Is it natural for children who have started a family to go back to their parents house to eat?

Updated on society 2024-06-24
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    This scores two cases:

    First, parents do not want their children to go home to eat, which may not be allowed by economic or physical conditions. In this way, the children should be independent, and they should not be able to start a family and start a business, and they will increase the burden on their parents.

    On the other hand, the vast majority of parents are very willing for their children to go home for dinner often, and working for half a day will make them feel happy, happy, and productive in old age. It's not that they should do it, but everyone can have a division of labor, the elderly cook, the children can wash the dishes and clean up the kitchen after dinner, and they can also help their parents do some other household chores when they have time. If the elderly have enough financial security, they really don't care about the food cost of a few hundred yuan.

    There is no need for children to go against the wishes of the elderly. Of course, there are other ways to compensate. For example:

    Occasionally, take the elderly out to eat some distinctive dishes, go on outings, or help the family buy oil and rice, because these things are heavier and it is not convenient for the elderly to take them; Second, you can also pay for food by the way. It is also possible to buy some other things that parents like or need. In short, you don't have to be so clear, you can repay your parents in your own way.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think it's right to go home for dinner often, parents don't care about the fatigue of cooking, they just want to spend more time with their children.

    The usual food expenses for parents, just like money for parents during the New Year's holidays, are all very filial performances, what's strange, eat for nothing and live for nothing to be ashamed!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think it's good to eat a few meals once in a while to enhance your relationship.

    Always going to eat will add a lot of burden to parents.

    You can go home and help your parents cook.

    In terms of money, give some every month, don't do food, do alimony.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Parents have been busy for most of their lives for their children

    Now that their children have started a family, the elderly are more lonely

    It's good to go to eat often

    You can also accompany them

    There is a feeling of being a family reunion member

    Money must be given to them

    Well-hearted old people don't want money for their children

    Don't want to cause trouble for your child

    Then you have to pay attention to what they need

    Buy them well in time

    It's a good idea to bring some fruit or something to them every time you go to eat

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No need to persuade, let them fund, their parents go out to travel for half a month, they have to take care of their own affairs at home, come back and see the results, and solve it with action (if you are really lazy, or want to gnaw the old, it is recommended to go out a few more times).

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Zinc started a family, and according to the law, parents should not forcibly control their children's finances, and children can live independently.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I can only say that your family has found a "good" daughter-in-law, but she has wronged your good son!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If your parents tell you to come home for dinner, that's fine, but it's not good if you don't go. If I take the initiative to eat it every day, I think it's better to cook it yourself, after all, you can make it yourself, and you don't need to trouble your parents.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It means hope and faith. From the moment the child is born, parents are selfless and dedicated to their children, they treat the child as most of their own life, and work harder for the sake of the child.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Children for parents mean the continuation of life, the continuation of love. In fact, for many parents, their children are their parents' lives. They don't want their children to get ahead, they just want their children to live a safe life.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Children are the continuation of their parents' lives. As a mom, I feel that my son is the most important thing in my life and I am willing to give everything for her. His dad and I wanted him to have a better life than I did, and we worked tirelessly to do so.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Sweet burden. I am afraid that I will melt in my mouth, and I am afraid that I will lose it in my hand, for fear that my children will be wronged and hurt, and I can't wait to hold the best things in the world in front of them. But at the same time it also means responsibility, teaching them how to be a contributing person to society.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Children are the best bond between parents, sometimes two people quarrel, when they think of their children, they will feel that everything is worth it, even if they are determined to leave, they will feel reluctant.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Children are the life of their parents, and many parents are waiting for their fathers to be noble for their sons and for their mothers to be noble for their children, and their children are their own hopes, and they all hope that their children can get ahead.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Children are the motivation for parents to work and a source of happiness. Every move of children affects the hearts of parents. Therefore, children are everything to parents, and as long as children are happy, parents will be happy.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Children are the pillars of their parents' lives and the goals of their struggle. With children, they will consider their children's future, their feelings, want to give their children the best, do not let their children follow their own old paths, and create a better future for children.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Children mean the crystallization of love between the two, and some people regard children as the continuation of life, so at present, there are many parents in parent-child education who hope that their children will no longer bear the hardships they have suffered and make their own mistakes, but experience the road they have not walked, try to live in a different way from themselves, and do what they want to do but can't do.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    My children are a source of joy to me, and I love them more than I have! They can be said to be the continuation of our lives, and they can also be our expectations for our future!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Our parents have worked hard to raise us for 18 years, giving us life and teaching us the principles of life. We are everything to our parents, so to speak, everything they do is for us. We are their pride and their hope.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    People often use the heart and liver baby to describe their children, although it is the parents who give life to their children, but in other words, children are also a piece of meat that falls from their parents, and they are also the lives of their parents, and they are the beautiful meaning of their parents' future lives and the continuation of their lives.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It means responsibility, it means growth, it means inheritance. After leaving the children and becoming parents, a person will experience a second growth and find himself in the process of educating his children.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    For parents, children can be said to be their everything, and most of what they do is for their children.

    From childhood to adulthood, it can be said that parents have been worried about their children. Even the little things in life are always thinking about you. Worry about them not eating and sleeping well, worry about their work, worry about their love life.

