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Your husband is so happy, it's already good that you think so! Men who are careful don't care too much about your little temper, as long as you pretend to be cute a little bit, admit your mistake and it's over, and you don't need to admit your mistake so formally! As long as you are still good in essence, and you can still choose the right ones in big things, just don't bring your temper to other things.

In fact, men are tolerant of women, if you take the initiative to admit your mistake, be gentle and considerate to him, and you should be forgiven! It seems that you are very young, the first time you met it, right?

If he still loves you.

As the saying goes, the bell needs to be tied to the bell, two people sit down, talk about their hearts, find out the problems between you, and find a way to solve them.

Suddenly, one morning, when he woke up, he saw a different you! (Dressed up beautifully), made a delicious breakfast and waited for him to get up, even his clothes were ironed neatly ......After breakfast, kiss him before he goes out, and he will have to notice your changes, including your little temper.

Don't be so troublesome, it's OK if you don't mention it! It's just a little temper, and it's impossible to talk to it once without making a fuss. If you do it too many times, the man will be annoyed If you don't mention it, you will slowly get used to your little temper Hehe, it's quite cute.

It's okay to find a good time to communicate.

This depends on whether it is your own question or not, if it is really your own problem, Tongzhong pants, you must learn to change it with your heart, Pei Wei told herself that you should not choose to have this kind of bad temper, and it is very necessary to constantly give yourself psychological hints.

In marriage, if you just tolerate it to avoid quarrels, and change yourself in order to please the other person, there is a great possibility that your relationship will be led astray.

These acts of "giving" will indeed make your married life peaceful in the short term, but in the long run, blindly tolerating and changing will have a very bad impact on the relationship and married life of both of you.

Don't overestimate your endurance, suppressing your true feelings and inner emotional needs for a long time will accumulate your dissatisfaction.

Your dissatisfaction will not disappear over time, but secretly buried in your heart, when a similar scene appears again, some of the pain you have felt will emerge, disappointment, sadness, anger and other negative emotions are superimposed together is a very terrible force, may make you feel numb to married life, you will question the meaning of marriage, when you realize that you have been treated badly, probably you have to do something to "punish" the other party, Then your relationship problems may escalate into a hot war, and you, who are already dissatisfied with your spouse, will only make you more aggrieved and want to run away from this marriage even more.

Whether it is marriage or love, communication is a very important aspect, if you tolerate and compromise with the other party for a long time, it will only make your spouse feel that everything he says is right and what he does is right, then he will be more assertive, and he will no longer have the patience to empathize with listening and empathy, because he feels that any of your views and feelings are not worth mentioning, you just need to obediently do what he says.

At that time, even if you realize the importance of expressing your own thoughts, but the other party has been accustomed to you as a person who can't tolerate other people's thoughts at all, no matter what you say, they will use their own theories to reject your ideas, thinking that all your worries, worries, and needs are not worth mentioning, to put it more bluntly, then they will feel that you are not even qualified to be angry, and you are completely mediocre and self-disturbing, and you have nothing to do...How long will your relationship last then?

Self-examination, first of all, what causes tantrums, if it is a trivial matter, you must learn to self-control.

My husband is a very honest person. No matter what I do, the first thing that comes to mind is me, and I have become very fierce under his favor. Whenever I'm angry, the first person to apologize must be him.

He always said that I had a bad temper, but he kept letting me. I think I'm going to have to change my temper for him.

Try to change it, in marriage, only understand each other and make progress with each other, the temper is too bad, sooner or later he will not be able to stand it, and everyone's tolerance is limited.

You must change, it's not okay to always have a bad temper, after all, no one can let you endure you all the time, you have to learn to restrain your temper.

Sometimes he will be very tolerant of me, and when I lose my temper and get angry, he will come to coax me, and then I will realize my mistakes and have slowly corrected them.

Since he chooses to marry you, he should understand you, tolerate your bad temper, and make you happy when you are angry.

Then review it for yourself why your husband said that. You should also be aware of your own problems and try to correct them.

When you are angry, you should divert your attention first, don't talk right away, take a walk and watch a drama by yourself, calm yourself down for a while, and then talk to your husband after calming down.

