best friend's ex-boyfriend, this is normal, how to get along or how to get along?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Dou is an ex-boyfriend, what does it matter,,, boldly pursue what you love.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In fact, it has nothing to do with yourself whether you accept this or not, your best friend and ex walk together, whether you can accept it or not, in fact, it is all in your thoughts. Perhaps, you have a clear position, show your attitude, distinguish the right from the wrong of grievances, face the ex you once cared about, and the good friends you have always cared about, just follow your heart. Whether or not you accept them together is your attitude towards life.

    The best friend is the one who has witnessed the sweetness and breakup of the two, and she knows almost everything between you, and it is uncomfortable to think about it. And since he is his best friend's ex-boyfriend, this person must not be the right person. If a girlfriend is with an ex-boyfriend, either your girlfriend doesn't treat you as a girlfriend, or you're too easy to bully.

    1. When they are together, does it mean that they looked at each other when we haven't broken up? Even if they only came together later, I still feel like an outcast. Although I don't love it anymore, I still feel weird in my heart.

    Best friends and exes coming together may mean that I have a very low weight in my friend psyche. Perhaps, she never thought of me as her best friend. So between my boyfriend and me, she easily chose not to care about my feelings.

    2. This obviously treats you as a fool and pinches you as a soft persimmon, how can you not mind. If they don't connect, how can there be a spark, take the title of best friend to risk their good feelings, why do this kind of friends want to wear chains.

    My ex-boyfriend, since he is an ex-boyfriend, is not together, and there is no violation of morality. It would be a pity if two people couldn't be together because of this title, since they liked it very much.

    3. "People and things in the past should be put down, everyone has the right to pursue a new beginning, we are not suitable, it does not mean that they are not suitable, the predecessor was also the right person, she can find happiness when she touches the model, why not bless her?"

    4. From the moment you break up, you are not qualified to ask your friends and girlfriends, as well as the private life of your ex-boyfriend, they are together, if you still run to complain about your displeasure, then it's not right, you can be dissatisfied in private, but you can't break it up, you have to treat it rationally.

    With whom, that's his power and freedom. Because he knew the pain of our breakup, they must have thought about it seriously when they decided to be together. And when they decided to be together, they must have considered my feelings and struggled.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I can't actually accept that my ex is with my friend, which makes me wonder if the other party will cuckold me when I am with my ex, and after the two of them are together, does it mean that I have lost two people who can accompany me all of a sudden.

    I'm not a suspicious person, but if I break up with my ex, my ex and my best friend get along, to be honest, even if you are not suspicious, you will have a big question mark in your heart, you will wonder if you are with your ex, whether the two of them have been secretly Chencang, and I will also wonder if my ex is with me, in fact, the target is my friend and not me.

    When I used to go to work, there was a boy with me, in fact, we were not in love, but it can be said that this boy was in an ambiguous period with me, I thought he liked to send me, and he showed that it would be misunderstood, at that time often asked me out to eat, but I was stupid at the time, I didn't like this boy very much, but he insisted on it for half a year, when I just wanted to be tempted, he was actually with my best friend, to be honest, although not my ex, But I was also disgusted at the time. Xiang rotten congratulations.

    I think a friend's wife can't be bullied, and the same is true for girls, you know that it's your friend's ex, and you're still with each other, which means that you're ready to go to the past and the two are no longer friends, I dare not imagine, I meet with friends every day, looking at the boyfriend who used to be good to myself and tired of myself, and now I'm good to my friends, and the people who spoil themselves, and now I have changed my friends, it should be that there is no way for individuals to be generous enough to accept this situation.

    If it's just a friend with average feelings, then I can accept it, if I think it's a good friend, we meet every day to chat and shop friends, I can't accept it, if I find out, I may stay away from these two people, and I won't go to help her anymore, I'm not so generous.

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