    Therefore, the kindness of his parents is not enough, and he must be repaid well.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Children are the continuation of the life of your parents, they will have more hopes to send to you, children are the watchtower of your parents, see that you are all promising, happy and happy they will be satisfied. Children are always the concern in the hearts of parents.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think it's a responsibility, but it's also a kind of happiness. Raising a child and educating a child takes more time, energy and money, but a smiling face of a child will make you very happy and happy.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    First of all, children should mean that they are the crystallization of love between two people, and they are the testimony of happiness, and then children make the small family complete, the girl becomes a mother, and the boy becomes a father, so children are still the hope of their parents, and they are also a symbol of their parents' responsibility and obligation.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Children for parents that is hope, is the spice of life, if there is no child with the company, then life is not rushed, it will make people despair, children are all parents, so it can be seen its importance.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    As a mom of two, let me answer this question. For me, my children are my life, no, they are higher than my life, they are the continuation of my life in this world, they are the meaning of my re-understanding of myself and hard work.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    d. This question examines honoring one's parents. China has a tradition of filial piety, and people who honor their parents have always been praised and respected by the people, and we must inherit and carry forward the fine tradition of the Chinese nation of filial piety and respect for our elders. For us, honoring our parents is manifested in many ways.

    Love your parents, think about your parents, understand and care for your parents; help parents in action and share their worries; Study hard, be motivated, and make your parents happy; Wait a minute. Children should not only give material help to their parents, but also provide spiritual comfort.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    First of all, you should say that people are wrong, and don't take it for granted that you want your parents to do things. Be respectful of your parents and greet them often, including financials and gifts. Parents feel that their son is filial, and of course it is not filial piety if they ignore it.

    When parents are sick, they should pay more attention, visit, ask for warmth, if they can't even do this, of course their parents are cold.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It is difficult for a clean official to cut off family affairs! But from what you said, I still think that the younger generation should do more review. They are all adults, married, and have children, so they should have been self-reliant a long time ago.

    Parents are willing to help, that's their heart, but they can't be counted on. This kind of help should not be taken for granted. Every bit of parental effort is not necessary, it is an additional favor.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The son and daughter-in-law are not very sensible, your parents raised you, you have already started a family, and it should be time to repay your parents. You are in trouble, and your parents are able and willing to help you, but they are not responsible for doing more for you. They don't want to, or feel physically incapacitated, and they can't help you at all.

    On the other hand, parents have difficulties, and as the younger generation, they should share more for their parents. Parents are not feeling well, and you should give more help and care for them mentally and financially. The father is sick and stays, and as a son and daughter-in-law, he ignores him, and he doesn't even have a word of comfort, which of course makes his parents sad.

    I hope that you will quickly correct your mistakes, apologize to your parents, and take practical actions to obtain your parents' forgiveness. In the future, care more about your parents, help your parents, think more about your parents, don't always want to get something from your parents, don't be an old man, you must know that you are also parents, and you should set an example for your next generation.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The daughter is careful and knows that she feels sorry for her parents, and the son is careless and arrogant.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    My parents are childhood sweethearts, each other's first love, and the two of them are very affectionate. I have always told people since I was a child that no matter how my parents are or how estranged I am from them, I am always grateful to them in this regard. I am grateful that they have given me a stable family and not have to worry about the relationship between my parents and the tragic problems of the family breakdown.

    I have a friend, the next-door neighbor's kind. His parents were married on a blind date, and after giving birth to her, his father has been working in the field, and his mother is a doctor, and she is very busy at work, and she rarely has time to take care of her, and her aunt usually cooks and eats. When we were young, we had a very good relationship, and she often came to my house to eat, and once we slept together, she told me that she really envied me, just because my parents had a good relationship and the family seemed to be stable.

    At that time, I was in the midst of blessings and did not know the blessings, and I often complained to him about the relationship between my parents and myself, and then I received a response of "as long as the family can be together, I don't care".

    She and I are the kind of children who are closer to my grandparents, and I am estranged because of my parents' work problems, but she just feels that it is warmer with her grandparents, and she is subconsciously looking for a warm feeling of home. But no matter how good our grandparents are to us, they are always different from their parents, and the two play different roles in the child's growth environment, and the love the child receives is also different.

    If two people are very affectionate together, it must be a blessing for a child, and this is an example I have learned in my life.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Not necessarily.

    Relatively speaking, children in such families are relatively happy, but for children, there are many factors affecting the life process when they are young, including family, society, school, etc.; Of course, for most children, there is a happier family, parents are loving, this situation is very good, because you will grow up under the care of your parents, without experiencing any domestic violence and the like, these family non-violence and family disharmony have a very deep impact on children.

    A large part of the children's life depends on whether the parents' family is harmonious, sometimes the harmonious and loving family can bring children good thoughts about the emotional aspect, which helps the development of children's emotional intelligence, in the current society, emotional intelligence is indispensable in the development of a person, but also to be sound. On the one hand, parental affection can sometimes reduce a lot of trouble in life. Some families have a bad family relationship that affects their children's lives, such as study, work, and mood; There are many areas related to children in this regard, so a loving family is a good environment for children.

    In many cases, children also need a warm family that can help them reduce a lot of troubles on the road of life. For other factors, there is a situation of parental affection that children experience more complex things in society, although the emotional aspect is better, other aspects will also affect their lives, so if you want your children to live well, you must guide their mental and physical health in ordinary life, and move towards a good path.

    But the loving family of parents is also worthy of recognition, and there are very few such families in society now, and the average child is also developing better.

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