What are the strange customs of marriage abroad?

The countries of the world in East Asia have undoubtedly been harmed by a lot of Confucianism, so they are proud of being a "great country", and the surrounding countries are also such a country overseas, because the trend of modern social development has not been significantly broken, and some traditions are still maintained very well, plus the inevitable differences between the two countries in the cultural development, and now some of his customs and etiquette knowledge are inevitably relatively strange in the eyes of contemporary Chinese people. Chinese people have spicy eyes, and there are 3 things that foreign girls must do when the time comes.

First of all, at the level of makeup, marriage is undoubtedly a major event in life for both parties, of course, it is necessary to dress up cool and beautiful, especially for girls who love beauty, for example, Chinese girls wear wedding dresses and traditional evening dresses many times, all of which they think are the most beautiful dress. Overseas, the brides mostly inherit the tradition, will shave off their eyebrows on the same day, and paint the makeup of the old time, which is actually similar to the makeup of the Tang Dynasty.

Another point is that many brides will be blackened today, but this is a reduced version compared to the previous permanent blackening, so everyone takes black teeth as beauty, especially the aristocratic class, if your teeth are not black enough, after marriage is embarrassed to accompany her husband in public places, relevant information shows that his custom has long been in the millennium ago, but China has similar customs in the southwest Shu, whether there is a relationship between the two has not been examined so far.

There is another habit in personal behavior that is even more incomprehensible to the Chinese people, that is, the married girl can be prescribed to bathe with her father before the wedding, and show her gratitude for her father's upbringing over the years, and send blessings. We think that this may be related to the fact that women who are poor and have fertility functions are indeed valuable "material wealth" in ancient times, and this kind of culture and art will appear because of the harm of patriarchal society in ancient times.

This kind of aesthetic design style or personal behavior and customs of natural locals is often puzzled by today's Chinese people, but it is normal that there are no two leaves that are completely consistent in this world. At the same time, the core of overseas culture and art has been greatly affected, but it has caused great differences in various aspects, which may be the reason why the Chinese people have always been very fond of this beautiful family.

Girls need to pay homage to the Buddha, and they need to step on the brazier, and many girls have to play games with the boy groom.

Girls have to take a bath with their fathers, and thanks to their parents for their nurturing kindness, they will buy their own rings to wear.

In many foreign countries, when getting married, girls have to paint their teeth black, dress up very beautifully, wear traditional wedding dresses, shave all their eyebrows, and paint old makeup.

1.India: Weddings in India usually last several days, during which the bride and groom dress in ornate traditional costumes, decorate their bodies with natural dyes, and perform various rituals and dance performances.

2.United States: There is a tradition in the United States called "wedding parties" where the bride and groom will dress up the night before or the morning of the wedding to party with their friends and celebrate the upcoming wedding independently or together.

3.Philippines: In the Philippines, the groom is required to show respect and gratitude to the bride's family by apologizing and expressing gratitude to the bride's parents and family during the wedding.

4.South Korea: In a traditional Korean wedding, the bride and groom wear traditional hanbok, and ceremonies such as worship and wedding feasts are performed, along with some special traditional foods and gifts.

5.Sweden: In Swedish weddings, the bride usually wears a blue dress to represent her loyalty and determination to the future, as well as some traditional wedding dances and games.

Different cultures and regions have their own unique wedding customs, which reflect the values and traditions of the local Kuanjingkai people, and also make the wedding more meaningful and memorable.

The wedding banquet is packed as soon as the aunt opens, in fact, this is a bad habit of the wedding banquet, most of which occur in rural areas and economically backward areas, which is not strange, but can only be said to be of low quality. The strange phenomenon I have seen is that Henan is afraid of fishing, Fujian is not courteous, and Guangdong is the most bizarre, these three are strange.

Ten miles of different sounds, a hundred miles of different customs", today I will explain in detail the so-called "3 monsters".

The first blame: Guangdong wedding banquet.

Generally, the wedding custom will choose a good day when the sun is shining to get married, but the Guangdong Chaoshan wedding banquet is held at night, picking up the bride in the middle of the night, which is very surprising and feels very strange, but do you know why?

There are two theories circulating:

1: There is a saying in Chaoshan, Guangdong, that in ancient times, some places were very remote, there were many bandits, and the people were afraid that their wives would be snatched away by bandits during the day, so they chose to quietly pick up the bride in the middle of the night to ensure the safety of the bride.

The second blame: Fujian wedding banquet.

The general Fujian wedding does not charge money, as long as the guests arrive, and the host will also send 3 red envelopes to each guest, each red envelope minimum 500 yuan Zuo Huai stared right, as a northerner said very surprised!

In addition, each table must have a Huazi, lobster, Qi stool bird's nest, and Fujian people eat in an orderly manner, there is no phenomenon of grabbing seats, which can only show that Fujian's economy is still relatively developed.

The Fujian banquet truly reflects that people are blessed, just to be lively, only to be happy, and it is worth learning from.

The third blame: Henan wedding banquet.

Ever heard of the Yellow River carp? At the Henan banquet, as long as the fish is served on the table, at least 100 cups start, and ordinary people really dare not go to the table in Henan.

This kind of fish has a saying at the banquet called "the head three tails four, the spine five belly six", which means that the head of the fish drinks 3 to the guest of honor, and the tail of the fish drinks 4 to the last guest, and the two sides don't want to be idle.

Marriage customs vary depending on cultural background and regional differences, here are some interesting marriage customs:

1.India - Wreath Exchange: At weddings in India, the bride and groom exchange flower wreaths, symbolizing love and commitment to each other.

2.Greece - Breaking pottery: In Greece, newlyweds break a piece of pottery at the door, bringing good luck and happiness to their new home.

3.Sweden - Dancing: At weddings in Sweden, the bride and groom perform a special dance called the "Frog Waltz" for all the guests to participate in.

4.Mongolia - Butter Tea: At a Mongolian wedding, the bride prepares a bowl of butter tea, which she uses to test the groom's love and loyalty to the feast.

6.Thailand - Lipstick: At weddings in Thailand, the bride wears lipstick and kisses a white cloth to symbolize her love and devotion to the groom.

7.Mexico - Golden Ring: In Mexico, the bride and groom use a gold ring to symbolize eternal love and marital relationships.

These marriage customs are very interesting and reflect the characteristics and values of various countries and cultures.

I'm from Shandong, so I'll talk about some interesting marriage customs in Shandong that I've heard:

The bride in the Boshan area is "grabbing" the sedan car. On the day of the wedding, the groom took the car with the sedan chair, followed a group of people to the woman's house to "rob the relatives", the bride's brother ran with her on his back, the bridesmaids guarded behind, and the groom led people to chase, after a period of competition for the rent of the cherry blossoms, the bride was "robbed" on the sedan chair.

After the bride gets on the sedan chair, there is a custom of splashing water in many places, which is called "the married daughter splashes out the water".

Linqu is the bride's younger siblings to bring her water, also known as soup, is the bride's last time to enjoy the love of brotherhood before marriage.

I used to hear that the wedding custom of Longkou is that after the bride gets on the sedan chair, she will send two porcelain basins to the groom and the bride's sedan chair respectively, and put two peaches and two mirrors in the basin in the groom's sedan chair, symbolizing health and longevity; A plate of red dates and a plate of peanuts are placed in the bridal sedan chair, which means that a precious son is born early.

In the area of Guanxian County, Liaocheng, Shandong, the bride has to circle the village three times when she gets married, which means that she is constantly spinning happiness and has a happy life.