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Yes. And it's intentionally bullied, because others also deliberately bully, then use other people's ways to return it.
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Personally, I've had this experience before, because this kind of thing is very common, and it is easy to happen to myself or other people to take it for granted.
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Yes. When I was in school, I bullied my tablemate, because he was more timid and scared, so I used to tease him.
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Helping others is a very positive and meaningful act, but the question of whether or not to help a colleague who has bullied you needs to be on a case-by-case basis. If it's an emergency that requires immediate help, such as a physical injury or a major blow, then as a normal and kind person, you should do your best to help them. Especially if their lives are threatened, we should take action as soon as possible to keep them safe.
However, if it's not an emergency or something that can wait for a while to be resolved, we can look at the issue from all sides more calmly. We can ask ourselves if we still harbor a bad feeling or resentment towards this colleague. Do you feel uncomfortable in your heart?
After helping, will it be recognized by other colleagues? In addition to this, we can also try to communicate directly with the colleague to see if they really need our help and what kind of help we can provide them with their understanding. Most importantly, we need to make decisions that benefit our inner health and physical and mental health.
To sum up, we should not put ourselves in the vicious emotions of the past and make a decision, but should make a decision based on the actual situation, rationally consider the risks and opportunities that need to help others, and weigh the pros and cons before making a decision. If there is any moral responsibility to be assumed, it should certainly be faced with peace and responsibility.
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People who have been bullied deserve full compassion and respect. Being bullied can cause serious psychological damage and a blow to a person's self-esteem, so we should treat them with understanding and care.
First of all, we should try to avoid inflicting further harm or discrimination on the person being bullied. Whether it is in words or deeds, we should try to avoid ridiculing, threatening, or ostracizing them. Instead, we should give them encouragement, support, and kindness to make them feel that they are not alone.
In addition, we can promote the values of fairness and equality. This means that we should call for and participate in creating an environment free of bullying and discrimination, whether in school, in the workplace or in society. It is an environment in which everyone should be respected and able to enjoy their rights and dignity.
At the same time, we can provide help and support to those who have been bullied. This can include communicating with them, providing emotional support, directing them to professional help, etc. It is very important to help them rebuild their self-confidence and restore their mental health so that they can get back on their feet and find happiness and success in life.
In short, people who have been bullied deserve understanding, sympathy, and support. We should strive to create a bullying-free society and provide them with appropriate support to help them get out of the shadow of bullying and regain their dignity and self-confidence.
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It depends on who the bully is, or what type of person they are. For example, your siblings always bullied you when you were young, because you were young, you grew up fighting and fighting together. Then now you don't resent them, after all, they are all relatives, you can still chat and play together, the relationship is not much better, and you laughed about being bullied when you were a child, and you didn't take it to heart at all.
If it is your classmates who bully you, others do not like you, you are always bullied and beaten at school, and the teacher turns a blind eye, although you will only deal with them when you are in school, but you may always resent them, and even now you remember how they bullied you and threatened you, and you may now look at them and may avoid them, or you may wait for an opportunity to retaliate, depending on your personality or whether your current ability is enough to take revenge. Or you were bullied by other children in the village before, because you were divided into several factions, the strong ones bullied the weak ones, and then the factions were always changing, dividing and merging to form new factions, then when you saw someone who had bullied you before, you might ignore him, or you might also nod hello to him, after all, he didn't really target you, but you just happened to be in the faction he was crusading against. Hope, thank you.
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When I was a kid, I was hit with a slingshot by a neighbor kid and I got a nosebleed and cried all the time.
When I was in elementary school, she hit me with a ballpoint pen because of an argument with my tablemate, and I was blinded by a ballpoint pen.
When I was in junior high school, I was running on the playground and was pushed down by someone behind me and hit my head on the ground.
In high school, because of my bad grades, the director of the class mill asked me to go to the office, and he picked up an iron bar and slapped my back hard, and at that moment, I felt that my whole body fell apart. Later, I got depressed and almost committed suicide.
In college, once, when I went for a walk in the playground at night, I accidentally stepped on the air and fell and broke my left leg bone. During that time, I walked with a limp.
After work, once, riding an electric car to work, I encountered a car on the road, I couldn't dodge, and the whole person flew out of the blind and crashed into a tree on the side of the road.
The most painful thing was that once on the bus, when the driver was driving, there was a sudden brake, and I was thrown out of my seat. When the land collapsed, I felt that the sky was dark, and the world was about to collapse.
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Summary. Have you ever been bullied or bullied by others? If you have been bullied by others, how have you+ dealt with it?
When I was a child, I was bullied once or twice. I'm small. And also very introverted and honest. So some bad boys would bully me.
But even though I'm small and I'm a girl, who bullied me? I'm going to rebel. When they beat me, I beat him. Even if I can't beat me, I'm going to fight.
That way they won't dare hit me next time. Because as long as you resist, he knows that you are not afraid of him. Then he will be afraid of you.
If he hits you and you don't resist and swallow your anger, then he will bully you next time. So when you are bullied, you must resist.
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