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The husband accompanied her but made a wish, because his wife was already terminally ill of cancer and lived a very painful life every day, so the husband chose to respect his wife's wishes, help her realize her wishes, and hoped that his wife could be happier.
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Of course, it is a wish, in fact, there is not much time left, and the more important thing is to fulfill your last wish and make your last life meaningful.
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But the wish, birth, old age, sickness and death are natural laws, which cannot be changed, it is better to fulfill the wish of the wife.
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1. You must know that your wife needs you the most at this time, not to mention your wife, even if it is an ordinary friend or passerby, we should help it in principle.
2. Of course, everyone's ability is limited. Psychologically, the ability to bear the soul is limited, and the landlord is not blamed here. But it is recommended that the landlord, as a man, should be a man.
If you need it, you can seek psychological help (commonly known as seeing a psychiatrist), not that you are sick, but that under consultation, professionals can help you untie the knot, quickly get out of the confusion for a while, don't regret yourself after doing something wrong in the confusion, regret yourself.
3. I'm not a psychiatrist, but I can't help but talk about it here, nagging, which is also an effective psychological liberation.
4. It's best to explain what it means to be unbearable? If you are married, you have never participated in the white affairs and memorial services of colleagues, relatives and friends. What's more, your wife is fine, cancer has not died for decades, but there are actual cases in my country (you can check it on the Internet), leave that "unbearable" power to take good care of your wife, and then I'm afraid you will not be able to bear it:
You're 99 dying, and your wife is healthier than you.
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Same encounter. I guess it's worse than you, I'm resisting!! When the money is spent, and then I ask my family to accompany me, I go to borrow money, and when the borrowed money is spent, I go out to work again, and I send it back when I have money!!
What can I do? Don't give up!! Unfortunately, I can't accompany !!
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The woman has been with her husband who is suffering from cancer for 24 years, and this deliberately makes people feel very moved, in today's society, there are very few people who are together because of real feelings, and there are very few people who are really together. <>
This is why the number of divorces is getting higher and higher, and we can imagine why. In today's couples, they want to divorce when they encounter a little setback, which is why there are more divorced people than married people now. <>
Each and every one of us wants to have a happy marriage. The story of this woman accompanying her husband who is suffering from cancer can be said to make us feel very moved, in the eyes of our ordinary people, the ** cost of suffering from cancer is already very high, but if this can be done for decades, then I think this kind of relationship is very touching, why can't we be like this couple. <>
I think when this couple was healthy, their lives must have been very happy, and now that he has cancer, his wife can still do it for him, and if this is on us, will we still do this? I think this should be thought about by many people, can we really be like a wedding vow, can we really accompany each other to the end of life? If I have a wife like this, then I also want his life to be safe, even if I exchange my happiness for her happiness, then I am very willing.
Through this incident, I understand that real marriage requires all of us to support each other, not that marriage is to have children, nor is it to get married to accompany each other, in fact, we should have more support and understanding, we also hope that everyone's marriage can be forgiven, it is not easy for two people to walk together, of course, if you want to leave each other is very simple.
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I think I can do it, because my lover and I love each other very much, and no matter what difficulties we encounter, we will support each other and help each other to face the difficulties in front of us.
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I think so, because I love him so much that I can't bear to let him die. And I think I was the luckiest person of my life to meet him.
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It is really difficult for your lover to stay with cancer, because in the face of a seriously ill lover, you not only need to spend a lot of time and energy to take care of her, but it is also really difficult to bear the financial pressure.
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If my lover has cancer, I will never leave him and will take good care of him, because we made a vow to be together forever, so we can't break our vow.
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Holding the hand of the son and growing old with the son, although the words are good, how many people can do it? In this society now, there are many people who quarrel because of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, which makes their feelings explode, and finally go to divorce. How difficult it is to be with cancer, which has no choice but to be by your side.
There are such feelings, but there are few in the world. Ordinary people quarrel just because of trivial things in life, divorce and let children, and can't bring a complete home. The relationship has broken down, so people have to choose divorce, and both are relieved.
Therefore, it is very rare to have a relationship of being suffering from cancer or paralysis, and the other half is still by your side
True love is undoubtedly two people from strangers to acquaintances to lovers, moving towards marriage. This is a process from acquaintance to acquaintance, and it is also particularly beautiful, when two people decide to get married, they must be full of hope for the future. The relationship between the two people is also very affirmative, and they yearn for happiness in the future!
But life is not so wishy-washy, there are always stumbles, and there are always trivial problems to solve. It is said that it is easy to fall in love, but it is difficult to live, because if the pressure brought by trivial things in life to the other party cannot be beared, then one party may choose to quit. For example, disease.
For example, life changes. For example, being busy with work or other things, and being negligent by the other party, etc., will make the two people who originally loved each other finally break down their relationship and go to divorce. There are too many examples like this in life.
But not all feelings are like this. There will always be the kind of life that even if life changes or illness is riddled with illness, the other party will always be by your side. There are also feelings of true love.
