Farmers are most afraid of being old and have no support, most families are only children, how to pr

In rural areas, the number of single-child families is still relatively low. Most rural families basically have more than two children, and the predominantly patriarchal and family inheritance concepts have not changed much. Now life in the countryside is much better than before, and the children are more filial.

I believe that when the old man is old, as a child, he will not neglect his parents.

Because sooner or later my daughter will get married. Currently, there are more men than women. Many men in rural areas are single.

However, the bride's bride price is often 230,000 yuan, and even a car and a house are needed. Many peasants lamented that daughters in this society were more valuable than men. Because from a practical point of view, parents in rural areas work hard to pull their daughters, how can they spend hundreds of thousands of yuan, right?

Of course, the dedication and care that parents give to their children cannot be measured in money.

Therefore, a family that dares to have an only daughter shows that there is no worry about providing for the elderly when you are young, because the income is still acceptable. If you are worried about providing for the elderly, worrying about your daughter's marriage, and not having a son who is filial, you will definitely have a second child, which is the idea of raising children in rural areas to prevent old age. Because she is a daughter, the burden on her parents has been reduced a lot.

They don't need to buy a car or a house for their children, and they don't need to prepare ** gifts for their children. Maybe they can receive thousands of gifts, or find a man to be a burden. When they are old, they at least have a lot of savings, as well as houses, fields, and so on.

Because I live in the countryside, I bought pension insurance when I was a child, I planted some vegetables in the nearby fields or yards, my daughter's filial piety fee, plus my own savings for many years, I hardly have to worry about my own life.

The only thing that worries people is that the elderly are not in good health, they are easy to get sick, and it costs money to treat diseases and take medicine. Although medical insurance has reduced the burden of farmers' lives, poor health also means a bad mood. Even if the situation really reaches the point of exhaustion, there are still five-guarantee households, low-income households, and poor households in rural areas.

So single-child families don't have to worry about their parents' pensions at all. I think the elderly should be more worried about the filial piety of their children. As long as the children are good to the elderly, the elderly will live a happy life.

Start by saving yourself a certain amount of money. And then when you are old, you will enjoy it quietly.

Giving birth to ten sons will be more painful, marrying a wife and having children for a son, buying a house and a car, may have to take out a loan, and when the grandparents are old, the expenses of the grandchildren are also very large, if they have no savings, what will happen if they rely on a pension of 100 yuan a month when they are old? I can't rely on three or four sons, and it's difficult to protect myself if I repay the mortgage and car loan, so eugenics and parenting, saving some savings and relying on myself is the last word.

In fact, the pressure of being an only child is still very high, so you have to improve your abilities.

Nowadays, only children feel that the pressure is still relatively large, and their pension problems are also very serious.

I think I should work harder to earn enough money for my retirement.

There is no way, if you are an only child, you will take care of your parents alone.

If you are old, you should find a couple like Li Xiaolu and PG One when you are young.

This class should be shared with your husband or daughter-in-law.

I don't think it's very difficult to be an only child, after all, some children might as well be only children.

For only children, their pension problem is a very serious problem.

I think this is probably a problem that belongs to the state to solve.

In the past, when the economy was in difficulty, if the children of any family did not support the elderly, they would become the laughing stock of the whole village, which would make people laugh out of their stomachs. In the past, it was customary to have who supported their parents and who enjoyed the assets of the elderly. And now that the economic conditions are better, the children are still surprised by this old asset.

Nowadays, children just want to be quiet, and if they have more children, they blindly compare with each other, and they are afraid that they will eat the only child's home, and the family is relatively rich and rich, and the poor money is relatively small when they are old. The vast majority of only children are <> because their parents have invested a lot in his education

The level of culture and art is wide and high, and the ability to make money after engaging in it is relatively strong. Supporting the elderly does not provide him with much pressure. In addition, their moral cultivation is generally more appropriate, so they generally do not have the problem of not supporting their parents.

But there are also some only children, who have been pampered by their parents since they were children, and people say that he grew up in a clay pot. This kind of child usually lacks the fighting spirit and courage to work hard when he grows up, and has a strong sense of dependence. There are even cases where they are not very filial to their parents.

The upbringing of parents is not satisfactory. Children raised by the elderly are increasingly being sinned, not to mention being sinned in the case of young people, and in old age, the children still need to fight for money. There is a lot of gossip in the countryside, a lot of gossip, and a lot of picking on right and wrong when chatting.

As an elderly person, I feel that a bowl of water is flat. In fact, being thrown up by these tricks, no matter what you do, you can pick the bones inside the raw eggs and pick out the problems. Therefore, in the countryside, you should not think that the more children you raise, the better, but in fact the more you will suffer in the end.

There are many children, and they can't afford to study, and their literacy is not the same. There are many children and parents, but there is no one to support them, which is really a shell. Whether in the countryside or in the city, most of the post-50s, post-60s and post-70s parents who live today are all multi-childed, and how many are not supported?

That is to say, some brothers and sisters in the family are very easy to cause such and such problems and disputes in the management of parents' pension affairs, but among the many children, most of the children are dedicated, even if most of them are not filial, at least there will be one who is dedicated to filial piety.

If you have a large number of children, there may be a situation of passing the buck to each other, and this will happen.

There is a saying that is particularly good, one monk has water to eat, two monks carry water to eat, and three monks have no water to eat, this is the truth.

The only child will be relatively financially well-off, so he will not worry about supporting the elderly, but if there are more children, the children will often quarrel because of supporting the elderly, and there will be a comparison mentality, which will slowly evolve into such a phenomenon, which will make the elderly have no one to support.

