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When you get old, you will understand the feeling of leaving, it's not that you want to do this, it's that you can't stand it mentally, even if your family takes care of her well, she will still repeat it so much, so it's better to be patient She is your elder after all, why bother too much, and the hurtful words she says are not from the original intention It will be better to think so.

I guess she thinks you don't pay attention to her when you find her a nanny, the old man is very sensitive, so she does too much to attract your attention, and treat her tolerantly.

You can only accept it slowly. It seems to be a kind of "work", but it is actually a kind of "love" for their children, and parents will always care about their children in different forms. As the saying goes: pity the hearts of parents in the world.

On the one hand, the old man's desire to control his children is too strong, and he always wants to dictate the married life of his son and daughter, and wants them to live according to their own ideas, and this will also cause the disgust of the daughter-in-law or son-in-law, and then there will be contradictions.

On the other hand, the concept of the elderly and the concept and living habits of young people are different, generally speaking, a very good old man must live with his children and his wife, living together all day long, because of the existence of this wide difference, it is inevitable that there will be various contradictions, and after the contradiction arises, the old man will cry and complain that the children are always talking to their spouses, saying that they have raised a white, in fact, in the eyes of outsiders, this is a bit unreasonable.

For the old people who do this, the children have grown up, have their own lives and choices, they have the ability and the right to deal with everything themselves, they should not interfere in their lives, to respect their choices, although this is difficult, after all, they have been in charge of their children for decades, they have been accustomed to the identity of parents, and feel that children should listen to their own words, but this is not right, we must adjust our concepts and do what we want to do, instead of staring at our children.

In the traditional cultural atmosphere, young people should take the initiative to understand the elders, although there is no need to be as close to absolute subordination as in the previous social period, but understanding and respect and appropriate obedience have their existence value and basis, and "filial piety" as the first of traditional virtues, which also contains the value orientation of both filial piety and obedience. Therefore, the younger generation should take the initiative to understand that the older generation is the proper meaning of the question.

It's money, when people are old, they have to have enough money, and they have to have money in their hands to have a better life in their old age and make others envious.

Fighting is whether your body is healthy, having a healthy body is more important than anything else, you can travel, go for a walk with your peers, go shopping, talk and laugh.

When you are old, you don't want to be healthy, so when you are old, you will be healthy, when you are young, you use your body to earn money, and when you are old, you use money to treat diseases.

When you get old, you will know that nothing is as important as your own body, and only when your own body is good will you not increase the burden on your children.

When people get old, they fight for their own mentality, as long as their mentality is better, their later life will be happier.

How much money you have in your hands, money is a person's capital, and after having money, children will naturally be filial to themselves.

Hello, why do you think about your daughter when you are old? In fact, the main reason is that China is a nation that is thicker than water and recognizes blood kinship. Parents, love their children, of course, everything will be for the sake of their children.

In fact, it is not that parents are unwilling to let go and enjoy the feedback given by adult children and poor girls. Rather, the benefits that Wang argues that society can provide are not deep enough, so parents who have worked hard all their lives, no matter how old they are, as long as they do not coincidentally have completely lost their physical strength, they will always consider their children without hesitation. Of course, I hope that their offspring will live better and more comfortable.

What can parents do for their children when they are old? A few days ago, it snowed heavily, and my younger siblings sent me a voice message asking me to persuade my dad: stop doing dangerous things!

Here's the thing, my dad is in his seventies and almost eighty, and my hometown is a bungalow, and there will be thick snow on the roof after the snowfall. My brother's family usually lives in a small town, and every time it snows, he will go home as soon as possible to sweep the snow on the roof, just because he is afraid that his father will be in a hurry.

It's the same this time, but it's just snowing, and the speed of driving is definitely slower than usual, but I didn't expect that when I got home, I saw the old man climbing up the ladder to the roof, and my brother was busy helping the old man down, and asked him why was he in a hurry? My dad said loudly: I don't want to be afraid that you will be tired, I am done sweeping, won't I save you from sweeping?

My brother was speechless...... too

When we were young, when our parents were working, we always wanted to participate, saying that it was to help our parents, but the result was "the more we helped", when we all became parents, our parents were already old, and their ability at this time was just like when we were young, and they would really sometimes "help more and more".

Listening to my younger sibling's voice, I could feel her worry: Sister, you persuade Dad, don't be so anxious, what's the good if you bump into it? I don't ask him for help, just don't fill in anything!

Yes, when people are old, don't worry too much about their children's affairs, as long as you can take care of yourself, be healthy, healthy and safe, it will be the greatest help to your children.

However, there are too many elderly parents who have an "inexhaustible heart", they don't know that when they have too many things in their hearts, they will be tired and tired, and there will be physical problems, and physical problems will not only not help their children, but also cause trouble to their children.

So when I called my dad, I started to "go online": Dad, do you really want to help your son? If so, be clear now, you can't do anything but your own health.

So the only thing you can do is to spend each day safely and healthily!

Well, so be it, it's more ...... to "teach" the elderly than to give it to the children

As we get older, it becomes more and more unpleasant to look at our hard-working parents, and as our parents get older, our worries gradually increase. Now everyone's life is very busy, a year may not be able to go back to the hometown to see the parents a few times, every time I go home to see the mother's temples born of white hair, I feel that I am very unfilial, can not accompany the elderly, so we look at the aging relatives, as children what can we do?

The first thing to do is to go home often, and we are far from being as busy as we think. If you choose a weekend in a slightly closer place, you can also go back and have a look. It's just that we don't want to go home because we have tripped up too many social factors and feel that it is too troublesome to go home.

Every time I see the kind of elderly people on the Internet who are alone at home, I feel very uncomfortable, they don't even have any hobbies, maybe sitting in the yard for a day will pass.

2. Taking the elderly out for a walk and play is really very hard for the elderly all their lives, they have never traveled and don't know how to go out to play. I think we can pick up the old man if we have timeWhen you take your children out to play during the summer vacation, you also need to go out to play anyway, but there are elderly people so the itinerary is a little slower. We also need to be considerate of the elderly, after all, he raised us so big, and it is very appropriate to take him to meet some new affairs and let him feel the joy of travel.

3. Fight more**If we can't go home often, then we should fight more with our parents**, although some parents won't**, but a simple call** will still be, and you don't need to spend money to hit him. Play at least once a week or two weeksSometimes your parents miss you very much, but they are afraid that you will work outside and worry about you, so they don't want to say some things in their heartsI hope everyone can treat their parents well in their free time.

The parents of the older generation really worked very hard and paid a lot for us. Sometimes looking at the elderly who live alone at home reminds me of those left-behind children when I was a child. Especially when his parents are older, they can't see clearly, and there are no extra leisure activities, only when you go home, it may be the happiest time in his time.

We should buy more delicious food for the elderly, and we should also take the elderly out for a walk, go out to travel, listen to some of the needs of the elderly, accompany the elderly more, and cook a meal for the elderly is very good.

Spend more time with your parents, chat with your parents more, take your parents on trips, watch TV with your parents, buy clothes with your parents, walk with your parents, and eat together.

Filial piety is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. In the face of aging parents, what we can do is to spend the most time with them. Don't wait until you lose it.

Give your parents more company, see what they really need, what they want, and feel it with your heart, so that they can live happier in their later years.