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Anonymous users2024-02-11Why do you say that you have a physical defect? If you have a feeling, it means that you have recognized your own shortcomings, so study hard to enrich yourself.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10**Flaw? How do you know if you don't say it? Some defects are not a problem, but they don't have much impact in practice, and many defects will have a big impact.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Mentally or physically? If you need help, talk to me privately!
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Anonymous users2024-02-08I am a myasthenia gravis, 17 years old, a freshman in high school, and I have had this disease for three years, during which I have had normal times, but I still haven't recovered. It's now the 10th month since my second ** and I'm having a hard time every day, suffering mental and physical pain, and taking a lot of medicine every day. Now I have become very ugly, not as good-looking and not so confident as before, I used to study well in school, good at sports, I was a role model for my classmates, and I was proud of my teachers.
But since I got this disease in the summer vacation of the third and eighth grade, I took a year off from school, and my grades were still good, but sports were no longer good, sometimes I would hide and cry secretly, I even received school bullying, and I wanted to kill myself countless times, I wanted to die, but I didn't dare. Now on the high school campus, my grades are not so outstanding, and I have never attended physical education class because our classroom is on the fifth floor, and I can't go down to the playground. My mother rented a room near the school to take care of me, maybe due to illness, I was also very anxious, and often quarreled with my mother, and my mother always talked about me, maybe she also had a hard time!
At this time, a boy appeared, we have known each other for four years, since I was sick and have rarely been in touch, but in recent months they have been in constant contact, he often encourages me, he will tell me a lot of my strengths, tell me not to care about the physical aspect, as long as I persevere, everything will be fine. Slowly my heart moved, no one has ever treated me like this, except for my family, just yesterday, he confessed to me, he is a senior in high school, but I refused, I feel that people like me just don't deserve love, even if all this is not caused by me. I'm worried that we won't make it to the end, and even if we do, I won't be able to have a sweet love with him like a normal person.
Sometimes I really feel that the world is too unfair, good people are good at everything, bad people are bad at nothing, I feel that there is no shining point in me now, no one understands me, I am also worried that even if I am admitted to university, I will not be able to study, I am worried that when my parents are old, everyone will take care of me, and I am really desperate. I think because of this disease, I don't dare to fall in love, get married, and have children, unless one day the medicine is developed, and I can find my own love like a normal person. I hope that every person with defects can be treated gently by the world!
Everything will be fine.
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