I quarreled with my boyfriend until I was about to break up, what should I do? 10

A man's lack of responsibility and his own responsibility as a man is a taboo issue for organizing a family. If they are separated for a period of time and think about it, it is okay if it suits each other, and if it is not suitable, everyone is unhappy, so why force it? If he cares about you, he will definitely come to you within three days, and if he doesn't come to you, it means that you really have a serious problem, and you have to make a decision.

Meimei, he goes to play with his friends, it may not be very convenient to talk, you don't think too much, I think you lack communication, he also has his circle, you also have your own life, it's not right for him to turn off the phone, he doesn't even pick you up ** and shut down, then you don't want to fight, you have been in a relationship for 4 years, don't you understand what kind of temper the other party is? And don't break up at every turn, it's very hurtful, it's better to communicate more, don't be impulsive...

You're asking why I mentioned the breakup this time and he was silent? The answer is that he also feels tired and breaks up with you by default... The only son should be concerned about it...

You know what, I've got a crush on somebody who is cold to me, very cold... I gave up because he made me sad and cried once... The situation is similar to you ...

Maybe he hasn't grown up yet, I think you must be a girl who is very good at living! Now many years old men can't get away from their mother's Your boyfriend must be too, and others are not necessarily bad But you have been wronged with him When he grows up, you are almost in your 30s Are you waiting If you are still young For love Grade years are nothing If you think you can't wait Accept the breakup.

Men must drink for the sake of their careers, if they don't drink, he will definitely not be able to give you the future you want, men don't like to drink, but have to drink, gradually, drinking has become a habit, so don't stop the man you love from drinking, and remind them not to drink too much alcohol .........

After reading some of your content, as a man, I think it's a little wronged by you, but as far as the question is concerned, I think you still find the feeling of the beginning of love again. If the coldness doesn't have the feeling of first love, or if it doesn't transform your thoughts into the future in the context of the time, then you can't miss it, and if it's relative, then you can't miss it.

It doesn't seem like a big deal.,This kind of thing will happen to any lover.,Even if you get married in the future, the husband and wife will definitely quarrel.,If you think he's okay, there's no need to break up.。

If he is sincere to you, then you can be wronged, maybe there is some reason, but since he is an only child and will not care about others, you have to tolerate him, think about it carefully, and break up if you think it really doesn't work.

Love is just a momentary burst of feelings, so don't take it as permanent So the so-called real "love" is something that can withstand the dull years Think about it, everyone calm down, talk about it, it's really not good, let it go together.

Now that you are together, you are used to being around each other, and your relationship has entered a weak situation. Find a time to sit down and talk alone.

I don't know if your boyfriend is relatively young and doesn't know how to take care of other people's feelings. Breaking up as soon as you quarrel seems irrational, immature, and somewhat selfish.

Maybe it's really too young to experience the pain of separation, but whenever you think of a "break up", it breaks your lover's heart and may ruin a relationship, which is really regrettable.

Saying that he doesn't take care of the other party's feelings hurts a lot for a girl who takes this relationship very seriously, and she will think that you really don't care about this relationship and don't care about this partner around you.

The people of the Finch who often talk about "breaking up" also show that they may also think so in their hearts, and if they always say so, there is a kind of autosuggestion, forming a subconscious, and it is difficult to think about the ending.

Your boyfriend may also not love you enough, and you won't break up. Your repeated compromises will make him get carried away.

1. The boy didn't immediately relax and comfort you.

Suppose after a fight, the boy lets you get angry, and then the two gradually become cold and violent. Boys don't show weakness, they don't apologize to you, they don't even talk to you. Then you'll feel more and more angry.

I don't think it's as good as proposing to break up. Maybe it's a little more free to live alone. It feels like he's always you off, and he's not coaxing.

He must not love you enough. Then you will always think a lot of cranky, and finally feel that it is not worth being with him anymore. It's better to break up as soon as possible.

Therefore, as soon as you argue, you will propose to break up.

The feelings in the adult world are no longer "playing at home", you can be willful, you can be coquettish, but "break up" is not two words blurted out casually, but an attitude, a definition or division of roles.

There are some girls who talk about breaking up very casually, a quarrel, a disagreement or a little trivial and just talk about "breaking up". When you start talking, your boyfriend will be scared, he will worry about losing, and he will do everything possible to coax you. But if this happens often, the further it goes, the less effective it becomes.

Maybe just want to calm down. Maybe he's also thinking, should we continue to get along or separate? Or maybe it's already decided to separate.

Many times men don't say break up casually, but a person who doesn't say break up casually, when he makes the decision to break up, the probability of turning around will be very low. It was his final decision after a long period of contact, understanding, and careful consideration.

Men will be more rational about love, and women will be more emotional. For a man, even if he loves someone very much, if he knows very well that this woman will not be a suitable wife, he will eventually leave this woman. How far two people can go is not measured with their feet, nor by time, but by colliding with their hearts.

Since it has been spoken, it is naturally difficult to recover. But love doesn't really come to the moment of breakup, and all the hard work is still valuable. If you still love each other deeply, you don't have to mind some worldly mentality, you can lower your posture, correct your attitude, and use true feelings to glue the cracks in your feelings.

Sometimes a man just needs one step. Proper calmness is not necessarily a bad thing. Let both parties have time to sort out the relationship, sort out each other, sort out themselves, and sort out the possible future paths.

Don't force it, don't compromise. Love is love, if you don't love one day, change someone, love well. It's not easy in this life.

Be kind to him and be kind to yourself, and happiness will be around the corner, waiting for you!

You should figure out why you often quarrel and whose reason it is, solve this problem fundamentally, you can also give each other some small gifts to warm up the relationship between the two parties, and you can also go out to play together to enhance the relationship between the two.

First of all, you have to be clear about why your boyfriend is quarreling with you, it must be that there is a problem in the relationship between the two people, try to communicate well.

You should break up. Because your boyfriend doesn't love you anymore, there is no need for you to wronged yourself, and there is no need to stick to such a relationship.