The pregnant girl was kicked out of the house by her in laws, and the whole family begged me to go b

What kind of society is this, can't pregnant children be accepted in Chengdu? It's still that old idea, it's not that boys can pass on the lineage, but girls can't, but what kind of society is this, a more open and realistic society, so if you really meet such a mother-in-law, then I personally think, of course, it means that you have been there for eight lifetimes of blood mold, but if you give birth, the whole family begs you to go back, then you go back, maybe he will be a hundred times better for you, why not, Then wouldn't it be more comfortable and comfortable to go back and let him make offerings to you as your ancestors. So sometimes we don't think too much about these things, if they don't feel like it's suitable, and they're not satisfied, we can go and find our own life, and if they try to keep us, then we can too.

How to say it, it is also unfortunate to meet such an in-law, but if you don't go back to divorce, it is also unfortunate, especially after giving birth to a child requires a lot of money and spirit, whether you can bear it alone, and then it is your husband's opinion, if the husband is also patriarchal, then it is best to think clearly, there is a first time and a second time, women should not live to have children, there is no dignity, but be prepared to endure hardships, if your husband is not patriarchal, you can ask the couple to go out alone, even if it is to rent a house, There are too many contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law Especially in such a family, weigh it yourself.

This kind of traditional family resolutely does not go back, and the woman has no status to go back to be a nanny. Your son is your surname, work hard to raise your son! At least you don't have to serve your in-laws anymore! As for the future, let's see how they perform.

I just can't go back, I can't go back. If you go, you're going to suffer again, so if you can't go back, you can't go back, and you can't go back.

Go back! Why not go back? When you go back, you should eat and drink. Don't treat them like human beings in your heart. I want to get the money and the house to leave some family business for the children.

If people chase you out, you will leave, and if they invite you, you will go back? You have to not even meet with such a family, and you can also put forward your requirements when you go back to see the sincerity of their peace, either mentally or financially to satisfy you, don't be soft-hearted and polite, otherwise even if you go back, you won't take you seriously, if you can't reach it, then don't waste time, you can trample on the dignity of others without paying the price.

I don't know the truth of the matter, if it's true, I will beat it and find someone who is good for me, and if I can't find a good one, I will beat the child, even if I live it by myself in this life, don't look back.

You don't want to go back to this kind of family, it's just that when you are a machine that gives birth to sons, and there are still feudal superstitious thoughts, you can save a miserable life.

Can't go back! The character of this family is not good! Now I beg you to go back for some other purpose!

Follow your heart and see what you are capable of. It's really stressful that no one can help you take care of your own children, and education is very important, what kind of life will you give your child, is he willing? It's all a problem.

If you have ambition, if you don't go back, you will ask for child support.

Divorce, going back is asking for trouble.

What are you going to do back! Tired, as a free babysitter.

<>I'm a rural girl, and my family conditions have not been good since I was a child, not to mention that I have a younger brother, and my parents have always preferred my younger brother, but they have never shown it in front of me, maybe I'm afraid of hurting me, I'm not stupid, you can see it from some aspects.

The conditions at home are like that, and there is only one child to study, plus the neighbor told my parents that it is useless for girls to read so many books, and the money is spent, and in the end it is for other people's families to educate them. So I didn't go back to elementary school, I started working at home at the age of thirteen, and when I was sixteen, I went out to work with the young people on the team.

I didn't understand anything when I just got out of society, and I even yearn for love. I met my husband in the factory where I worked, he was seven years older than me, and he was still a manager in the factory, and because of him, I insisted on working in this factory for several years, and I married him when I was twenty years old.

After marrying into their family, this day is undoubtedly a mixture of sweet and sour, and I am afraid that ** will offend my mother-in-law by doing a bad job, but if my mother-in-law doesn't like me, then she will not be used to everything about me. Sometimes she can give me instructions on any housework I do, but fortunately, my husband is on my side.

In fact, I also know that my mother-in-law and I are for my husband, that is, the palms of my hands and the backs of my hands are full of meat, and sometimes when I quarrel with my mother-in-law, my husband can only persuade me so as not to hurt the harmony and let others see jokes. And I got pregnant after a year of our marriage, and when I was happy to tell my husband and mother-in-law about this happy event, my mother-in-law's attitude towards me was even worse, and my husband was silent.

When I was two months pregnant, I had severe morning sickness, the whole person lost a lot of weight, my mother-in-law and my husband also became indifferent, that morning, I just got up and saw my mother-in-law throw my things out of the door, she said let me take my things and the baby in my belly out of the house, I had no choice but to go back, I never understood what I did wrong.

After returning to my parents' house, I washed my face with tears all day long, but for the sake of my children, I still adjusted my emotions. A few months later, my baby was born, and my mother delivered me personally, a big fat boy. On the day of the child's full moon, my mother-in-law came to see it, and when she saw that the child's eyebrows and eyes were similar to her husband's, her mother-in-law was stunned and had to do a paternity test.

