What moment did you feel like you and your boyfriend had no future?

When I had a conflict with someone else and quarreled, he was silent next to him, looking at me and saying that it was obviously not my fault, and he kept saying Oh, don't say it, forget it, it's really embarrassing.

I talked about a boyfriend in college, I thought it was good at first, maybe it was love that blinded me, once we went out to play, after dinner we walked around the street, at that time I felt that two people were walking on the street like this is also very romantic, I took the mobile phone in my hand when I left, and then came to an aunt, bumped me, the strength was quite big, and then my mobile phone fell to the ground and broke the screen.

That's the mobile phone I saved up to buy at the time, I was distressed and angry at the time, and then I found the aunt to theorize, you hit me and broke the mobile phone screen, I am also responsible, then one and a half are always okay, or you have a better attitude, give me an apology, but the aunt just has no quality, and I quarreled, I have never seen any big world, how can I quarrel with her, and then I cried, one is because of my grievances, the other is because of anger, the aunt looks at me, And the one standing next to me didn't say a word, so he left without any burden, and my boyfriend at the time didn't say a word.

I asked him afterwards, and he said that I was a man, and it was too embarrassing to quarrel with others on the street, heh! Then you just watch your girlfriend being scolded and crying by others, and you don't even dare to let go of a fart, so you won't be ashamed? Aren't you ashamed to be like a bun?

Even if I don't quarrel with her, as a boy or my boyfriend, should I protect me, yes, no, it's no different from a dead person, what use do you want. It's not as good as my emperor (my pet dog), he can still scream twice to strengthen his aura when he sees me being bullied.

At that time, I felt that it was completely impossible for me to have a future with him, although I really liked him before, but since I experienced this incident, I knew that this kind of person would definitely not be happy if he married in the future, and he had no responsibility at all.

When I cried, my heart was already cold, a person didn't stand up when you needed him, how could he ask him to love himself usually, this person is generally centered on his own feelings, although lovers should tolerate and understand each other, I can tolerate some of your little temper, understand that you have your own life and character, understand that you are sometimes too busy to reply to my messages, stay by my side, but I really can't tolerate your lack of responsibility and self-centeredness, that day after I went home, I proposed to break up and part ways.

I remember the last time we met, he took me home, and after a few steps away, he told me behind my back that I had to study hard. At that time, I thought that we would probably not see each other again, and that we would never cross paths again.

The high school I was in at the time was very messy, and there were a lot of people who didn't study, but if you didn't enter that circle, you could still study hard, I was thinking about studying hard, and I met my boyfriend in my sophomore year of high school, and my boyfriend was often mixed with a bunch of people who didn't study, and he was a ruffian.

After being with him, because it was my first love, I always thought about our future, I knew he wouldn't study, but I wouldn't think about this reality at the time, there were always beautiful fantasies, although there were not too many ups and downs in learning, but there was no goal, and I had to be admitted to some university or something.

He also knows this very well, although he has not discussed this, but he knows it, and he has the idea that if he can live one day at a time, who cares about the future. By the time I was about to enter my senior year of high school, our relationship was getting more and more distant because I felt that I had a goal and had to get into a university. always wanted him to work together, but he still held on to a passable state, and the contradiction between the two gradually intensified.

So the relationship became more and more tense, so I had to calm down for a while, think about it, during that time, I worked hard to study cultural classes, worked hard to achieve my goals, and my academic performance increased significantly. <>

After a while, we met again, and there was silence for a long time, and when I was sent home, he said that sentence to let me study hard, although he didn't say that he broke up, but he and I have divided me into two worlds, and embarked on different paths, I think even if I live in the same small county, there will be no intersection in this life.

The words you said unintentionally made me see the future of you.

The criterion of whether a man loves you or not is whether he is willing to give you time and money. If he really loves you, will not skimp on his money, and is more willing to spend all his free time with you, even if he does nothing but wander on the road hand in hand, then he will be so close to the way home that he will be so soon, he will not see you today, and he will say goodnight to you.

People who like you will drop by the way.

After getting along for a long time, some people will be like strong wine, the more sweet it becomes, but some people are like forgotten open coke, the carbon dioxide is gone, and the unique bubbles in the cola have volatilized. In love, there will be many people whose feelings will slowly fade, and even find a lot of each other's shortcomings and then magnify them, leading to the final quarrel and even breaking up.

My sister got married in April of this year and married her love. In a small talk, my sister told me that she and her previous boyfriend had been together for 2 years, and both of them were planning to get married, and they wanted to travel outside before marriage, but this boy said, "I'll ask my mother." Because of this sentence, my sister carefully considered their relationship and finally chose to break up.

I asked him why, and she said that if you marry a "mom boy" like this, you will be wronged, and a boy who doesn't know how to protect girls is not worth marrying.

There are also people whose friends, his family, you never meet. Even his friends don't know about your existence, and they think you're single and continue to introduce you. His family doesn't know it, and this kind of feeling like you're a secret lover, and at this moment you feel like your future is without him.

Please love the girl next to you, youth has been given to you, why not be responsible for his life? Your princess, please take care of her, after all, the baby in your parents' hearts will spend the rest of your life with you, grow old together, and rely on you for the rest of your life.

A person's life is not easy, if you want to live a good life, you must not only have the ability to provide for yourself, but also have a warm and sweet home, that is, you want a healthy child in the future, and a husband who loves you, so is it really easy to find a husband who loves you? Maybe you can always see that other people's husbands are very caring and love her, but the husband you will find in the future will treat you like this, that is unknown, no one is sure, but most, not most, it should be that all women want such a husband!

