Let s talk about how terrible is the indifference of the group?

Constantly being rejected by the group, constantly doubting their abilities, and over time, they really don't know where they are lacking. will have low self-esteem and then fall. Don't improve your abilities. I began to numb myself and became numb.

Some time ago, "Sadness Flows Into a River" is the embodiment of this harm. The violence of a few classmates and the indifference of the crowd are the main reasons for the tragedy of the protagonist. And the most chilling thing is that every one of these people is really aware of the dangers of doing so.

Whether it is for those who are indifferent or suffer from indifference, the psychological impact of their actions is difficult to dissipate.

Sometimes it feels like the apathy of the community has created today's reality, especially in the face of turning a blind eye to those in need, which exacerbates people's frustration with society.

"Walking in the White Night" wrote, "There are two things in the world that cannot be looked at, one is the sun, and the other is the human heart. Mr. Lu Xun also once said: "I have always been afraid to speculate on Chinese with the worst malice."

However, I didn't expect it, and I don't believe that it would be inferior to this point. "The group of people in Lu Xun's pen is really terrible, but they are really alive.

When I went to school, I was most afraid of the indifference of the dormitory, when I was in junior high school, I was isolated by the whole dormitory, I didn't know what I was doing badly, that period of time in the dormitory was like hell, after school, I was most afraid of going back to the dormitory, once I was out and didn't want to go back until after the curfew, I couldn't get in, I went to the classroom by myself and slept on the desk for a night, and later learned that they thought I was a spy for the teacher when I told the teacher, but during that time I thought about it and my hair stood up, but fortunately I was not depressed.

The most important thing about the harm of indifference in the dormitory roommate group is to affect their mood for a day. I'm in a bad mood, I'm struggling to do anything, and I feel like there's a stalk in my heart.

The scary part is doubting yourself. Some people have different habits due to some factors in their growth environment, and they will inadvertently reveal some deficiencies and offend others when they get along with everyone. However, because we were not sound enough in our thinking and tolerance when we were students, we would reject such shortcomings.

But that person didn't really make much mistake, but it was magnified. So you doubt yourself!

There is a feeling that you can't live, no matter how you work or study, if you are disgusted with you, then you have to reflect on yourself, think more about others, learn to behave and learn to be a man!

Your dormitory classmates will suddenly isolate you because the two of you are arguing, and then, the atmosphere in the whole dormitory is more awkward. Moreover, it is even more embarrassing when you need help from others. It will make people have a shadow in their hearts, a certain sense of resistance to dormitory life, and then a certain degree of security will be missing.

In the end, man also became autistic.

The indifference of the group is terrible, and if a class of children rejects one person at the same time, then this person will definitely go crazy.

Truly scary. Probably forced to move out of the dormitory, on the way back to the rental house alone, I was afraid of the dark and scared to death, and there was no way I didn't want to disturb my family and make them worry, and at the same time, there were few friends who could talk to me. There is no "medicine" for the "disease" of loneliness.

I'm the one who was isolated because I moved out. It is recommended that students who have suffered from cold violence apply for a change of dormitory. And then I will send you a word:

When you sit down, you often think about your own mistakes, and don't talk about others. It is absolutely impossible to suffer from the indifference of a dormitory and have no problems in itself, especially in eight-person dormitories and six-person dormitories. If you change dorms and get along for a while, there are other people laughing and laughing among others, and you can't even fit in on the surface, don't say how terrible the cold violence is, this is what you deserve.