My boyfriend who has been talking for six years chooses to break up with me, should I get it back?

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I want to ask you two questions, first, do you think about getting married and having children, and second, can you be sure that he really loves you and not someone else you like.

If you haven't thought about getting married and having children, then you can continue to maintain a relationship with him, no one has the right to stop you, but you are bound to become special people, and your relatives and friends around you will not understand, which needs to be carefully considered.

If you know that he really loves you and has no other favorite person, then you can redeem him, he is afraid that he will not be able to give you happiness, because he thinks that only enough material can give a woman happiness, but this is not the case.

Happiness is your inner experience, how many rich people will spend money to get drunk, quarrel all day long, cuckold each other, the world of rich people is something we don't understand. Then you can live a simple life, you can be a maverick young man without getting married and having children, and there are many young people who hold that you don't get married and don't have children.

It's been six years, why didn't he say it early or late in the past six years, but said it at this time, the reason is that he has found a more suitable person for him. Even if he didn't look for someone else, the result of the six-year relationship in exchange for a six-year relationship was that he proposed to break up, which shows how much he doesn't care about you. Six years may be a girl's most brilliant time.

It's been together for so long, and my boyfriend proposed to break up that I really don't love it, and even if I redeem it, there will be no result, if I don't regret it in the future, you can try it.

If you are angry and have a conflict, after the calm and precipitation of two people, the contradiction will be resolved slowly, if he is determined to break up with you, then I am afraid it will not be useful for you to keep it, because it has been six years, and it is definitely not a brain fever to say that you have broken up. If this is the case, please be free and easy, what you are asking for is not feelings, you lose your dignity, and make the other party look down on it more, rather than a long pain in this way, it is better to have a short pain, and reposition your life. Life is full of landscapes, and you can start again at any time.

The main thing is to see what he wants to separate from you for, if he really doesn't love it, then let it go, if it's a small contradiction, try to redeem it, after all, it's not easy to be together for so long.

If only one person moves forward bravely and only one person insists on a relationship, there is no need to change it, because the relationship cannot ask whether it is worth it or not, but it depends on whether the heart can be close. If you are willing to take 99 steps to him, and he is not willing to take a step forward to you, and takes 50 steps back, this relationship has already been staggered, and if you persist, in the end, under your long-term unilateral passion, he will become the one who is favored without fear, and you will probably become the one who is in the dust. If he has the heart to pick up the flower that you bloom in the dust, that's fine, but if he doesn't want to step on it, then you will end up hurting very badly.

I have also suffered emotionally, and I have struggled in relationships, which are some of my insights, and I hope it can help you.

Don't make it back, six years is not a short time, maybe he is tired, and if he continues, it will be a matter of Lao Yan.

If there is still love between the two parties, and there may be some small misunderstandings between each other that caused a breakup, I feel the need to redeem it.

Did your boyfriend really love you when he said he broke up? This question is very important because when two people are together, the purpose of marriage is to work hard together! I don't think social pressure is the reason for your breakup, it depends on whether the man has the heart to work hard, a heart that loves you, and a heart that works hard to make you happy, and the attitude is very important.

If you love, please love deeply, let go, please be thorough. After talking about it for six years, I didn't think it was appropriate, why didn't he leave early? Now that he said that he was going to break up, he would just leave, why bother saying anything because his family conditions were not good, and he didn't have the courage to go on with this kind of beautiful words, he made himself so wronged, and intentionally or unintentionally gave his girlfriend an illusion:

It's not that he doesn't love me, it's that there is a reason.

Those who know others are wise, and those who know themselves are clear. To believe in a person in the same way, one must know that person. And to build trust is an expression of the will of both parties, that is, to be able to achieve mutual trust.

Without being able to truly understand a person, one-sided trust can seem naïve and even dull. To understand a person, sometimes it is not the length of time that you spend together, some people have been together for a long time, but they have never been seriously observed, and it is easy to be confused by superficial phenomena. Knowing a person sometimes through a specific thing can give you a general understanding of him, and more understanding is shown by his daily behavior.

This point should not be fooled by appearances.

No! First: Since you choose to break up, it means that you have an idea, and the love you want to recover will also turn sour.

Second: Letting go is also a kind of spiritual happiness.

If giving up is such an easy thing, how can you break the connection with him, how can you come to Wukong Q&A to ask? Six years of relationship, how can there be no true feelings, how can there be no trace of concern. Those who persuade you to give up at every turn, have you thought about your efforts over the years?

Ever wondered how you feel? They will only say some irresponsible cool words, and as a girl, you must be responsible for yourself for love and life.

The boyfriend of six years chose to break up with you, maybe he is really tired of you and there is no need to make amends.