I m going to give a speech asking how I should speak

Recently, because of the speech club and the book demolition gang, I have resumed speaking, in fact, this year, I have insisted on doing some exercises intermittently, such as ** punching in, writing lecture scripts or sharing.

When I suddenly wanted to use it, I found that I was the same as at the beginning, talking about a mess, and I didn't make much progress, what is the reason?

I just saw an article by Mr. Liu Run about how Fan Deng made a speech, which was not about chicken soup for the soul to strengthen beliefs, nor was it the moves that many coaches said, in fact, I learned a lot of beliefs and moves, but I felt that it was useless, how to improve the speech, Fan Deng did this:

1. Train yourself to think faster and speak more slowly.

The logic behind the presentation is that you have to think faster than you can speak, and indeed I always have a lot of suffixes sometimes, and then, um, ah, in fact, I haven't figured it out that moderating and debating is the best way to train a person's thinking speed.

2 Don't memorize the manuscript, think and speak.

Memorizing the manuscript becomes a performance, once you forget a word, you can't remember the next sentence, and then you will panic, which will lead you to a point of no return. We should put more energy into how to lay out, observe everyone's reactions, whether you understand it, and adjust it at any time.

3 Lots of practice to overcome tension.

When a person is not prepared, he must be very nervous, face it again and again, and over time it will naturally improve, practice many times a day to explain one thing clearly, even if it is a small thing, will gradually desensitize himself, face many people, fear of speech is human instinct, after practicing again and again, will no longer regard speech as fear.

Think about the stage, I will always be stunned, there will be a lot of distractions, tomorrow I will start practicing impromptu speeches + book dismantling with Lao Tie for half an hour every morning, it is indeed like this, improving the speech and dismantling the book, there are no shortcuts, what moves and chicken soup are floating clouds. There is only one word: practice!

The more you practice, the more proficient you will be, the more proficient you will be, the more profound your understanding will be, and the more profound you will be, the better you will speak.

Postscript: Recently, I have participated in activities and practiced a lot, and because I don't care about the feelings of the subsections and others, family conflicts seem to be ......brewingI hope tomorrow morning's impromptu speech + book demolition event will go well! I've got to reflect on it!

Many speakers speak in a monotonous manner, as if they are at the same pace, at the same volume, at the same pitch from start to finish. If you can change the intonation of your voice while speaking, the audience will be more interested. Your tone must be rich and distinct, both loud and soft.

Sometimes, the most powerful ideas can be expressed in a very soft voice, and one of the most powerful, and often underutilized, of a speaker is the pause. Use pauses to make key messages work as intended, leaving a deep impact and lasting impression.

Many speakers are shy about telling jokes, thinking that their jokes won't get a response, but it's definitely worth a try. Audiences often appreciate speakers who are willing to entertain them, rather than speakers who make simple statements on stage. Prepare your speech lines carefully, rehearse them a few times, and take note of the time so you can feel more confident.

Of course, you can also find a professional eloquence training institution, with professional instructors to guide various speech skills, which will help you learn to speak faster. Nanjing Dougua Speech and Eloquence Training Institute is a leading institution that specializes in helping you improve your self-confidence, expression, communication, persuasion, leadership, speech and other practical training, which can help you build excellent speech performance in a short time.

If you can follow the following 10 presentation skills, you will be able to overcome your fear of speaking and start a great presentation.

1.Dress appropriately for the occasion. Clean and tidy, clothes that match your temperament are enough, and it is best to have a suit, solemn and formal.

2.Keep smiling, relaxed, and at ease. It's like a skater in a competition, even if you fall, keep smiling and get up immediately and keep going.

3.When you can't laugh. The exception to this is when you can't smile when you're about to give a serious, dignified speech. In this case, a few minutes before the speech, close your eyes and think about what appropriate demeanor and tone of voice you should use to give the speech.

4.Use self-motivated words. Before you take the stage, say something to yourself that motivates yourself, such as, "My presentation today will be a success!" ”。

5.Release anxiety. Before giving a speech, cheer yourself up by doing some simple exercises, release some of your nervousness, and exercise your psychological quality more often.

6.With the help of visual aids. Keep your slides as concise and to the point as possible. Try to use pictures and diagrams instead of text.

7.Give the most powerful information and facts. Just like preparing the topic of your presentation, gather all the materials that may be included in your presentation. Then, analyze them in detail and select the materials that best represent the theme and the three main points of the speech.

8.Familiarize yourself with your speech. Before speaking, you must be familiar with what you want to talk about, what the topic is, and don't go too far.

During your presentation, repeat your topic more than three times at any appropriate time, but be sure to mention it at the beginning, in the middle of the presentation, and especially at the end.

9.Practice diligently. The goal of the practice is not to be able to pronounce each word accurately, but to be able to memorize the general content of the speech, make the tone of the speech sound natural, and make yourself feel relaxed when speaking.

10.Use lecture cards. If you need prompts when giving a presentation, use small outline cards with just bullet points and examples. A script-based speech will only sound like a script, and it will probably not hold the audience's attention.

Hello, the title of my talk today is gratitude.

Gratitude is the most simple and sincere emotion of people, and it is also the embodiment of noble values and outlook on life.

When we enjoy a clean environment every day, we want to thank those cleaning workers; When we moved into our new home, we were thankful for the construction workers; When we travel, we have to thank the driver for ......If you know how to be grateful, you will look at every life with an equal eye, look at everyone around us again, respect every ordinary and ordinary labor, and respect yourself more.

Thank you for the rising and sunset, for the joy and pain, for the sky and the earth, for all the stars in the sky, for life, for everything you gain and lose, and for everything that you have nothing to gain and nothing to lose, so that I can pick up the beauty of life in the season when the grass grows and the warbler flies!

Let's face the world with gratitude! Let's approach our lives with gratitude! As long as we are full of gratitude, hope and enthusiasm for life, our society will be less accusatory and prevaricating, more tolerant and understanding, less quarrelsome and indifferent, more harmonious and warm, less deceitful and sloppy, more sincere and united, and our spiritual home will always be young.

That's the end of my talk for today, thank you.

First of all, I memorized the manuscript, and then I was confident in my speech, and I should bring in feelings, demeanor and actions plus my own understanding.

Go up and talk about it, don't be afraid.

The main thing is to be able to let go, and all kinds of skills are secondary. Giving a speech is a process of psychological breakthrough. Don't miss an opportunity to speak in front of people, even if it's two or three. Usually read more news, read newspapers, and accumulate conversations.

If you are an introvert, then you should consciously increase the intensity of the conversation, you may wish to try it out, you will not get used to it at first, and you will find that it is very effective.

As for the on-the-spot skills of speech, I still recommend Dale Carnegie's "The Art of Speech".

Speaking is a process of self-confidence-building, and when you are not sure that you are gradually improving, your self-confidence will be gradually cultivated, and when you find that you can easily speak in front of many people and have a clear mind, what can stop you.

From personal experience, it's not that difficult, don't care too much about personal dignity. Yue Minhong said, "Some people say I'm a pig, no, in fact, I'm not even as good as a pig." Many people lose their happiness and self-confidence because they are too sensitive, and others get angry for half a month with a word or a comment, which is very boring."

We should also show this spirit when we practice speaking. This does not mean that you are not open to the opinions of others. Rather, it cultivates a dull sensibility.

In the process of learning, you will realize its importance.