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Don't let others do anything, it's not good for you to be afraid of offending others, some friends you can endure without offending, but some friends like those you said are just behind your back and say bad things about you! Don't be afraid to offend them, but put up with them. The more you put up with them, the more they will get an inch!
Over time, those friends of yours will think that you are weak and have no personality! It's not like making friends with you! Try to change yourself!
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I think you're so good to your friends that they think it's right to spend your money and so on, so I don't think you should be accommodating to them, you should have some opinions, and don't be friends who look at your money! As for what you are dissatisfied with or unhappy about, you should tell them tactfully and sincerely, and don't be afraid to hurt your feelings, because you don't say that people don't know your heart! Everything should be on the table.
You still have to have a fate to make friends, you should look at it! I'd love to be your friend!! Hehe!
Hope you can solve your problem!
How to make friends: Don't criticize, blame or complain.
Cultivate a magnanimous and generous mind.
Genuinely appreciating others.
Learn to genuinely care about others.
Be considerate of others.
Be able to listen well to others (listening is an art).
Make others feel important (The deepest driving force in human nature is to want to be important.) You have to do unto others as you would have them do unto you.)
Be attentive to others.
Keep your emotions in check.
If you're wrong, admit it right away.
Be kind to others.
Give the other person a chance to speak.
Don't impose your opinions on others.
Think from the perspective of others.
Compliment and appreciate others (don't be blind).
No one likes to be told.
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You should find a friend who has the same interests as you and talk to him and her often, and you will be friends in less than two months.
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Man has always existed as an individual in this world. There are many things that need to be borne and solved by yourself. Therefore, it is very important for everyone to learn to be alone and learn to express themselves.
For yourself, the people around you have the potential to become your friends, but it depends on how you treat them. The participants in the crowd, as well as others, will not refuse to allow a stranger to participate, let alone you're not a stranger. All you have to do is get involved while they're chatting, offer something to them when they need it, and ask others to give you something when you need it.
Together, we can help accomplish something. It's a friendship, a partnership. What you have to do is to change that kind of isolation.
As long as you can change this state, others will naturally accept you easily. On the other hand, if you wait for someone to 'invite' you to participate, you will be discouraged by this sense of isolation. As long as you can accept everything to everyone, more importantly, you must use practical actions to make people understand their changes.
Friends, there is such a large group.
There is no shortage of raw materials, what is lacking is only the ability to take action by yourself.
Again, let go of all your worries, all the worries you think about are just your own 'boring' fantasies, without any practical points.
As soon as you get involved, you'll find it much easier.
As long as you don't reject them, don't look at them with a critical eye. Be able to actively participate in everything of the crowd and not be isolated. It's easy to poop naturally.
Leave all the concerns in your brain out of the way, because that's not practical.
As long as you treat them with sincerity, they will treat you with the same sincerity.
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