I should reflect on myself why my husband thinks I have a bad temper, and then correct what I am not doing well. Secondly, you should communicate more with your husband and have something to say.

Since I have chosen to get married, I should choose more tolerance between the personalities of the two sexes, and my boyfriend chooses to kiss me more when I am angry and loses his temper and then reasoned with me, haha.

The urgency and flaws in the personality are because of the long-term family environment and the habits formed during the growth period, if it is said that it is very difficult to correct it, and no one is perfect, everyone has their own emotions and tempers, but the size of the control ability is different, these emotions and tempers should actually be noticed during the period of your love and understanding, since you have chosen each other, then you can't just see the bad, you can't just enjoy the good, you should accept both.

For the noisy temper, if you want to correct it, then you must first learn to understand him, but also learn to understand him, and be able to avoid emotional resistance and friction between you from the correct understanding, because the temper is big, if you continue to resist and rub against you, this temper will become more and more out of control, bigger and bigger, and it will be more and more difficult for you to get along with each other.

And if you can understand him correctly, then you will know how to express and do those things, avoid his emotional restlessness, and when he is stable, and your life state is gradually stable, you will guide him, let him realize that these are not good, to change his concept, to urge him to consciously develop good habits, so that he can gradually correct the shortcomings of his character.

If you want to find some special effect to correct it, then you can only get along worse, so the key you should have is patience.

Happiness Bodhi Garden, the guide to happiness lost.

This may not be easy to change, but you can control it as much as possible.

You should care more about him and let him feel loved too.

Congratulations on asking this question! This shows that you have taken a good first step and that you have already thought about improving this aspect. So the next thing you need to do is:

First, show the other person that you want to change. Let him give you some positive hints first, and then tell him that you know that you used to have a bad temper and that you did something wrong, and now you want to change it slowly. But because it also requires a process; If you still have a bad temper with him one day, please remind you, forgive you, and help you make progress together.

The first time I said that maybe the other party didn't react, but this is also normal, after all, he has endured you for so long, and it is understandable to be a little less indifferent. After that, all you have to do is really control your temper.

Second, find those that work for you to soothe your temper. For example, sit and meditate, for example, write a journal, say do some chores, say cook. Appreciate the flowers and plants, release all the negative emotions, and find a good outlet first.

Third, you can usually appreciate some of the other person's advantages, express them to him, and often talk about them. Because you used to owe too much debt to your husband, it's like a person who spends a lot of money and owes a lot of debt. If he just spends less or no money at all, then there is still a debt.

We have to add some money on top of this to get out of debt. So it's the same in the relationship, after you owe him a debt before, you have to use some kind words to compensate for the emotional value that you failed to provide before.

Now that you already know that it is because of your naivety and willfulness that your husband is very indifferent to you, then you have to find a way to remedy it. As for how to remedy it, the most important thing is that you have to change your temper. Don't say that you can't change your personality, it depends on whether you have the determination to change.

In fact, many girls have naïve and willful problems, which before getting married, or when you are in love with a man, the man will not feel anything, but he thinks that you are naïve, willful will be very cute, whenever he meets you like this, he is also willing to spend his mind and energy to coax you. Sometimes I feel that this kind of love is very interesting, one is angry, the other is coaxing, and this feeling is full of sweetness.

But this is only during the relationship, when a man pursues you, of course he will think that you are good, and he is willing to spend more thought on you, with more patience and tolerance, the problem is that once you are chased, or after marriage, no one can always be so tolerant. After all, after getting married, you really live a life, two people are together every day, and no one can always be so good-tempered to tolerate your bad temper.

Over time, when a man's naïve and willful temper towards you can no longer stand it, of course he will not bother to coax you anymore, and he will naturally snub you. In fact, there is also the possibility of remedy, as long as you are determined to change your bad temper, as long as you are willing to change, it is not very difficult.

First of all, let yourself be rational, don't be too subjective, don't be too willful, don't be petty at every turn, and then communicate with your husband more, tell him your determination to change, and slowly, your relationship can be eased.

Then change your temper, don't bother him anymore, think about him after a day of work, and when you come home, you have to face you like this, do you say they feel good? Therefore, you can be quiet for him, or care for him, which can ease the conflict between you.