What experiences have you experienced or heard of as the harder you try, the more angry you get ?

When I first came to this company, in order to better integrate into my colleagues quickly, I worked hard without reservation, usually doing some chores, and even ordering takeout to bring them food at noon, but I think these efforts do not prove my worth, but they take it for granted, is this the legend that the harder you work, the more angry you are? I felt like I was about to explode.

When I went to work, I finished my work and felt that there was nothing to do, so I cleaned up, and the leader saw it in his eyes, I thought he would praise me, or think I was more motivated, he was good, and he quit the cleaning aunt, and asked me to go to the unit early in the future and clean up.

I'm the best example of myself, I've been learning to write articles recently, but every time I want to read a book at home, my parents will hit me, what's the use of writing articles, and I can't make money, it's better to go out and run Didi, this is really the harder I work, the more angry I am, they don't know how to learn to encourage, I'm very irritable.

After graduating from university, I came to work in a company in Guangzhou. When I first arrived, I didn't know the inside story of the company, so I worked hard. He is very serious about his work, and he rushes to do everything in the company.

However, the boss didn't buy it very much, so I had the feeling that "the harder I worked, the more angry I became". Over time, it was discovered. Except for me, the rest of the company are relatives of the boss's family.

I also left the company later.

After I got married, I took on some things at home, taking care of the children, doing housework, etc. As for my husband, although he earns money, he just loves to play cards, and sometimes he doesn't come back until midnight, and it's useless to talk to him, so I got angry and got divorced. It alarmed the family.,Fortunately, my parents supported me.,But it's angry that my husband's aunt doesn't say much about my husband.,Always blame me for not controlling him.,In the end, it's up to me.,And my husband's relatives on their side also said the same.,The protagonist is over there.,Desperately say what the hell I'm about.,I really don't know what to do.。

I often hear some articles or paragraphs or other people's books say that you have to work hard or something, but after you really work hard at work, you may still be scolded by your boss, because you work overtime to make something, she feels disdainful.

For the final exam of the university, I ran to the library every day half a month in advance, turned a book back and forth several times, and the test questions were passed many times, and other people in the dormitory were playing games every day, and finally I got more than 70 grades, because there were more subjective questions, but my bed was 90, I was confused, so many subjective questions, how could it be. Later, I thought about it carefully, because he was the class leader, the teacher recognized him, and the invigilator was also the teacher, so the whole class could not lose face. I tried, but I enjoyed the bureaucratic air.

Is your cooking for human beings? I really don't know how my son fell in love with you in the first place, it's not good to do this, it's not good, even having a child has to be dissected."

I worked hard to learn how to cook and eat, but because I put more chili peppers, she said this to her son, and I was really angry.

From that time on, I didn't go back except to send my daughter back to show them.