Why do young people nowadays have a twilight mentality?

I think it's because in today's society, well, it's too much about appearance, or it's too fond of exaggerating when talking, so more and more people like to say, alas, how can I get old? Or is it when someone talks to you and you don't hear it, you always use how old I am? Slowly, I have such a consciousness in my heart, I feel that I am old, and now my life is relatively comfortable, and I don't have that kind of struggle mentality, which is not what a young person should be.

Because they are growing one year old every year, they will feel that their body is not as good as the year before, and they begin to find that their body is not as good as that of 18-year-olds, and they are even less motivated to do things, so young people who are only 20 years old will also say that they are old. I feel that I have experienced more, and I understand everything, and I will have such a mentality, and I feel that I am already an old man in this society.

Because the trend is changing now, younger and younger people will lead the trend, and when they are in their 20s, they no longer have the vitality of their teens, so they say that they are old. Probably because I am under too much pressure, I hope that I will grow old soon, and I will enjoy the life of the elderly in a hurry.

Because young people in their twenties will also feel changes in their bodies every year, such as being afraid of cold, not daring to show their feet and necks, and they will also feel that they are easily sick and their immunity has become low. I feel that my body is not as good as it was when I was younger, so I have a feeling that I am old.

Because I am in my 20s, I feel that I have experienced a lot of things, and my life has been stereotyped, and there are no more opportunities and challenges, so I say that I am old. Nowadays, people's minds are becoming more and more mature, and they often experience a lot of things at a very young age, so they say that they are old.

Some people will feel that they have become old mentally, and they don't want to think about it so much, or they can't talk about some things. However, such a mentality is not right, you should adjust your mentality in time, always be in a state of struggle, and face life with the best and most positive attitude.

These young people are now accustomed to this trend of thought, and they all feel that they are under a lot of pressure, so they are very tired, and they are willing to speak the words of the Buddhist mentality in their daily lives. Young people who don't have a little bit of what they should be, like a comfortable and enjoyable life, and are satisfied with their own state.

Half of it was because of ridicule, saying that his youth was not there, usually because the pressure was very high now, and then he was very tired every day, and he felt that he was many years older. I like the comfortable living conditions of the elderly, and I have become accustomed to it, and I have stepped into the life of the elderly in advance.

Personally, I think it's because the ability of young people to resist pressure is too weak, and they don't have the ability to resist pressure like the elders of the older generation before.

For our new generation of people, they have not suffered much, and they have grown up with a golden spoon since childhood. <>

Everyone is the baby of their parents, and they have not suffered much since childhood, and even a large number of young people feel that they just go to school silently, and then graduate successfully, and then find a stable job, and live this life. There is no spirit of wanting to struggle, because I have not had any hard life since I was a child, and I have not experienced any idea of wanting to struggle, so young people today can easily lose the motivation to struggle, and there is also because of the current society. The competition is too big, it's too fierce, and the pressure on us young people is too great, not only on ourselves, but also from friends, parents, and family members, and this pressure can lead to a negative growth.

There are even a lot of young people who have some mental illness.

Some people are constantly struggling, but after struggling, they find out that they are cheated, or they lose some of the most important things, they feel that these are not worth it, and then they will lose the motivation to struggle. It may also be because there is no right guide, and the right values and outlook on life have not been found.

Today's young people are too weak to resist pressure, and because with the progress of society and the improvement of the family economy, there are few days of suffering, so it is easy to lose the motivation to struggle. <>

But as young people, we must think clearly about what we want, and we must have the correct three views, when we become adults, try not to ask for our own at home, we should not need to provide things at home, we find a way to get it ourselves, and then be a good citizen on the road, struggle to live the life we want, this is a spirit that our young people should have.

Because there are so many entertainment facilities and entertainment programs nowadays. An overly comfortable life can make people lose their fighting spirit.

I think a big part of the reason is that times are evolving. Most of today's young people are used to growing up by their parents, and they have experienced too few setbacks, and they will lose the motivation to struggle at the slightest difficulty. At the same time, electronic products such as mobile phones, computers, and game consoles have caused great inertia among young people.

Because today's young people are easy to retreat in the face of difficulties, young people are generally only children, and they have been carefully cared for by their parents from childhood to adulthood, so once they encounter difficulties, they can't persevere, so they lose the motivation to struggle.

Because today's young people always think too much and do too little, thinking that their efforts may not be rewarded, so they simply don't struggle.

Because I don't understand what I need, or whether I can really succeed even if I work hard, I am competitive, the results are not obvious, and the natural motivation is insufficient.

Because life is very comfortable, I haven't suffered anything since I was a child, and I have parents to rely on, but over time I have lost my fighting spirit, and I feel that I can get it without working hard, so why work hard?

Now some young people don't have the mentality of the older generation to resist pressure, they are all living in the present, and they are happy day by day.

Most people's anxiety is because: uncertainty about the future, comparison: people are more popular than dead people, choices:

A fork in the road in life. You are uncertain about your future, you have a confused attitude, or you usually compare yourself to others, or there will be many forks in the road in your life and you don't know how to choose.

If you really can't think clearly, as long as you think quietly, a person may be anxious for more than ten years because of a problem, in fact, anxiety is not terrible at all! Sometimes anxiety also pushes the development of society as a whole, or your own development, etc.! Everyone, no matter who you are, in your life, will have anxiety, so if you are anxious, you can't be optimistic and fast, then you may fall into the abyss!

