In the face of lonely family affection, do we still need to go home for the New Year?

Relatives are at most icing on the cake, and don't expect charcoal in the snow. It's rare to go back and forth twice a year, so don't make it seem like you're very familiar. It's just to get together and be lively, if it's not lively, it's nothing if you don't go back. So as not to be tired and time-consuming.

Our family feels that because the family is too large, maybe, the relationship between the people in the family is more chaotic, and there are more businesses in the family, so everyone is focused on interests, and when eating together, if you are a person with no money and no status, you will not look at you. I think it's really indifferent, so I make all kinds of excuses not to go home during the Chinese New Year.

The answer is no. Even parents are looking at money, not to mention relatives. If the parents have two or more children, the parents are very polite and tolerant to the rich one, and they are very good to you on the surface, and then play tricks on you and ask you to give more money, buy a house, buy a car, find a job for the one who has no money...

Otherwise, they will be morally kidnapped, saying that the rich have no conscience, are not filial, are vicious, and do not know gratitude, and then the parents will play tricks, looking for death and life, think about how cold the heart is.

I think it's a matter of going home, it's just a bit of a trip back, I think I'm a kind of respect for traditional culture, but after I go back, I feel that my home is really getting less and less flavorful.

I remember when my mother was hospitalized, the ward was deserted, and no relatives came to see me, and since then, no matter whether my life is good or bad, I will never go to see these relatives during the Chinese New Year.

I feel that I am now going home for the New Year completely for my grandfather, our family is more patriarchal, I am a girl, everyone loves my brother very much, but I go back to me is not painful, I heard that they thought about throwing me away when they were young, I was my grandfather has always insisted on leaving me, so I have always been very close to my grandfather.

My husband and I got married that year, my mother-in-law deducted her husband's land requisition compensation and didn't give it, and bought a house for her second son, my husband and I were naked married, and she and my brother-in-law didn't come to the wedding when we got married, and I have been married for more than ten years, and I have never been to her house for the New Year's holidays and birthdays, and I have never played **, and I have given a penny. My husband knows that I have an opinion about them, and he never picks up their ** in front of me, so he decisively feels better when they die.

It's a hassle to go home, you have to waste four hours on the road, and you don't have much to say when you really go home. I don't think there's any need to get together for the New Year's holidays. Each small family lives on its own.

Parents should not force their children to go home, and when they go home, they must prepare to eat and drink, and they themselves and their children are tired. Usually play more and communicate more. I'll go back and fix something when there's something to do.

It's better to be realistic.

I think I go home for the Chinese New Year right now just to see my newborn very simple little sister, I feel warm in my heart when I see him, but the rest of my family makes me feel very cold in my heart.

I have been away for more than ten years, and I have to go home every Chinese New Year. In fact, it has nothing to do with family affection, but I feel that I should go home.

I remember when I was in elementary school, the principal of the elementary school didn't let me go to school because I started school early. At that time, one of our relatives had a good relationship with the principal, but that relative didn't help us because he thought our family had no money. Then it was my parents who knelt down and begged the principal for three hours to let me go to elementary school.

So since then, I have vowed to go home to see my parents during the Chinese New Year and not leave my relatives.

There is nothing to go back, no one can think about it, and it is a pure waste of money to go home.

If I don't mix well, I won't go home, and if I earn a salary this year that I can't open my mouth? When I went home, I could only receive the white eyes of my relatives.

Didn't want to go back. There is no family affection to speak of. It's a lot of work and money. People are still indifferent to you. One mobile phone per person. There is no communication. I really don't want to celebrate the New Year. Boring. Just live your life well.

If you don't go back, when you are poor, your parents are hiding. In the future, old age and death will not come and go, live and not raise, and die will not be buried.

My parents are gone, and I don't want to go back to my hometown, just a sister, and I have my own family, and every year when I go back, it is lukewarm, and I will let my children ask me for red envelopes. Forget it this year, don't go back, have that time to go abroad with spare money! It's very cool.

I went home mainly to see my parents, but I don't really have much contact with other relatives, and even if my parents go to give them gifts, I won't go with them.

Married far away, took the children home, my mother went out to play, no one cooked the food, could starve to death at home, decisively did not go back, really had something to go home, lived in a hotel, and left after finishing things.

If you have parents, go back and see, no matter how they gave birth to you and raised you. When the parents are gone, the brothers and sisters have a good relationship and good humanity, they can get together, but if it doesn't work, forget it! My father has eight brothers and sisters, and it is very interesting that because some of them have bad character and character, they hate that one in their hearts, and that scolds this, and some of them always want to make peace together as if they have bitter hatred.

My father was very ashamed of them, and he couldn't help it!

It turned out that every Chinese New Year at my parents' house was the meal of a large family with my mother alone, and my sisters, sisters, brothers and sisters were waiting to eat, and then I simply didn't go, I had no obligation to cook for a large family, and when I was served, there were leftovers that were cold, very chilling.

Why are you so unaffectionate, so sad! Do you want your children to grow up and start a family and never go back to see you? Won't it be my parents' home? Don't just look at the present, don't always think that others are not good to you, you will suffer, people's feelings are mutual.

It's so indifferent that I'm basically not going home!

This is my 28th year of being single, and I really don't want to go home at all, as soon as I get home, I will be surrounded by relatives asking about my marriage, and then after asking about it, they will leave me alone.

You can not come to live, this is a phenomenon of historical products. Why don't you say that your relatives don't help you, why should people help you, will you help your relatives? It's okay to break off your heart normally! Don't add insults to each other.

Our family is very affectionate, but we are often hurt. Cover your heart with enthusiasm and not your heart. I am now pregnant with my second child, and I told my husband that we really can't do anything about others, but we can't do this in our family, and we can't do this in the education of future generations!

I feel really disappointed in my relatives, because since I was growing up, none of my relatives have ever reached out to help us in our family's difficult situation.

I go back every winter and summer vacation, and I spend about two months at home, and my parents are old, even if I like money now, it's because I don't have a sense of security when I'm old. Every year, I buy shiitake mushrooms, fungus, sea cucumbers, ginseng, cuttlefish, walnuts, longan, red dates, gastrodia, notoginseng, and ejiao back to my parents.

Feed the big children one bite at a time, send them to 985 to graduate, and the parents have worked hard for half a lifetime.

Whoever says an inch is careless, and he will be rewarded with three springs.

Poor in the downtown no one asks Rich in the mountains have distant relatives, the ancients honestly do not deceive me. When my husband and I were not in good condition, my husband's brother and sister-in-law looked like they were ignoring it, but later when our conditions were good, our hypocritical face was even more annoying. In addition to asking for money, my in-laws usually can't think of their husbands at all, and going home to see them during the Chinese New Year is to add to their own blockage.