After taking the child and my husband to do a paternity test, after the results came out, the child and my husband were determined to be paternity, and only then did I know that my husband did a physical examination in the factory before, saying that he had a problem in that regard, and it was all about luck to have a child, and I was pregnant soon after, and my husband was obsessed with this child. Now I still live in my mother's house, my husband and mother-in-law come to the door every day to beg me to go back, and even my mother-in-law kneels in front of me once in order to let me go back, and the trauma in my heart makes it difficult for me to face them, what should I do? You can't just stay in your mother's house all the time.

Why do you have to listen to your mother-in-law, you have to deal with this matter according to your own heart, your mother-in-law begs you to go back, she will be even worse in the future, don't give her a chance to hurt you.

Not going back. It is a difficult thing for a woman to get pregnant, and her mother-in-law is unwilling to take care of you in the slightest during pregnancy, and will drive you away.

should decisively refuse, and at the same time, he should divorce his husband, after all, after this incident, his husband did nothing.

Of course you can't go back, when you are pregnant, she doesn't care about you, and when the child is born, she comes to apologize, indicating that she is not sincere at all, and you have to suffer when you go back.

Some mistakes can be forgiven, and some mistakes cannot be forgiven. If you don't get good care during pregnancy, you have to be angry with your mother-in-law. What she did was no longer unforgivable.

Actually, I don't think you need to go back, they dare to do this to you when you are pregnant, then you won't have a good time after you go back.

Let's go back, be forgiving and forgive people to observe how your mother-in-law behaves in the future.

I think that no matter what the reason for the conflict, it is necessary to resolve it in time, rather than waiting for the mother-in-law to come to the door after the child is born and then go to the door to admit the mistake, so I hope you will carefully consider your marriage.

You shouldn't go back, because your mother-in-law's approach is very excessive, and she just uses you as a tool for fertility. And there is no respect for you.

Of course you don't want to go back, she's obviously bullying you, and if you go back, life won't be any better. I don't think even if you go back, you won't have to deal with her much in the future.

I think we should go back, there is no hurdle between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law that cannot be passed, everyone should let go of the grievances in the future, and the family can get along harmoniously.

I think of course you shouldn't go back, such a mother-in-law is simply a problem with her thinking, even if you go back in the future, you won't have a good life, and your daughter will be wronged.

It should be a very tragic experience. Find a place to place the child first, and then see what the husband's reaction is, if it doesn't work, stop the loss in time, divorce him, and stay away from the in-laws.

It's sad that giving birth to a boy and a girl is a man's problem, but from this incident, it can be seen that the in-laws have a certain problem with their thinking, and they can also see that the husband does not protect himself and sees the feelings of the two people clearly.

If the husband knows that he doesn't care, then there is nothing to be nostalgic about, it is better to leave early, anyway, it is not necessarily himself who suffers the most.

This kind of experience is that women must have dignity, women must be financially independent, independent in thought, independent in personality, and even if they are kicked out one day, they can support their children and support themselves.

This kind of experience really knows that life must rely on oneself, no one can rely on it, and then there is still a little sour and sore in my heart, and I will feel very sad in my heart.

I think it's just that it's very painful, maybe I'm a fertility machine in their eyes.

Netizen: You can't go back with them if you say anything, you should take your children away and go into hiding, and it's not too late to make plans when you've tossed your in-laws' family enough. The purpose of this is to make the in-laws reflect on themselves; Let them learn how to behave in the future!?

Netizen: Go back, go back and continue to do free? Well, look up to people's snorts, look at people's eyes, don't want to do this, divorce, take your own son to live well, don't ask them if you have the financial ability, and ask for child support if you don't have the financial ability, it's just a sentence: don't let them think you're a bully.

If you are pregnant, you can be careless and drive out, maybe Heng Meng will be more excessive in the future, should it be a month old, if not, you should not give birth to the child, you should divorce, since you are born, then it depends on the husband's attitude of God, if he is a mother, he can only separate, if not, he has to show his attitude, he can't live with his mother-in-law's family, unless he celebrates the New Year, otherwise he won't go back. You can't be soft-hearted now.

The in-laws' family is too much, because they are girls, they are disliked, and they treat us women as what they are suspicious of? Fertility tools for giving birth to a son? Even if you divorce and find another woman, you may not be able to have a man, this family is really able to toss, and you will not be treated well when you go back, but your own family can't empathize, the whole family begs you to go back, okay, communicate with your parents, let them say, they judge their hands to send their mother and daughter back, see if their in-laws can give them a good face, they have experienced it, they know what kind of life their daughter is living, alas, it's a pity that your daughter is too young, you can't go out to work independently, support yourself, The baby still needs his mother too much, for the sake of his daughter, he may also have to endure humiliation, and when the child is older, he goes to kindergarten, and can have a little time of his own, whether it is to be a cleaner or a waiter, quickly find a job, support himself, straighten his waist, and not rely on them to live, such a family, no need to rush, we will walk by ourselves, even if it is from the lowest, it is also the freest, the happiest day, no need to look at people's faces, no need to send people under the fence, for the sake of daughters, but also to support themselves, women are weak, As a mother, she is strong, and now she has no way to raise her children, and her mother's family does not give support, and there is no one behind her, so she can only rely on herself!