When you are staring into the abyss, the abyss is staring at you, look at it, but don't look at it for too long.

Most of today's young people are only children, and their parents pay attention to intellectual cultivation from an early age and ignore psychological education, resulting in their psychological fragility after entering society; In addition, young people have a strong sense of competition, but they do not know how to cooperate with others, and excessive pressure even makes them hostile to the people around them; At the same time, "elite education" makes them compare themselves with others all the time, and a considerable number of people will find themselves an unattainable goal, which cannot be achieved, and frustration arises spontaneously.

When I was a child, I always thought that there were poems and fields in the distance, but when I grew up, I realized that they had to face mortgages and car loans. This has led to a growing sense of anxiety among young people today, and this anxiety can lead to a vicious circle, and in the long run, many young people can't stand this kind of pressure, and are likely to suffer from depression, or cause more serious consequences.

Pressure is endless, everyone is not smooth sailing in society, everyone will face all kinds of setbacks, but some people are better than a good attitude, no matter what happens, they have the courage to face it, and have a heart to move forward. Sometimes it's more important to face a problem than to solve it. The body is the capital of the revolution, and we should take care of ourselves whenever and wherever we are, not only in terms of physical health, but more importantly, in terms of mental health.

When we go out, not letting our parents worry about us is the greatest responsibility of a boy, and it is also the greatest tenderness of a girl.

Nowadays, life and work are becoming more and more stressful, which makes each of us feel very anxious at times. The pressure of social competition on young people is very high. It is understood that there are millions of fresh college graduates every year, but in society, we do not have so many jobs for our young people.

This has led to some people being anxious about finding a job. For some children who did not graduate from 985 Fly 211 schools, they were almost not competitive in the face of equal conditions. As a result, many people choose to go to graduate school.

And to be admitted to graduate school, it is a single-plank bridge crossed by thousands of troops. The pressure of going to graduate school is very huge, and there will be pressure from family, friends and other aspects.

Some young people choose to work, and it is not much easier for them. Every day, they have to continue to learn, accept and absorb new knowledge, watch the speeches of various business predators, buy all kinds of successful books, go to various courses that can improve their skills, and obtain various certificates that can help them get promoted. The daily pace of these young people's lives is so fast-paced that they don't have time to enjoy the fun they imagined when they were students.

I think it's still because these people's mentality is not mature enough, and they always think about something and let others be responsible. However, with responsibility, it is easy to be emotionally affected by all kinds of negative news over time, and then become a negative person.

Due to their shallow social experience and little experience, young people are very prone to negative emotions when faced with complex social situations. There are also young people's physiological desires are relatively strong, the opposite sex is very strong desire for food, easy to lose control, easy to excessive, to bring a lot of imbalance to the body, when the body is unbalanced, it is more difficult to face the world faced, so it is more likely to produce negative emotions. The solution is to control physiological needs well, maintain physical and mental health, constantly improve talents, accumulate experience, be good at summarizing, and increase wisdom.

Because young people's values have not yet stabilized, that is, they have not yet formed stable values, and they are extremely easy to be influenced by various ideologies, so if young people want to have ambitions and make a career, they must interact with people with positive energy in order to gain the motivation and energy to achieve their careers.

One of the biggest reasons is that because I am too young, because I am young, I have less experience, because I have less experience, so my understanding is not high, because my understanding is not high, and negative emotions can occupy my head at any time, which is purely normal!

In fact, young people will also be affected by these negative emotions because of their poor self-control.

Not only young people will be affected, but also middle-aged and elderly people. Everyone is likely to be affected by a bad environment, not just young people.

If a person does not experience anxiety, anger and anger at a young age, it means that the rest of his life will be full of all kinds of harm to him. The idiom is very well-informed, not only in the vision, but also in the heart.

Because those negative emotions are very powerful, young people are not strong-willed, so they are easily influenced.

No matter how much knowledge you have, if you don't have a good and positive ideological consciousness and mentality, you still can't accomplish anything, at most you will only talk about it, and finally push the responsibility for achieving nothing to the society or others.

Most of the negative emotions of young people stay in emotions, which are easy to transform and disappear, and the transition from one emotion to another is also very fast, which is different from the accumulation of negative energy. If we change our thinking to children, children's mood changes even faster, from laughing to crying, from crying to laughing without thinking, more susceptible to external influences, although expressive tension, but the benefits to the self outweigh the disadvantages, because emotions need to be expressed and vented. Young people are not only affected by negative emotions, but also easily affected by positive emotions, this is a topic of growth, it is necessary to observe the world and absorb and reject, this is a process, as mentioned above, the change of emotions is not a big problem, and even good for the self.

I think it's because of the life experiences of young people. Nowadays, many young people are living relatively smoothly and have not experienced much hardship. They are less resilient to setbacks.

The second reason is that young people have less experience and tend to go to extremes when looking at problems. Finally, young people have reached maturity in their cognitive level. In fact, people's cognitive ability is fully mature after they go to college, and they will become accustomed to looking at problems from the perspective of dialectical logic.

That's why it was affected.

I think that young people are still mentally unstable and easily disturbed by various factors from the outside world. The heart is not very mature.