The post-60s generation is retired, and the only child is an only child, how to provide for the elderly? I think that I should plan my retirement life well, and I can't just think about my children and serve them wholeheartedly, instead of living an independent life of my own.

1. Go to a nursing home.

Judging from the current situation, going to a nursing home is not a big problem. There are basically beds in the middle and low grades, but from the perspective of development, I am afraid it is not so easy to implement.

When the post-60s and post-70s generations have become elderly people, nursing homes may not be enough. There is also a prerequisite, first of all, you have to have a retirement salary and pay for the nursing home. Of course, if your child is willing to pay for you, that's a good thing.

2. If you can't take care of yourself, follow the children's wishes.

Of course, it is best if they are willing and able to take care of it themselves, and if they have to go to work, they can hire a nanny, otherwise they can also be sent to a nursing home, although we have children, but now they are required to work until they are 65 years old, what can they do? When we were seventy or eighty, people didn't retire yet!

My wife has trouble cooking, and often mentions when the community service provides a meal center suitable for the elderly, saying that Shanghai has done a good job, and if there is no epidemic, the school canteen is also a good choice.

3. The husband and wife raised their eyebrows together and walked towards old age together.

First of all, he can't affect his children, who are dragging him down, and it is not easy for him to work and live outside. Then we are required to take care of our health, and having a healthy body is the greatest help to the only child. If you can do it, you still rely on yourself to provide for the elderly at home.

Everyone has paid social security and has a certain pension, so it is not a problem to live an ordinary and ordinary life, and it is inevitable to rely on oneself to provide for the elderly.

Secondly, the economic conditions are OK, that is, the pension is high, and they have a certain amount of savings, and the conditions of the children are also good. Usually there is no problem, just live by yourself, live a good life, and don't easily disturb their lives. If you encounter difficulties in life, your children will be able to help them in a timely manner.

This is the best way to retire.

4. Things come to conform and find things to do.

People who are close to retirement have infinite reverie and high expectations for retirement life, but when they really retire, they find that it is not the life they want, and once they lose the constraints of going to work and the change of life rhythm, they become overwhelmed and even bored.

At this time, according to their own conditions and characteristics, or at home to help grandchildren, or re-hired work, or learn a skill and hobby, in short, to find something to do, something to do, and the small things as big things to do, can not do nothing, with things to fill or spend time, so that life becomes rich, the spirit becomes full.

Under normal circumstances, they will go to nursing homes for the elderly, because the children simply do not have extra time to take care of them, or community care.

You can choose to buy a house near your children, so that you can keep a certain distance and when there is something, your children can also rush over in time.

In the future, you can choose to go to a nursing home, the economic conditions of one-child families are relatively good, and they have savings and pensions in their hands, and they can also meet a lot of like-minded friends when they go to a nursing home for the elderly.

As an only child, it can be said that it is difficult to face the problem of parental pension. When the parents are old, they know that they are facing many maintenance problems, and the ensuing pension problems have become a major problem.

First, the economic burden is too great.

As the population ages, for most single-child families, the child usually has to pay a portion of the costs associated with the parents. To a certain extent, this will increase the pressure on the children. In today's society, children are facing pressure from all sides, and if there are no siblings at work, in life, and in their own families, it will lead to their inability to provide for their parents.

Second, the second spike is high, and the life care is insufficient.

It has always been advocated to care for the elderly in the empty nest family, and such a thing, in the family of one child, the probability of occurrence is as high as more than 90 percent, and the remaining part is that the children hand over their children to the elderly to raise. Those with better family conditions may send their parents to a welfare home, hoping to make up for the regret that they cannot take care of their parents. But it is clear that such an effect is not very satisfactory.

3. In addition, the lack of spiritual life.

When children go to work or get married, most children choose to live separately from their parents. This phenomenon is even more pronounced in villages, where young people are more interested in moving to big cities, which mean better working conditions and employment opportunities. But this means that the number of times to go home to see their parents is reduced, even if some elderly people are very cheerful and will participate in some social activities, but in their free time, they will still feel lonely, and in the long run, it is extremely detrimental to the physical and mental health of the elderly.

Fourth, finally, one of the core problems of the only child providing for his parents is actually a health problem.

In the past, the popularization of dietary intervention and healthy lifestyle was not in place, and in the absence of health reserves, many diseases broke out in the middle and old age, which will exacerbate the pressure of many families to provide for the elderly.

Conclusion: In short, the dilemma of the only child is not an isolated case, it is a legacy of the development of a past era. It needs to be solved urgently, and it needs policy guidance, social perception changes, and the practical efforts of each and every one of us.

In China, elderly people living alone without children should take the following ways to provide for their old age:

1.Social pension: Strengthen social pension services and provide socialized and customized services for the elderly. This includes services such as community day care, community health assessment, home care services, nursing care, health care and psychological counselling.

2.Family care: For elderly people who live alone without children, they can seek help from relatives and friends. You can also hire a domestic service or carer to support your health and safety.

3.Excellent Elderly Care Institutions: Choose high-quality anti-excitation elderly care institutions that provide a comfortable, healthy, safe and dignified living environment.

These facilities provide a variety of services, including **, caregiving, socialising, and literacy, to meet the different needs of older people.

4.Positive attitude: The elderly should maintain an optimistic and positive attitude, participate in social activities through interests, hobbies, volunteer services, etc., delay the sense of loss and loneliness in old age, and have a healthy, happy and fulfilling life in old age.

In short, the elderly who live alone without children need to fully understand their own needs and health conditions when caring for the elderly, and reasonably choose the appropriate pension method according to their personal conditions and actual conditions, so as to ensure their health and happiness.