What are some of the times or situations that make you feel that you and your lover are not suitable

He lives day and night, sleeps during the day, and I have a regular schedule. Every time he came home late at night, I wanted to break up with him.

For example, when I was tired from work and wanted to rest after coming home, she insisted that I accompany her out shopping, and she didn't understand me at all.

Sometimes, we argue about some issues, and he, a big boy, doesn't know how to let me go, so I get very angry and want to break up with him.

She always said that she didn't want children, I like children, and it is against tradition for people not to have children, and I am now thinking about whether I should continue with her.

When she knew that she would be sorry for me for some of the things she did, she still did it, it was a long-distance relationship or tired, but you touched the bottom line of love again and again, I'm sorry that we don't agree on the three views, and I can't see the future.

He is unwilling to make changes for me, he knows what I don't like but he keeps doing it, I'm thinking about how the temperament of the two people should run in to make this relationship last, but he has been enjoying the existing state, knowing that the dark waves under the calm are turbulent, but he doesn't want any solution, and he always says I don't want to lose you with an innocent look.

She can check my phone, but I can't check her phone, she said she doesn't like others to see her privacy, then I'm willing?

When I saw him smoking, I was very sensitive to the smell of smoke and wanted to cough when I smelled it, but he was addicted to smoking and always wanted to smoke.

Every time she came back drunk, she socialized three or four times a week, and I didn't have so many socializing as a boy, so I felt that it was quite inappropriate.

Whenever there is something wrong with her, she always responds enthusiastically, shouldn't loving someone be only passionate about her lover, and want to break up.

It's just when it's time to eat, she has a heavy mouth and I have a light mouth, and we never eat together, which is very annoying.

This is because they treat each other very much, compared to the current pain, which is nothing at all, and the breakup is what makes them painful, so they are unwilling to choose to give up, and the two parties can cultivate their feelings through reconciliation, and they can also reconcile.

In this relationship, I have paid a lot of love for each other, and the two of them have been together for a long time and have dependence, and I feel that it is difficult to find a suitable other half of Lu Xiaobo after separating to Shengbi, so I am reluctant to break up.

This is due to the fact that they have become accustomed to each other's presence, and will tolerate each other even if it is very painful.

Both men and women in love think that the other party is suitable to be their lifelong partner, but it is not.

One or two things can be easily determined. Due to the different judging criteria and perspectives, suitability is only a temporary concept in one's own sense, and there is no specific reference standard and theorem definition. After all, there is no husband and wife role in the family, and there is no specific lock in the ordinary life of the family, the suitability in the feeling of love cannot be completely fixed in the future married life.

Therefore, some couples who are very optimistic in the love stage will not be happy in their future marriage, and even go to disintegration, and some couples who are not optimistic in the love stage and whose feelings are not very sweet can work together for a lifetime and happily go to the old age.

There are two main kinds of inappropriateness, one is really inappropriate, that is, the advantages of both parties are not appreciated and cherished by each other, and the two cannot be attracted to each other, which is an objective fact and is really inappropriate in a relationship. There is also a false inappropriateness, that is, each other still cares about each other, but subjectively feels that the other person no longer likes me and may abandon me at any time. This kind of incompatibility is my own imagination.

found it inappropriate, got used to it, was too lazy to change the status quo, and didn't break up, that is ready to endure for a long time, it is possible to endure it and grind out a set of ways to live together, or it is possible to endure it, the other party can't help it and leaves.

Because we are more ordinary people, and because we generally know that feelings are two-way, when it is not suitable, especially when in love, we are often more willing to choose to break up and choose between ourselves and each other. It is normal for men and women in love, after a short period of getting along, to feel that the other party is not their intended person, and they can't have a place to belong, so they break up immediately. Do you know that you don't feel it, but you still have to force it down, or take into account the feelings of the other party, stop talking, and keep dragging it out, which makes you very unhappy?

In this way, you will not only delay yourself, but also be irresponsible to others. Whether the character is in love, whether there are feelings and other aspects, such an important thing in a lifetime, it is impossible to be a little sloppy and willing, there is the right to choose, why not cherish it?

A normal love relationship is essentially a kind of interpersonal relationship that screens each other, two people observe each other in the process of getting along, run in to decide whether to go further, two people determine the love relationship, can only show that the big outline fits, but many people are completely two looks before and after falling in love. Why do some people break up when they feel inappropriate in a relationship?

Most of the things that feel inappropriate in a relationship are the different personalities. After a few touches of the feeling, the words are not speculative. Or the other party can't adapt to a certain aspect of the habit, the other party is not self-motivated, has no quality, has no cultivation, has a large gap in cultural level, and is not at the same level, which will make people feel inappropriate in love, and since it is not suitable in love, there is no need to be together, so they are separated.

One is that there is not much investment in a relationship, the good feelings in love are not too strong, and they can't withstand the little setbacks in the relationship, as long as there are some inappropriate, there will be no motivation to get along again, maybe they don't like each other very much at the beginning, or they have an attitude of trying to get along, of course, they don't expect to be successful in this relationship, so they feel inappropriate, and it's easy to break up.

I feel inappropriate in love, it's right to break up, since you feel inappropriate, why are you still together, arguing with each other? Why do many people who have been in love for a few years now, and there are blind dates, they always have to get along for a period of time before they talk about marriage, it is a process of understanding both parties, and they must first understand whether they can go on with each other, it is not suitable in love, break up, I think it is correct to stop losses in time, do not delay yourself, and do not delay others.

So why force yourself to be with someone who always feels uncomfortable. Isn't that a source of guilt for yourself? As the saying goes:

Women are pleasing to themselves, in fact, this is true for both men and women, if your partner always makes you feel unhappy, always makes you feel uncomfortable, that is, you feel inappropriate, why make yourself uncomfortable? When you feel that the other party is not particularly suitable for you, you must decisively propose to break up.

