Why is there no absolute victory, and there is no absolute defeat?

Victory hides the risk of defeat, and defeat contains the opportunity to win.

Victories and defeats are only temporary. If the cup is full, it will be profitable, and the moon will be profitable, and this time is also that time. People tend not to dwell on the moment of victory, nor to be depressed on the moment of defeat, but all about the process, which is what they deserve.

Therefore, if you win, you must continue to work hard to maintain the posture of victory, and if you fail, you must regroup and make persistent efforts to have a chance to win. The so-called victory is not arrogant, defeat is not discouraged, as long as you have the courage to face it, as long as you have worked hard, the result will not be important. Some people have won but also paid a heavy price, some people have failed but also lost heroic, tragic, although Liu Bang won the world, Xiang Yu killed himself Wujiang, can it be said that Xiang Yu is really a failure, for thousands of years, who does not feel sorry for Xiang Yu, who does not feel ashamed of Liu Bang's behavior, although Xiang Yu defeated Yourong, although Xiang Yu lost the world, but still shines in the annals of Qianqiu, can it be said that Xiang Yu really lost to Liu Bang?

Lao Tzu once said that misfortune and blessing rely on, and blessing and misfortune lurk. Victory can be the starting point for the next defeat, and defeat can be the starting point for the next victory. Philosophical theories, I can't explain it clearly.

As long as it's a game with people! It will be a thousand wounds! Self-inflicted damage of eight hundred! There is a price to be paid for yourself! So there are no absolutes in saying anything!

A person's superiority is determined by his own quality and ability, but at the same time, as a "person" in society, his level is evaluated by outsiders. The definition of success and failure depends on the person, don't care about gains and losses, success or failure, life is just a few decades in a hurry. Victory and defeat are not absolute.

Life is only like a flocculent before the wind, sorrow is also sporadic, joy is also sporadic, and they are all a little bit of Ping.

Yes, there is no absolute thing to do, people are not as good as heaven, but there is one point, as long as you work hard and make progress, you will definitely have good luck.

That's right! Victory and defeat are only relative, as long as people are there and confidence is there, hope is there! This is true for everyone!

Yes, I've been working hard and struggling. It's said that hard work doesn't necessarily lead to success, but if you don't work hard, you won't succeed.

Yes, of course, you don't always lose.

Yes, there are no regrets after trying.

Don't let your heart get too tired, it's not worth it.

Don't spend the belly of a gentleman with the heart of a villain.

You don't want to, but you still love him? If you love someone, you will want to.

Look at Joe Girard He did a lot of things without success, and even his wife and children left him Failure is already a common thing for him, he can't do anything, and finally sells a car for himself and becomes a sales master.

I have two clients, both 43 years old, one now has 7 houses, 5 are rented out as guest houses, they buy when they are young and have money, and now they have opened a small factory.

There is also a customer who is also 43 years old, bought 2,000 yuan of insurance, returned it, went to a direct sales to buy protein powder to eat, no wife and children, in fact, everyone chooses their own way, may walk beautifully, may not walk beautifully.

If this is the case, it is better to choose a different life, not to choose the current comfort, or even no achievements, to change something that has never been done before, to enrich yourself, to change your lifestyle, don't wait until you are 50 years old It will be more painful, why didn't you do it 10 years ago.

What is your definition of nothing? There is no absolute defeat in the world, and there is no absolute victory. Lao Tzu said that fortune and misfortune depend on each other, and weal and woe are closely related.

At least you've gained the experience of setbacks and tenacious will that many people haven't gained in their lifetimes. Don't be discouraged, the doer knows no bounds. The most important thing is to have a good mindset.

Chow Yun-fat said that the ordinary heart is extraordinary. Mindset matters. Jiang Taigong went out of the mountain at the age of eighty to calm the world.

Had he spent the first 80 years constantly telling himself that he had failed? The important thing is to come up with an optimistic mindset that does not admit defeat. Do not fall into the ambition of the clouds, do not move the heart of the white head.

Bless you for being able to realize your value.

Hello, it's actually very simple, being a person and doing things depends on the mentality. As long as the children are healthy and the elderly in the family are healthy, the family harmony is very good. Good luck and thanks.

The experience of the past forty years is the best asset! Mr. Chu Shijian still chose to start a business at the age of 80, and now Chu Cheng has been very successful, this is a late bloomer! Don't be discouraged and keep up the good work!

Everyone will die and will let go of everything. Life is a process, not a result.

Then work hard and be self-motivated.

A good attitude leads to an extraordinary life.

As long as you are healthy, you are better than anything else.

Don't be so pessimistic, at least you have health now!

Then you have to really work hard for yourself.

There is a gap between the ideal and the reality.

If you think about it, in fact, people's lives are really short, life is painful and happy, and in the end it is death, so why don't you live a little happier in just a few decades!

Such a painful goal, maybe it would be sweet to stick to it a little longer. But you have to understand what your efforts and dreams are for, if it is not necessary, then give up, and the life of one acre and three points of land is also very pleasant.

If it's still uncomfortable, I guess there's pressure from around you! Have a good chat with the people around you who care about you or you care about, don't get bored.

That's how life is! Sometimes we don't even want to know the meaning of our lives! Disappointment and expectation are not ideal!

If you really work hard for the goal, the harvest of the process will make you psychologically satisfied. Once you are a little impatient and unable to hold your breath, you will be very irritable and even give up. Go with the flow, what you said, it's true, take the goal as a road, that's not a deliberate process, it's just the road you're taking, and you will inevitably encounter the scenery, which is the natural landscape.

And the path of the goal is also walking. Really go with the flow, don't deliberately think about how to achieve it quickly.

I've been crying all my life, do you still endure and accept it?

Maybe it's just that your goal is too high, and you are too strict with yourself in the process of achieving it and you can't do it, try to lower your goals.

Take a look at the psychiatrist, your mind is stressed and your mind is too stressed, give yourself a vacation, take a break.

In fact, if you want to be happy, you have to suffer first, so you have no choice, clear water, plain, no pain, how can you feel happy, there is no comparison, there is no harm, and there is no feeling, after figuring it out, it is easy to come out of the sky and be cheerful.