There is something important about finding a teacher who is studying psychology urgently

The sun rises here during the day and sets again at night.

The wind blows from the north to the south and from the south to the north, and it's all useless.

Even if you know what you can do, you can't change it.

Only someone can tell you how to grow up, but no one can grow up for you.

Emotions are not only cast for the sake of trustworthiness, on the contrary, they are deepened by friction, feelings are made of millions of little things plus time running-in, if it has been smooth, can you go deeper?

About what you said (because I feel like I'm going on like this.) It's not just that the girlfriend is gone. There will be no big development in this life)

What is the sentence :

Losing love is just a point in losing life, and losing self-confidence is losing the whole of life.

No one can replace you in the things of growth, knowing or not knowing is useless, only you can feel it if you experience it.

Viankokomi: Don't think of everyone as yourself, and don't see everyone who has a problem as a patient.

If you can find your own problems, it means that you have not reached a pathological personality development trend, and maybe you have been under a lot of stress lately, and you have been a little nervous. Cancerians are a bit neurotic and sentimental.

But oh, there is another point that is very kind and enthusiastic Even people learn psychology, if you **, send a message to the couple, maybe you just need someone to tell you about the situation, and give you a positive purpose to work hard

It's not about psychology, it's useless if you find it, the first example you gave is bad luck, the second is bad mind, in fact, the first case is solved by saying a **, you should face your girlfriend more.

That's a subconscious problem. If you yourself have decided that you will give up halfway in everything you do, then you will really achieve nothing.

You just have to think that you will succeed in everything you do, and your destiny will change.

The benefits and importance of studying psychology. Learning psychological knowledge plays an important role in people's life, work, study, body, mind and other aspects, and the following aspects can be listed:

1. It helps to understand oneself and regulate one's words and deeds.

Each of us is carrying out mental activities every day, and whether the mental activities we carry out are correct and beneficial is an issue that deserves attention and attention. For example, some people are arrogant and arrogant from now on, and some people are more conscientious, modest and cautious, the former is not good, and the latter is beneficial.

A wise man thinks a thousand times, and he will make a mistake", which means that the mental activities of a wise person are not necessarily correct. Therefore, each of us should learn the knowledge of psychology in order to realize the scientific and optimal of our mental activities. Second, it is helpful to do a good job in family education.

For example, in reality, every parent has an understandable mood of "hoping that their son will become a dragon" and "their daughter will become a phoenix". However, it is often counterproductive due to improper methods, or too accommodating, or the seedlings are promoted. The reasons for this are:

I don't know how to teach children according to their age characteristics and psychological characteristics at different stages, and they only think that they love children but don't understand them. Today, the education of only children requires more knowledge of psychology.

Third, it will help to do a good job in education.

Both teachers and students should develop their own good psychological qualities, correct their bad behaviors, cultivate their noble sentiments, develop their intelligence, and enhance their abilities, so as to do a good job in education and improve the quality of education. Now we are in the transition period from examination-oriented education to quality education, and we need psychological knowledge even more, and we will always need psychological knowledge in quality education in the future.

Fourth, it helps to improve work efficiency.

Our enterprises, public institutions, party and government organs, etc., all need to have efficient work efficiency, and they are inseparable from motivating the work enthusiasm, creativity and hard work of the staff. In order to achieve this goal, from a psychological point of view, it is necessary to follow the laws of people's psychological activities, improve leadership and management methods, create a good production or working environment and certain material and acorn conditions, establish harmonious interpersonal relationships, and form a harmonious psychological atmosphere, so that everyone can produce or work in a psychologically compatible and happy situation, so as to continuously improve work efficiency. Therefore, it is necessary to learn about psychology.

The teachers who have learned psychological counseling are very professional, but as a help-seeker, how can we judge whether a psychological counselor is professional?

Professional psychologists must have rigorous training in psychiatry and psychology, and these backgrounds cannot be judged by a simple certificate of practice and training background. Professionalism needs to be reflected in communication and behavior.

I felt understanding, honesty, and sincerity in my counseling with the counselor, and after I described my symptoms, the teacher was very understanding of my pain, not just thinking that I was being hypocritical like my parents, he was very serious about helping me analyze the current situation, clarify my thinking, and help me customize a one-on-one solution.

Now I'm almost recovered, and I'm free from the pain of the drug**.

I believe that as long as you have the courage to try, you will find that the psychology teachers are very professional!

1 Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and it is not something that can be solved by reading or not reading a book, so you have to find your strengths. I see at least one of your strengths that others are more difficult to surpass, that is, your perseverance, the other students in the dormitory often play on the computer, and you can still insist on reading and studying. With this alone, you will inevitably be ranked higher in your profession.

A lot of achievements are based on accumulation, so as long as you keep accumulating, don't be afraid that others will surpass you. Some people have good talent and can surpass many others as long as they work hard, but in fact they have been playing the role of rabbits in the tortoise-rabbit race. So you don't have to worry, but you don't have the luxury of expecting to be at the top, even if you get there one day, you know that someone will surpass you, and you have to be comfortable with it.

It seems that you have a bit of an inferiority complex. But as mentioned above, your achievements come from your accumulation rather than your quick wit, so even if someone says that you can't do it, you are very calm, you are indeed not good in some aspects, but through your own hard work and accumulation, you have surpassed many people who are better than you, don't you think this is a great achievement for yourself? 'What a great tortoise is that one tortoise outpaced many hares,' said even Newton''Genius comes from 99% blood and sweat and 1% inspiration', are you still embarrassed to be a 'turtle'?