In order to understand each other, it is especially important to understand each other in life and consider each other for the sake of long-term relationships. If you are too selfish and only think about yourself, then it will be tiring to live together, and there are many problems between husband and wife, all of which are to understand each other, be considerate of each other, and more importantly, communicate between two people. It's hard to run a family well.
Therefore, it is particularly important for two people to have the same ideas and the same three views. Think about the time when the two of them walked to the marriage hall, when the host asked if they were willing to stay by each other's side regardless of illness or wealth, both of them agreed. So since it's promised, it should be done
It's best to be aroundNo matter how many touching or romantic things the other person did for you when you were young. That kind of thing, no matter who will do it, is also very simple, my personal point of view the most romantic thing is to accompany you to grow old slowly, if you can do this with your side to grow old slowly, watch the sunset together, that is the most romantic thing! If you are walking in the park and see an old couple holding hands and watching the sunset, will you envy such love?
When you encounter problems in life, think about the good of each other, after all, it is not easy to be together.
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Personally, I am actually very envious of such a relationship, after all, it is very rare for two people to be able to stay together and rely on each other until the end of the day.
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Many people say that Zhang Yan is too difficult, too hard, but Zhang Yan said: Although I do this very hard, sometimes very anxious, because I often have to worry about my husband's physical condition, but the doctor determined that his life is no more than two years, I accompany him to insist on fighting cancer, so far, we have gone through 24 years, I am very gratified, this has to be said to be a miracle, Zhang Yan said, as long as the family is happy, I will insist on accompanying him to persevere, nothing is more important than my husband's body.
is really a good wife, what more can a husband ask for, Zhang Yan's husband is fortunate to have met a good woman like Zhang Yan in his third life, so he must live well, and the two will go on together.
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The woman has accompanied her husband who has suffered from three types of cancer to fight cancer for 24 years, this kind of love is particularly rare, many people can not accompany you in love, only can accompany you to the same happiness, this kind of love is not a happy love, so this couple touched many people, and it is also this couple who let us know the truth.
Everyone will have their own relationship in the process of growing up, but when it comes to managing a relationship, many people don't know how to do it to make their relationship last. And when we got married, there was a line that we never gave up, but there are very few couples who really do not leave, and it is precisely because of this that this couple has touched many people, because this couple let us know the same suffering. The woman's husband suffered from three types of cancer, which can be said to be very painful, and many people thought that the woman would leave her husband, but she chose not to leave.
Now this woman has been with her husband for 24 years to fight cancer, it can be said that their love story has touched many people, this kind of love is also very rare, many women will not tell Duan pants to do this, in fact, whether it is a man or a woman, he can accompany you with the joy, but not necessarily with you with the suffering, so this kind of love is worth learning, when we are with the other half, no matter what the other party looks like, we should never give up. Love needs to be managed by itself, and only in the management will our love become long-lasting, and life will not leave regrets.
Beautiful love is two companions, never abandon, share weal and woe, it is also like this, love is the love that many people yearn for, so no matter what happens in love, we must choose not to give up, and we must also know how to cherish, because two people get along with this special fate, this fate you will miss if you don't cherish it, and your life will also leave a lot of regrets.
Therefore, we should learn from the touching story of this couple, only then will our lives become more exciting.
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It is very rare, and it can really be described as a model couple with deep affection. There is an old saying that husband and wife split Buzi is originally the same forest bird, and they fly separately when the disaster comes, but the unbridled love of these two is true and bad, which reflects the beauty of holding the hand of the son and growing old together.
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It is very rare, because a woman treats her husband without abandoning her husband and has a very sense of responsibility, so it is touching.
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This kind of love is really rare, and there are really few couples who can share hardships now, because most of them are too realistic.
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Very rare. Because it lasts really too long, they must be true love.
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This time, I think this wife is a very qualified wife, and she can accompany her husband through thick and thin, and when the other party is suffering from cancer, she can still silently accompany each other and constantly encourage her husband, and their relationship is very touching.
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It can be seen that this woman is very responsible, and has always been by her husband's side, helping him cause cancer together, which perfectly interprets the picture of a loving couple.
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It is really enviable to be able to have such a relationship, and in the face of illness and the pressure of life, there is no choice to give up on each other.
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I've worked in hospitals before, and I've seen many wives get sick and abandoned by men, so I can't be measured by human nature at critical times.
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Absolutely. Because my wife is the one we want to spend the rest of our lives with, of course I will do my best to help.
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I will definitely do my best to save him, even if the family is bankrupt, I am willing to work hard for my love, as long as there is a glimmer of hope, I will definitely persevere.
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I will do my best to save her, because she is the closest person to me in the world, and without her I would feel hopeless to live in this world.
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I should do everything I can to save my wife, because I should be a more responsible man.
Generally, the stages of cancer are divided into early, intermediate, and advanced stages. In medicine, there is also TNM staging, which is recommended by the World Health Organization for the vast majority of tumors: stage 1 is early; Phase II and Phase III belong to the middle stage, like Phase III may belong to the late middle stage, and Phase II belongs to the middle stage early; There are also four stages, which belong to the advanced stage, that is, extensive metastasis, or the lesion has spread and infiltrated severely, which is very advanced.
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