Have you been ridiculed by your in laws a few times, do you want to resist?

Why quarrel?

Don't quarrel, then your husband will be in a difficult situation.

Relatives don't like you, so do your in-laws like you? Anyway, you should tell your husband about this, see what your husband says, and then tell your in-laws!

Don't take anything others say to heart! As long as you are good to your in-laws, you have time to buy something! Give the clothes to the elderly, and talk to them closely. Then they will naturally like you and will ostracize their relatives in the family!

Remember; What is there to tactfully say. You're a family, after all! Think about it and say. Don't care too much about what your in-laws say! Don't refute it to your face!

In a word; As long as you treat your in-laws well, I think people's hearts are flesh and blood, and one day they will look at you differently!

Being harassed by relatives in the in-laws' family, many women have encountered such a situation, and I have a good understanding of what uncles, aunts, aunts and so on. I generally don't take it to heart. Because there is no need to live with them, if they are of low quality, they are passers-by, and there is no need to affect the most critical family harmony for themselves because of the ignorant words and deeds of some passers-by.

In this case, I usually make cotton, and I just walk away with the child in my arms, or pretend not to hear. If your child does hit you, teach your child that hitting someone is not a good child.

Say to your husband, don't live together!

Don't care what others say or do, others won't listen to you, take care of yourself, and others will let it go.

If the weather is good, go out for a walk and bask in the sun, and when you have an appetite, you can buy some sweet, sour and spicy for yourself, in short, to your own taste, put it at the head of the bed in the bedroom, and eat it whenever you want. I usually read magazines, watch TV, listen to **, do what I want to do, ask my husband to get some pocket money when I am short of money, don't think too much during pregnancy, and stabilize my emotions.

Do what you want to do, don't care too much about other things, the more you care about their thoughts, the more tangled you are, there is no need to care about other people's thoughts, don't do it if you don't want to do it, women should be better to themselves, except for themselves, no one can be 100% good to themselves, people who often point fingers, sooner or later will be retributed, what about you, just take care of yourself and your children, that's enough, if your husband doesn't believe in his family unreasonably, such a husband doesn't want it, it's too incompetent.

My mother-in-law cares too much, she is nosy, and she is tired herself, but she still has to take care of it, and she doesn't like what others see. If you can't get used to it, sooner or later you're going to get divorced, and I've seen that

Your husband is not on your side, and everything you do is in vain, alas.

I'm afraid it's difficult, I'm not married yet, I think it's scary to think about it, such a family. Otherwise, you just treat what they say as a fart, what should you do, your husband will be good to you.

You have to take it to heart whether your mother-in-law is good or bad for you, your lover is the person who lives with you for a lifetime, and he is better than anything You have no blood relationship with your mother-in-law's family, she can feel sorry for you You want to open it yourself and live your own happy life

Don't worry too much, try to do what the old man thinks, and don't contradict the old man. Buy something for the elderly on holidays. Usually smiling and welcoming. In short, it is to obey the old man. There is bitterness to swallow by oneself, and the earth is swallowed in the back.

In addition to that, don't forget that distance produces beauty. Out of sight is quiet.

Mother-in-law can't be the same as her own mother. The more you worry, the more angry you get. Old people are not all reasonable.

Do what you have to do, and you don't need to look at what others do to you. It's enough for you to know your place in this home. Don't think too much, just be happy every day.

It is not necessary to pursue a balance in living according to your own habits, because the more deliberately you do something, the more you will do it, it will often backfire. As long as you don't have bad intentions, after a period of running-in, you will get along peacefully.

As your own mother, you want to be coquettish and close.

I only know that they don't have the right to let you **, this is protected by the law, let it be done, and turn it over when it is time to turn around, otherwise it will become more and more excessive. But don't just flip it all the time. Let them know that they can't bear it anymore.

Seeing you say so much, I am speechless, because I saw that you said that the main thing is that you took the money out to buy a house, but the benefits were taken away by your younger brother, and you have not given you any help. So it's better to be open-minded. Anyway, if you are angry, you hate the facts, and it will not change.

I understand your feelings because some things are similar to us, but your husband begs you that you should still say happy birthday, because this is what you should do as a junior, one yard to one yard. And about abortion, I don't think you can blame others, first of all, you said that it is a superbirth, and secondly, if you insist on giving birth to others, you can't help you, the most wrong thing for them is to favor sons over daughters, I didn't expect that there are such people now, like we all like to have daughters, when I was pregnant with a baby, the whole family wanted me to give birth to a daughter, but I didn't expect to give birth to a son, no matter whether men and women are born as long as they give birth to a baby, many people want to give birth to it.

What nehcssss said makes sense, if it were me, I would never forgive them for the rest of my life, I would rather divorce!

Since you're not going to forgive in your heart, is it interesting to ask people if they need to be respected?

I'm speechless.,Watch it yourself.。。。

Aren't you already disrespectful, why are you still asking?

It's not worth it, and your husband isn't much.

It's your life that is bad.

There is such a pair of selfish in-laws.

Same with my in-laws.

They only have one child, my husband.

It stands to reason that I should be treated as my own daughter.

But they're like your in-laws.

Treat me like a fool.

Smiling when using my money.

I use them a little bit and they have a nose that is not a nose and a face that is not a face.

I don't like to take care of my children.

I have a heart like you.

I'm out of work.

Bring your own children.

It's a big deal to be financially constrained.

As long as I don't deal with them, I'm satisfied.

But we're in the countryside.

All live in the same yard.

