Be a person who really has a mind of his own

You should be glad that you've started thinking about it.

You're not a thoughtless person, I think action is just as important as thought, and thinking about it, sometimes it's not that hard, it's more difficult to do.

You've thought about it, what's next.

So, act, brother! Hehe.

It's up to you to decide.

You've been an assertive person since you started doing it.

Hold on! I'm optimistic about you! Ha ha.

Your question shows that you are not very confident.

Let me use myself as an example! You may understand.

Growing up in the countryside, it was natural for me to use cow life as a mantra. Later, when I went to high school, I didn't know how much I scolded during military training. I don't want that, but it's hard to change.

Later, I found out that I couldn't scold when I spoke Mandarin. I've also found that many people (who didn't speak Mandarin before) are the same, and they can't scold when they first speak. So I didn't speak a word of my hometown for three months (in the process, my family, classmates, and friends all opposed me and said a lot of unpleasant things), and after that, I mostly communicated in Mandarin, and I always spoke too much about cows.

As you say, you are a real weakling.

If you change, it's hard, it's basically impossible.

Don't force yourself, and your efforts will be easy to pull naturally.

Not everyone has to achieve much of a career.

You may not believe it, but think back to whether you've made the same determination before.

We have many similarities. I'm in Peking University Jade Bird right now, and I won't be reading Le next year.

Actually, you're thinking about Leer right now.

You already have an opinion.

Try to relax yourself, but believe in yourself.

Everyone's future is the same.

Let's let famous college students meet elementary school students.

There's no need, the root of your problem is that you care what they think, and if you don't care, it's cloudy.

The inferiority complex since childhood is at work.

Thoughts, thoughts, thoughts. Just think about what you want to be, think about what you want to be, and work towards that.

Understand self-worth, and the meaning of life, and have your own life path.

People should be happy when they are alive, don't use their feelings to control your thoughts, otherwise you will die of boredom in this life

When you have the urge to fly, you won't be satisfied with crawling on the ground.

Rest assured to fly, friend.

Be a person with a soul and a mind.

I always felt that I was a simple and sincere person, but in fact I was a fool, I read little, my way of thinking was easily swayed by others, and I had no opinions and attitudes of my own. A normal person, encountering an incident, watching a TV or movie, hearing a song, meeting a person, buying a commodity, eating a dish, these simple things, you will always have your own thoughts and evaluations, and I don't, I am very weak about these final views and opinions, unclear and unclear, discussing history with others, others talking eloquently, mentioning a certain character, he is disgusted or liked, and I don't; In the process of scientific research, others see a piece of literature and think it is good, but I don't feel it; I was also unprepared for the fact that others could appreciate the power of scientists and how their ideas could change the world.

This can only show that I don't understand thoroughly, I don't know enough to be stupid, I don't read much, and the knowledge I absorb is not rich and solid enough, so I am swayed and restrained by others. So far, I can't see myself clearly, because my comprehension skills are very weak.

The education that the children of our country have been exposed to since childhood is to get good grades in the exams, you are a good child, you are just going on the right path, and disobedient and naughty people are denied! But obedient children have grown up the worst, they don't have their own subjective thinking, they always suppress their hearts and can't express themselves! However, those naughty children have a smooth career 7 and a happy life!

And I belong to that kind of obedient child, when I was a child, what my elders asked me to do, I was bent on completing the task, not thinking about why I did it, and I didn't even resist when I didn't want to do it, only obeyed, so I never followed my inner feelings, only obeyed other people's ideas. So I never had my own thinking, just hearsay.

Thought, as explained in the modern Chinese dictionary, is: objective existence is reflected in people's consciousness and the result of thinking activities.

If you have your own unique opinion on something, congratulations, you think you are an independent thinker.

When we write essays, we sometimes quote other people's words. words, like some famous quotes or something. Sometimes you quote too much, and then an essay loses your own soul, because it is no longer your own thoughts, but someone else's thoughts.

We are a celebrity ourselves, and what we say is also a famous quote, so why always use other people's words? If you only use the words of celebrities, you will lose your own thoughts, you will be a walking corpse, as long as we think seriously, why is it difficult to say such things?

In addition, if you have thoughts, you must have the courage to express them, so that others can understand you, judge your thoughts, and agree with your thoughts. At the same time, you should judge your own thoughts objectively and not be stubborn.

If you want to have your own thoughts, first of all, you need to read different opinions on hot things from all walks of life and read more books. After watching it a few more times, I will learn from others to express their opinions little by little. But there must be parents.

Teacher guidance went astray. We should accept the opinions of others with an open mind and judge them.

If a person is not good at independent thinking, then it will have a bad impact on all aspects of him, on the contrary, if you are diligent in thinking, you will find problems from thinking, find problems, and then it is possible to find a way to solve them.

Looking at the friends around me, one is better than the other.

Everyone has their own methods and ideas, and has their own set of methods for work, although the methods are okay, but all of them are very similar and distinctive, and everyone has their own advantages and characteristics.

Women who truly experience the new era, each of them has their own independent thinking and excellent work ability, and they all have a high degree of independence.

Friend Fei Fei, not only is she beautiful, but she also speaks and does things in an orderly manner. No matter how tricky things are in his hands, he laughs lightly, and does a good job.

Friend Lili gets the best in the industry every time she wants to achieve. You think this must be a strong woman, but she is weak in appearance, petite and delicate, and she will not be associated with you at all, but she is a leader in the industry.

My friend Zhenzhen looks like the girl next door, but her work ability and method are moisturizing things silently, and she unconsciously does her work to the extreme.

What's worse is that not only are they excellent at work, but their brother is also extremely beautiful. is both naturally beautiful and can dress up, and all of them are good insiders and outfits who can go to the hall and enter the kitchen.

Therefore, it is particularly important for women to be independent, self-reliant, and self-reliant.

Only by having your own career can you make your life more comfortable.