Find a girlfriend when you have time, the kind that can study with you (female companions are also available), and can help you solve a lot of psychological problems. Give it a try.

I hope you can get out of the confusion as soon as possible and welcome your own beautiful life.

I don't think grades are everything, and after reading what you wrote, I think your entire college life was spent under intense academic pressure, why don't you try to change your own life? Add more entertainment factors in life, as for academics, just work hard! It doesn't matter if you're surpassed, because I believe that your efforts will be recognized by the people around you, even if it's inferior to other classmates!!

You are just over-indulging in the superiority of the top students, and you are afraid that if your grades regress, you will disappoint the people around you, and you are even more afraid that you will not be able to accept failure, try to correct your mentality: just work hard!

Second, I think the reason why you feel that others are unintentionally sarcastic about you is because your sense of self-protection is too strong, you are always on guard against others, simply put, you are afraid of being hurt and too sensitive! That's not a good thing! I don't know why you have low self-esteem, but I hope you can remember one sentence:

Everyone came into the world because they were needed! So you don't need to have low self-esteem at all!

My advice to you is: 1. Add some entertainment to your life and don't get too nervous! Don't compare your grades with your classmates aimlessly in your studies, you might as well keep setting goals for yourself!

Then work hard to complete your goals, so that you can continue to surpass yourself, and remember that only you are qualified to compete with you!

2. When you feel that others say bad things about you, don't open your heart and say your thoughts and concerns, isn't it good for everyone to make friends frankly? This way, you can tell if it's an unintentional mistake or a malicious one. Don't overthink people and don't think too much, just ignore those with malicious intentions, because it's not the renminbi that everyone will definitely like!

o( ohaha don't mind!) Be sure to talk more and express your emotions!!

I hope you will come out of the shadows as soon as possible and be a sunny person happily!

Find a close friend, tell him about your troubles, try to communicate with your roommates, participate in more sports, listen to songs, call your parents more, talk about your heart, don't close yourself, don't go to the tip of the horns, it will be very painful, I wish you to get rid of this status quo as soon as possible.

In fact, the academic performance in college is not too important, you can try to do some public welfare activities or bother in other aspects, such as playing ball, in fact, the time in college is really long, you can use this time to learn the skills you need for future jobs, which is the main thing.

Dear, I have a classmate like you, he sits in front of me, every time I talk to my tablemate, I think I'm talking about him, and as soon as I speak, I turn my head to look at us, in fact, we really aren't talking about him, maby, are you suspicious? Try to be open and trust the people around you.

Communicate more with friends, be happier, I'm not a psychology teacher, but I think you're too withdrawn.

1. If you want to systematically study psychology (college textbook): "General Psychology" (the most basic, it is also an introductory book to psychology), "Developmental Psychology" (child psychology), "Social Psychology", "Educational Psychology", "Psychological Counseling and Counseling", "Personality Psychology", "Abnormal Psychology", "Experimental Psychology", "Psychostatistics", "Psychometrics", etc.

2. I just want to know about psychology: "Psychology of Human Relations" (Zheng Quanquan of People's Education), "Mental Health" (Li Dan of Guangxi Education), "Social Psychology" (Hou Yubo), "Personality Psychology" (Gao Yuxiang of Beijing Normal University), "Cognitive Psychology" (Gao Yuxiang of Liaoning University), "Psychological Counseling and Psychology" (Qian Mingyi, Peking University).

3. If you want to read some works on psychology rather than textbooks, you can choose if you are more interested: "Body Language Code" (Aaron Pease), "Moral Admonition" (Tad), "Totem and Taboo" (Freud), "Unraveling the Secret of Your Personality" (Zhang Tongyan, Zhang Hanshi), "A Heart to Find Yourself" (Clifford Beals), "The Night of the Soul" (Thomas Moore), "Psychology and Life".

4. Books that want to understand and improve mental illness: "Psychological Counseling and Counseling" (edited by Tao Laiheng), "Psychometrics", "Clinical Manual of Psychological Disorders", "Abnormal Psychology", etc.

1 He doesn't really love you, and if you can't recognize this fact, then no one can help you.2 You have a Holy Mother plot, which is wishful thinking.

is willing, always thinking about saving each other and sacrificing for each other.

3 This man has psychological problems, if the knot between him and his ex-girlfriend is not untied, no matter how hard you try, it is useless, because people will be defeated by sudden death, if the close people around him die, the people who live are easy to be negative, and it is not easy to accept happiness, I will always feel very guilty, very lost, I have experienced it myself, I am also very decadent, but I have no way to solve this.

4 You do have psychological problems, you keep saying that you believe him, but in fact he has been messing around and having ambiguities everywhere, how do you know if he has met netizens in private?

5 He really doesn't love you, if you continue, he will look down on you, the Virgin Mary is no longer popular in this era, I have heard of the Virgin's disease before, but at that time I thought that this kind of disease was unlikely in this era, but I didn't expect that there were really people who did...

6 I feel that you are a good girl, so self-conscious, and live with dignity.

Be with him, you henceforth.

I can imagine the days with my eyes closed.

And give up on him, find someone who really cherishes you, and believe that you can also look forward to giving up on him after the happiness, he lost your love, got his so-called freedom, and gave up on him, you still keep your love, lost a person who will only bring you harm, and have every right to give this love to a worthy person, to a person who is willing to be for you forever, willing to be dedicated to you, and willing to give you warmth.