What should I do, who can enlighten me, how can I enlighten myself

Never mind... If you don't mind it's not normal ... It's just that you're going to accept her.

You like her, you like her people, that's enough. If you really mind, ask yourself: Is it because her boyfriend dumped her, because she is not good enough, and then you yourself find that she is not very good, so you have some doubts?

Or do you really mind that she is not cherished, so you want to cherish her? Or do you always think in your heart that your girlfriend's first time should be your own? And so on and so forth...

Some negative emotions may be at work in your subconscious.

So, do you seriously recall: when she will be hurt, do you try desperately to protect her? If she is hurt, do you feel bad? If she's happy, won't you feel like it's worth it?

The most important thing is to secretly write out the thoughts in your heart, whether it is good or bad, you have to face it. Whether you want to or not, others may inadvertently mention it, and you have to think about how to face these problems. If you want to be together, you have to find a way to overcome the difficulties in front of you together.

Others are just giving you guidance, it's up to you to do it.

Your heart is too small, if I were you, like a girl, and get her, then I don't care about her past at all, even if I care, I won't be embarrassed to ask, and your girlfriend is indeed loyal to the limit, and stupid to the limit, if I were her, I wouldn't tell you at all, because a man who asks this kind of question is not trustworthy at all... I advise you, there are not many people who can become like each other, most people are in the "I like" and "like me", don't ruin your future happiness and hurt someone's heart because of the past.

I can understand your thoughts.

But: you love her, the kind you love very much, she loves you too, and she loves you very much, what I want to say is: the past is not important, the important thing is now, you both love each other so much, you cherish each other so much, what else can't you get over?

There are so many imperfect things in life, and what we have to do is to put it in perspective, and you know that you are psychological.

To love her, you have to love her all. And learn to be considerate and tolerant. If you do that, then the first thing that will benefit and feel comfortable will be yourself.

If there is no heart, then there is none

It's better not to have this hurdle If it must linger I think you should separate Because in the future, you can use this as the fuse for anything You love her very much now How good is she Seriously, two people have stayed for a long time and there is no throbbing when they first met or fell in love After talking about it, there will always be something to quarrel about and when you think about it, it's different.

If what you want is her past – break up. If you want her present and future – cherish her.

Friends, there are many people, like your brother and me, no one wants to be stumbling at all, and if you want to complain about your appearance, you want me to complain.

It's okay to think of something happy, such as why Li Bai's daughter is called Ziyan or something, don't feel sorry for yourself all day long.

Then you don't have to worry about that

What you need to see is your future!

What era do you still care about this?

You love people.

Not the body. I wish you all happiness!

In fact, there are a lot of things that fail the college entrance examination! I'm also a bloody example First of all, let me share with you the experience of a friend of mine. She also failed the college entrance examination and entered an audit school, but at the beginning of the school year, she was admitted to their school's brand major ACCA, through her own efforts (PS can only be admitted to this major after entering the school threshold).

Now people have been busy taking various exams, and they are preparing to go abroad or something! It's really busy! How can I say it, I can basically see a bright future!

I'm also so-so in college.,Anyway, the goals I just entered the school have been achieved.

In other words, in fact, many people have the feeling that you feel that you are losing the runway of college. However, it's not like you can't be outstanding! Moreover, I think you should have left a lot of good memories in your college career!

And you can't just dismiss your former classmates based on their performance in high school

Finally, don't compare yourself with others, please compare with yourself. Think about how you can make yourself better! Moreover, imagine yourself standing at the bottom of the pot, and then every direction is upward. --You're so smart, you'll figure it out in no time!

People don't need to see how others live, see how others walk, live their own lives, there is a good saying, people are more popular than people, so don't compare with others, even if you are not as good as people now, you can't say it in the future, employment is all over the street, it depends on whether you are willing to do it or not, whether you are willing to endure hardships and sit up from the grassroots level, the road of life is still long, and there will be nothing after you are in your 20s.

Try to make everything okay.