It's not about breaking up as soon as you feel out of place. Falling in love itself is a process of running in with each other, and only a very small number of people break up immediately when they feel inappropriate. Most people feel uncomfortable at first, and they will leave a long observation period.

During this time, you failed to discover your shortcomings, not only did not correct them but also intensified, your relationship always diverged from each other, and the farther and farther you went before you chose to break up.

Today's young people are reluctant to compromise, and it is right to separate as soon as possible if they feel inappropriate. lest the longer it drags on, the greater the damage to both sides. It's really tiring to be with someone who doesn't fit, and there will always be differences in the ideas of the two people, and they will always run in, and they will lose confidence in the future and the two of them, so it's easy to separate.

Because love is a process of trial and error, no one dares to say that they will always be together once they fall in love, so it is normal for two people to break up if they feel inappropriate in love. Breaking up is a normal state in a relationship that feels inappropriate, so it's normal, and it's also a good way for two people in a relationship to not delay each other.

If some people's love feels inappropriate and will break up, then I think it is actually wrong for such a view of feelings, in fact, you will meet many people in your life, and the probability that the two of you can combine is very small, so in the relationship, if two people really come together, you might as well test it more to see if the two people really have a fate, feel inappropriate, and you can also slowly run in, because you have to know that in the future marriage, It must also feel inappropriate with the object, and it is impossible to divorce once you get married, so this view of feelings is definitely not right.

Some people will choose to break up if they feel inappropriate in love, which is not right, because a relationship needs to be constantly run-in, and if it is not suitable at the beginning, both parties need to work hard to run in, if they really can't live together, then choose to break up is serious and responsible.

Some people break up when they feel inappropriate in a relationship, which is wrong.

Because two people in love need to run in with each other, and they need the tolerance and patience of both parties, no one is perfect, if he feels inappropriate in a certain aspect or a little thing, it is wrong to choose to break up.

Some people will break up when they feel inappropriate in a relationship, and this choice is right, because they have found that they are not suitable, so end it as soon as possible, otherwise the longer it drags on, the greater the pain will be caused to themselves in the future.

It is understandable that it is right to break up when you feel inappropriate in a relationship, but it is also too impulsive. Everyone is an independent individual, and they need to run in together, and if you understand this, you will be less impulsive.

In the process of love, if you feel that the other party is not particularly suitable for you, it is completely okay for you to make the choice to break up, the premise is that you have to let the other party understand that it is to let both of you understand that this relationship may not be the best result between you, it is best to break up peacefully, get together and disperse, do not engage in that kind of personal attack or quarrel, and do not hurt each other.

This is actually the right thing to do, stop the loss in time, it is a good thing for both parties, it will not waste youth, nor will it waste money, and it will not waste energy, so it will actually be more suitable than those who have been trying to run in for a long time and finally break up.

I think it's very correct to break up if you feel inappropriate in love, because if two people are not suitable, it means that two people do not have common interests, language and hobbies together, and after a long time, it is easy to have a lot of contradictions, and such a relationship will not last long.

It's not right to do this, it's an irresponsible manifestation of love, some people feel inappropriate in love, the right thing to do is to run in first, don't rush it. It takes a process and there needs to be a time.

Some people are in love, they will break up if they feel inappropriate, it shouldn't be right to do so, there will definitely be bumps and bumps in the relationship, and there will be inappropriate and uncomfortable times.

This kind of question can't be said to be right or wrong, because it's just a personal view of feelings, it's good to feel comfortable for yourself, what others think is right, it's not necessarily right for you, and vice versa, everyone's experience is different, and the choices created are also different.

Some people will break up when they feel inappropriate in love, which is obviously not right, and if they feel inappropriate in love, they must first adjust.

If you are in a relationship, you feel that you are not suitable for the other person and break up. That's right, but you have to get to know each other through time, and if you don't understand it for a while, it makes perfect sense to break up.

This is not right. Because the relationship needs to be run-in, it must feel inappropriate at the beginning, and it will become suitable through the mutual run-in of both parties, if you break up if you encounter something inappropriate, then there is no run-in period, and you will never meet the person you like.

It is right for some lovers to feel inappropriate to break up in love, because if they are not suitable for two people, getting along will cause more harm to each other, and at the same time, they are wasting each other's time and feelings.

I think it's the right thing to do, and if you don't feel right, you should break up instead of continuing to make do, which is not good for both of you. It's right to break up if it's not suitable, so that the two people don't have to continue.

If you feel inappropriate in love, it is actually okay to break up, after all, it is not suitable to be together, and the relationship is also very uncomfortable, and breaking up may be a good choice.

It's right to do this, it's better to stop losses in time than to divorce after getting married and finding that the other party is not suitable. If you break up in love, you can find your own love. And divorce comes at a higher cost.

It's right to do this, because if you feel that it's not right, if you go on with the two of you in the future, it will only make the pain longer, so it's right to choose to break up.

It is indeed desirable, because if it is not suitable for love, you have to break up as soon as possible, and it is still not appropriate to deal with it again.

I think it's reasonable to do that, and since you don't feel like it's appropriate, you don't need to hurt each other anymore.

I think it's the right thing to do, why fall in love? The ultimate goal of falling in love is to go to love with marriage, that is, the run-in period of marriage, as long as two people can talk about it together, it is ultimately going to the palace of marriage, since they can't talk about it together when they are in love, then they feel inappropriate, only break up, knowing that two people are not suitable, and they have to enter the marriage hall, and finally don't they have to divorce? If you have a child, it is the child who suffers in the end, so why bother?