If you are a little emotionally confused, please advise everyone. 20

I think it's because she thinks you're interesting to her, so she can avoid it, but in the bottom of her heart, she can still accept you.

At this time, you can find opportunities to talk to her more often, and occasionally make casual physical contact, such as crossing the street together, putting your arms around her waist, etc., to see how she reacts.

Or just ask her to watch a play, a movie, a bowling game or something, and see her attitude. Don't rush to confess just yet.

Don't ask anyone to ask, it's not good, it's easy to spread to people's ears, and when you turn around and don't do anything, you just make rumors, and people are embarrassed to have that thought.

How do you feel like this is talking about me?

I'm happy to help you solve this problem, because I have real feelings and have thought about it a lot. First of all, you have to know that if two people love each other, and they love each other deeply, there is no reason why they should not be together. No matter what happens, no matter how difficult it is, there is no reason to give up.

Even if one party makes a good choice for the other party, but the pain of letting go will be a scar that has not been healed for many times, because the letting go of love will be the biggest regret and remorse in a person's life, then, if you love each other, please love deeply; If you already love, don't leave. If you love someone, you should love it well, don't let him get hurt, because only when you are together will you make each other feel that your relationship is meaningful, worthwhile, and truly happy. There is no absolute fit for what is not suitable, since they are all loved, what do you have to think about these things for?

The setbacks encountered are just the opportunities created by God for you to better survive the future, opportunities are to be grasped, can not be escaped, only believe in each other, work hard for each other, happiness is not far away.

Inappropriate may only be a temporary feeling, after getting along for a long time, I believe you have understood that you can't do without each other, then, no matter what you encounter, don't give up.

This is my personal feeling, maybe I can help you with something, I wish you happiness.

People have to communicate for a long time to have feelings, but this is only a premise. For girls, I think there are a lot of things that people can't figure out. Some girls are very direct and will accept it the first time.

However, it is usually the girl who accepts it the second time, because they are probably not sure if the person is really good to her, so it is normal to be rejected at the first time. But you said that she refused for the second time, which means that she is a very assertive person, and she should have the image she likes in her heart. And you may have some differences.

She regrets it - for this, it's just that she doesn't want to lose you as a friend, she's good to friends.

But then come to think of it, if you really like her, don't give up until you really can't be friends.

Now I choose to let go and silently bear the decision you made, because I believe that you have your reasons, and I will bury this ending and cherish you....Sing it to her, and see her reaction!

This has to do with the emotional interests between people and people, as well as personal moral standards.

People are fickle, a person has different roles at the same time, you may be, someone else's son, a woman's husband, a son's father, someone else's trusted friend, someone else's colleague, someone else's partner.

For example, your son, you don't want to be sorry for him, and you won't care too much about what he has to do with you.

And your business partner, you don't want others to be sorry for you.

This is more extreme, for friends, the relationship is far and near, your own values will fluctuate, and you will behave badly. In fact, it is all human nature, not about interests, but about emotions, ordinary people do not want to offend people, but about interests, you have to pay attention.

This kind of person is self-pitying, has no assertiveness and insecurity, always considers the feelings of others and ignores themselves, they don't want to be ashamed of others, they may be unconfident in their bones or suffer from gains and losses, and they are also afraid that others will be sorry for themselves.

This is not an emotional problem at all, I hope you can rationally ask for help in the future!

The princess falls in love with the knight, and the knight falls in love with the princess, and together they go to the darkness.

It's a fairytale dream, be realistic!

First of all, if you think that the other party is like a goddess, you are not the mentality that you can chase a girl.

You have to adjust your mentality and regard the other party as an ordinary friend, so that you can do things with ease, so that you will not be so restrained now, and you will be affected by the other party's every move, smile and smile.

Also, you met on the bus, relatively speaking, there is not so much mystery, you should make up a story, for example, you are the editor of a magazine, you come out to find a print model, etc., so that you can further contact each other.

Of course, if you think that this is not realistic, then artificially create some unexpected incidents, such as breaking the other party's things, such as some of the other party's materials, books, mobile phones, including soiling the other party's clothes, and then sincerely apologize, and invite the other party to dinner, and compensate the other party, so as to create an opportunity for further contact.

In fact, many times girls understand what you want to do, but you are on guard, as long as you can eliminate the other party's vigilance, it is easy to ask the other party out, but in this way you have to know more about the other party, including the other party's living habits and preferences, so that according to the other party's preferences, it is also good to further contact each other, for example, observe the other party's books, play games, clothing brands, dress, speech and behavior, etc., are endless topics, slowly and more in-depth conversation, will make you get to know each other better and better.

In short, if there is no opportunity, create an opportunity, and the pursuit of girls is to have a good attitude, not to abandon, not to give up.

Since you can meet her every day, talk to her often. Feelings are all talked about.

Find an opportunity to ask her out to dinner, and you will know her attitude towards you.

Men need to take the initiative.

I think it's still the key to look at your looks, if every time you meet your goddess, your goddess doesn't look at you, you will definitely have no fun.