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These nourishments of reading are a kind of thing that is turned into a nourishing spiritual growth, not that you can be very temperamental if you read certain books, this is the impossible cultivation of temperament, it is the accumulation of little by little, it is a process of quantitative change to qualitative change, no one can suddenly develop certain qualities of temperament for himself by reading a certain type of book, this is impossible. If you have been reading with a utilitarian mentality, then you will never have a change in temperament, you have to find what you like, the subject you like, and then really study it with your heart.
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Read more books, think more, temperament is not something that can be changed in a month or two, it takes a year or two or even longer. Many people have finished college, and people who haven't seen her for a long time say that she has changed, but in fact, it is the influence of campus life, and it is always good to study more. Another point is that you can be friends with whoever you want to be.
A gentleman, a villain. After a long time, the temperament will naturally be revealed.
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I think it's two-fold. On the one hand, you should read the book carefully, read it thoroughly, and deeply understand the meaning of it, and don't seek to understand it too much. On the other hand, you have to read more good books and read more classic books, such as the Analects, Mencius, and Shiji.
If you read the Internet**, it must be useless. Do this and stick to it, and I think your temperament will definitely improve.
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In my opinion, reading is a kind of fun, and when you take reading as a habit of life, your temperament will naturally improve. My colleague exudes the smell of books and has long hair and a shawl, like a beautiful woman from ancient times. In her spare time, she especially likes to read, on holidays, others are planning to travel to relax, but she will stay in the library for a day, her temperament is particularly attractive, sometimes just look at her from afar, feel particularly beautiful.
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If you want to improve your personal temperament, then you should read some useful books instead of useless messy books. Your temperament is not related to reading more, but to what kind of books you need to read. So read more useful books.
For example, study some literary works. This kind of book can improve your temperament, your cultural heritage.
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I think that reading some books about the cultivation of moral character in my heart can improve my personal temperament, and when reading these books, I must think about the content of the books in them, the principles that I want to give us, and by thinking about them, and use them to master and understand well. We are able to improve our personal temperament.
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You don't need to read a book, you can improve a person's temperament by reading with your heart, and after a person reads a lot of books, the way of saying will naturally change, and the way of life will be more perfect, because he knows more things, and he learns to think about what he can bring to others, which is the fundamental change of temperament.
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I think reading improves personal temperament, not how to read? It depends on what kind of books you read, if you read that kind of romance every day, I don't think it will improve your temperament, you should read some books about humanities and society, which can cause you to think deeply.
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I've always felt that reading is to really read it, it's better not to read it than to read it in a fancy way, it's useless at all, and people who have really read a lot of books have a really different temperament. Reading is "cooking books", and the more you read it, the more you will taste it.
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It's a kind of elegant temperament for ordinary readers.
The idea is simpler to speak.
Be more reasonable, not overbearing.
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In fact, people who read books always have a special temperament, which will be clearly expressed through speech and demeanor. Of course, this temperament cannot be imitated, it requires the accumulation of books and personal understanding, which cannot be formed after reading a few e-books.
There is poetry and writing in the belly
As long as you read poetry and books and learn something, your temperament is naturally talented, elegant and brilliant. Uttered Song Su Shi's "Farewell to Dong Chuan":"Wrapped in a coarse cloth, he has poetry and books in his belly. "
This is a bookish atmosphere unique to scholars. The same person, saying the same thing, some people are convincing, and some people are dismissive. Some people feel vulgar even if they wear fancy clothes, and some people can still be elegant in rough clothes.
From ancient times to the present, people have respected people who read. Even if there are always complaining scholars who are sour and rotten, it is undeniable that knowledge makes them the best defense. I read more books, and my knowledge and horizons have broadened. There will be a calm and elegant atmosphere that ordinary people do not have.
The reckless man is rude, the soldier is cold, and the scholar is elegant. Each person's traits are determined by their personal experiences. A grain of rice raises a hundred kinds of people, it does not mean that as long as you read, you will have the same temperament. It mainly depends on what kind of book you are reading and what kind of problem you are thinking.
The most basic characteristics of a scholar are knowledgeable and reasonable, and he is a humble gentleman. If you read well, you have a high level of understanding, and the temperament you exude is naturally elegant. But if you read books to death and have poor understanding, it will inevitably be a little sour.
Good reading, good reading. You don't need to be able to express it, and there will naturally be a strong bookish atmosphere on your body. It is often said that you are a literate person at first glance. This is what inadvertently leaks out of one's own words and demeanor.
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