So running towards this goal, girls will always pay special attention to the boy when looking for a boyfriend again, whether he is generous or not enough to love himself, at the beginning the girl will carry out various things to test the boy, as long as it can think of a way to think of it!

How a girl tests her boyfriend, there will generally be the following:

way, first, girls generally ask their boyfriends if they have eaten, even if they eat it, they say they haven't eaten, they want to see what her boyfriend says, if they don't eat it, then the boy hasn't passed the first level, and the second level is when the girl is sick, if the boy just tells him to drink water and take medicine, and doesn't really take practical action, then it's over, when the girl takes a fancy to something, the boy doesn't do anything, and there is no future, if the girl is angry, the boy doesn't coax her, but is angry with her, Then the girl will also think that the boy is not viable. I remember when I was with my boyfriend, he said, look at how I treat you when I get married in the future, you must be clear, I thought at the time that I would not have a future with him, and it would definitely not be good for me to get married!

In addition, he educated me for his parents, and told me that he must be good to his parents in the future, and he will be good to my parents. It's so terrible, so I don't dare to have a future with him!

I got pregnant and told him that he seemed to have disappeared and there was no response. I went to the hospital myself and had a miscarriage.

This is a lack of trust and security for your boyfriend. He didn't let you see the actual plan for the future, the actual actions to fight for your future.

One of the most critical things may be that you don't love him enough, love him enough to tolerate everything he has, and be willing to face the problems he encounters in the future with him. You should calm down and think about what you want most and whether he can give it to you, otherwise you will continue to hesitate and the backlog will explode one day.

If you really love each other, everything is not a problem, if you find that each other is not suitable, it is also a good thing to separate early, otherwise everyone will be miserable, this is also the attitude of respecting each other and being responsible for the feelings.

Notes:

Another very common reason is that the man has no money or cannot fulfill your desire for money, etc. In this case, you have to think deeply about how much you love him and whether you are willing to share his ups and downs.

It really depends on whether he is more important in your mind or other material things or something like that, which is actually a very dangerous idea. Because boys care a lot about sharing weal and woe, if you can't share weal and woe, basically boys won't give you the opportunity to share weal and die with him. Even if you get back together after he is developed, the relationship must not be as deep as the original relationship.

Of course, it still depends on your choice.

I've also encountered this problem, my boyfriend and I are also in a different place, and we don't have a future. I've been with him for more than a year, we're both juniors, he's a senior, I'm in a regular second-year college, and we're both majors. We met through a friend's introduction, and when we first got together, he was very nice to me.

I like him too, we've been to his hometown together and we've hung out together. He was very nice to me and I liked him a lot. But then, we have more and more contradictions, and we have less and less future.

We often quarreled and he always said he couldn't live without me. However, he never thought that I needed his company, and he also needed me. Our relationship is getting worse and worse.

We've broken up, but I can't help it. Now that we're both seniors, he's going to do an internship. He said he would go home and he would look for a job in his hometown.

We still don't have a future.

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My boyfriend's future plans don't have me, what does it mean?

Hello, please wait a minute, I'll reply to your question right away. Hope I can help you It depends on what his plan is, if it's his own business. That horse in his field of vision is a dust attack without you for your brother, if you are not in life it is wrong, I hope my brother can help you.

Is I in his plan?

Hello, you are more one-sided. It's possible that he doesn't want to be in a relationship. Well. Good.

Thinking that after having you in the future, the person who plans you into the future is worthy of your love, so the current love should be given up. Xiao Mo has been unsettled and depressed recently. I went to ask why, and Xiao Mo told me her story.

Xiao Mo and Xiao Zhou met when they were freshmen, and the two slowly became familiar with each other, and they also had a good impression of each other. After the military training, Xiao Zhou, with the help of his friends, gave Xiao Mo a romantic confession. And just like that, the two of them were together.

For four years, their relationship has been very stable, they don't quarrel much, and they get tired of being together almost every day. However, when graduation was approaching, Xiao Mo panicked, because Xiao Zhou never told Xiao Mo about the future, nor did he propose to go home to take her to meet her parents. Xiao Mo used to think that as long as he went with the flow and waited until the time was ripe, the dust would naturally settle.

However, Xiao Zhou has not moved.

Xiao Mo suddenly felt that the relationship between the two people was as erratic as duckweed, and he felt lost and overwhelmed by too many uncertain factors in the future. Xiao Mo felt very troubled, her boyfriend didn't take the initiative to say it, and she was embarrassed to mention these things to him. Most of the boys are late bloomers, and they may not be so thoughtful when considering things, so I suggest that Xiao Mo should be brave enough to communicate with Xiao Zhou, if he has been reluctant to speak, he will be in this kind of worry every day, and it will affect the relationship between the two people.

A few weeks passed, and Xiao Mo rushed over and told me the good news. A few days ago, Xiao Mo finally mustered up the courage and told Xiao Zhou about his concerns. Unexpectedly, Xiao Zhou sent Xiao Mo a long text, which contained a confession to Xiao Mo and some plans for the future of the two people.

After graduation, go to your city, first find a job to stabilize down, rent a small house for two people, and then raise a puppy together, Xiao Mo saw tears in his eyes.

What could be happier than a guy silently putting you into his future plans? Those beautiful love words, like light clouds in the sky, look good but can't be grasped. And those who want to have a future with you and plan you in the future are the ones who really love you.