Look up and don't see what you look down.

We don't have the ability to buy a house in the city right now.

What a grievance.

Hey, that's all it takes.

Actually, I want to advise you.

Don't take to heart what they don't do well for you.

There are many less fortunate people than you.

Especially your father-in-law.

As soon as I heard what he said to you, I became angry.

That being the case. She asked you to pick up her daughter without doing business.

Then you can tell him.

Wait until they're old.

You won't raise them.

Because you're taking care of your daughter.

Didn't make any money. Look what he has to say.

It's not that you're not as good as a second marriage.

It's they who look down on people.

Most people think that you will marry at a young age.

Look at you so bullying.

The only way is to stay away from them.

Since they do that to you.

Tell them and your husband plainly.

You won't support them.

That's what I thought, anyway.

But I can't help it.

My wicked in-laws have a son.

I just have to deal with the two people I hate the most.

I'm a little envious of you.

At least you have more choices than I do.

Good luck.

It's nothing, little sister!

It can be seen that the daughter-in-law and your mother-in-law have a better temper. Your mother-in-law likes her a little more.

In this case, you can't compare with him, there is no need to compare, and comparison is also to find anger.

The previous unpleasantness has passed. No matter how hard and tired you are, you have to take care of yourself. You husband and wife have to work together to earn more money, and you don't look at their faces. Live your own life, and don't ask for them.

Anyway, I'm not going to die! Fate is in your own hands, and how to live a good life depends on how hard you work.

I wish you a prosperous family business and get ahead as soon as possible.

Since your one is just going back to live for a while, there is no need to buy a sofa, you can live in it, and there are very few of you who go back, so you don't buy it if you can. Very much agree with what was said upstairs,"It is said that depending on whether the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good, it depends on whether the man is promising, and if he can be separated for too long, try to separate it, out of sight and out of mind", Father-in-law and mother-in-law will live together in the future, and it will be noisy, so try to separate it, and the housework is not clear. As long as your husband and wife relationship is okay, don't fight for a set of sofas because your parents are arguing, it has no practical meaning.

If you should be filial to your parents-in-law, you will give, if you don't have to, it's really boring to quarrel with your husband because of your parents, and the result of arguing is that you give in, be kind to yourself, and try to be financially independent.

Just cover the sofa, you're doing it wrong. If you want your mother-in-law to tell you about this, you will be very sorry. How about being generous and letting them sit. But it's hard for you to change their partiality. Women should live freely and freely, and they must be independent both mentally and materially.

If no one comes to sit in your suite, it's normal to seal it, otherwise it won't be good to cause dust. If your husband doesn't agree, your husband will do the cleaning of the sofa last time. If you have a question like this, go to the NetEase Women's Channel to post it, and there will be many people who will give you advice.

It is said that the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law depends on whether this man is promising, my sister-in-law has a bad relationship with my family, and I also have a bad relationship with my mother-in-law.

I wish you happiness, women don't treat themselves too badly!

As long as your husband is good to you, don't care so much.

Hello! You are in an awkward situation now, and your husband is not a person who hides from both ends.

I'll give you some advice, I hope it can help you.

The man is your husband is the most important, you have to slowly change your husband's thinking, let him know that your husband should be a daughter-in-law and mother-in-law, of course, your husband's heart coaxes you to make him love you very much. Your husband will not do anything to you if you praise your mother-in-law, of course, you should also be filial, what is filial piety is to follow them and not contradict them, not to say that they like you as much as you buy. Or in your husband.

I hope you use your brains and try to change your husband.

Life is like this, the marriage is also married, and the children are also there, don't worry too much about those little things, find a job, life will be regular, and you will no longer think about these troubled things! Women must be kind to themselves!

Who wants you to find a man who lives with his mother-in-law and father-in-law.

He is strong, he is strong, and the breeze caresses the hills. Think for yourself, the old man and the old lady can still live for a few years.

Be respectful, don't be rude, you do what you should do, no one has a reason to say you, fortunately your husband is good to you, after all, your parents-in-law have no blood relationship with you, so they will always prefer their children, don't feel wronged and don't feel unfair, because your parents also love you like this, so, do what you should do, do everything with a normal heart, just for your husband, if they still pick on you, you have the right to not hear, Just remember to treat it with a normal heart.

Just sauce, I hope your family is happy and happy.

The more crowded the family, the more attention should be paid to the truth that comes from the mouth, or talk less and do more!

Psychologically, treat them as your own relatives and friends (greet them with a smile) and seize this opportunity to get to know them (communicate more with your boyfriend).

Be measured in your words and deeds (don't say anything you're sure about, and avoid jokes) Since you've just met them, don't call them the wrong generation. (I can't think of asking your boyfriend more) Talk to each other's children more. Childlike words.

They will make you feel relatable, and you can ask them about things you don't know. (Not only will you not feel lonely, but it will also make their parents happy!) They'll feel like you've blended in with them!

I wanted to come here to show my skills, but I didn't expect the lonely shadow's answer to be so perfect, so I couldn't start, so I had to give you a blessing, in fact, as long as you are sincere, I believe you will be accepted.

ps: I suddenly remembered the first time I went to my wife's house for the New Year, 5555, it's so embarrassing, I drank too much.

I think try not to do this, I am against this approach, you may say that I am too traditional, but you think, a girl who has not passed through the door, actually lived in her boyfriend's house for a period of time, so in case you are not able to get married, and choose someone else, in the eyes of others, are you equivalent to a second marriage?

No identity, no status. What else can you pay attention to?