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What you're talking about is just a foreign object, and there are two common solutions, one is to keep yourself busy, and the other is to meet him so that you may find that he is not so good.
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Try to find something else to do.
Scatter your mind a little. Maybe it will be useful.
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Go see her (him) and it won't have to be painful.
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Time helps you forget.
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Summary. My dear, some people say that it only takes two things to forget a person, new love and time, in fact, for lovelorn people, new love and time are both antidote to pain, but the effect is different.
My dear, some people say that it only takes two things to forget a good omen and disturb people, new love and time, in fact, for people who have lost their guesses, new love and time are both antidote to the pain of the Emperor, but the effect is different.
By letting the new love leak to forget the ex, let go of the past touching filial piety, this method is effective and fast. Because in such a situation, you can quickly enter a new relationship, and shift your attention from a sad past to a hopeful relationship, which can effectively relieve the painful emotions of the first draft. For the purpose of achieving the antidote, Xinhuan is indeed a good antidote, of course, it is not necessarily effective, but fast is for sure.
Which do most people choose?
However, as far as time is concerned, it is often said that time can dilute everything, no matter what is the first thing to be cautious, sad or happy, after the baptism of time, it seems that it is not so important. During this time, you can let yourself settle down first, filter the previous relationship, and summarize your own shortcomings, so as to learn Wang Xing to grow himself in a relationship. From this point of view, time is gentler and more curable, but no one can estimate the length of time.
Which one chooses more.
Comparatively speaking, there are more new lovers.
Because people nowadays have a relatively fast pace of life, they don't have the patience to use time to heal the damage.
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You have been together for many years, and you have long been clear about her character and temper. It's impossible to forget about him all at once. This is not a TV series, there is no so-called forgetfulness, you can only rely on yourself.
I want to know why you broke up? An inappropriate breakup is nothing worth remembering, and it's not worth it. If you start all over again, it's not all the same, and you end up breaking up.
Therefore, the past is gone, and the heart must know how to let go.
You like to compare your current position with your ex, and you think your ex can pay for everything you have, but your current one doesn't. In fact, you should understand that he is willing to pay for you, and it may be that Lu has loved you before. But the rent is not current, you have nothing to complain about, no one in this world should give everything for you, and there will always be only yourself.
You should also understand that not everything can be compared, and everyone expresses it differently. If you want to find someone who truly loves you and suits you, go ahead and don't look back.
I still have the idea that one day you might be together. This is the worst thought, keep going on, and the people who love you will just leave you one by one. You have to recognize the reality, you have said her so many times before, and she has never changed, even if you are together again, it will not be happy.
In addition, if you have a girlfriend now, you have to try to accept her, otherwise being with her is also an irresponsible performance. Letting go of the past and starting over is the most important thing you should do now.
Stop connecting with your ex and get along with the person who loves you now. Try to accept the person who loves you and let him into your heart.
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It takes time to forget someone, but a new love can also help you forget your past feelings to a certain extent. This is because new love will bring you new experiences and feelings, diverting your attention and emotional focus, which will reduce the focus and memories of past feelings. At the same time, the new love may also become your partner and friend, sharing the joys and troubles of life with you, providing you with emotional support and comfort.
However, it is not advisable to forget a person just by relying on a new love. Because if you don't really let go of your past feelings, then even if you have a new love, you may have emotional problems, or use the new love as a work calendar leather to fill the emptiness in your heart. Therefore, time and new love are both imitation factors that can help you forget a person, but the really effective way is to face your emotions seriously through proper time and self-reflection, and gradually adjust your mentality and lifestyle, so as to slowly come out of the shadows and start your life again.
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I think forgetting a relationship will actually fade over time, maybe when you first break up, you may feel very low every day, maybe walking in some places you have been to together, you will also feel very deeply.
Some people say that the best way to forget a relationship is to start a relationship again, but I think you are not over yet, the emotions in the previous relationship, rashly start a relationship, this new relationship as a basis or as a way to forget, this is unfair to other people.
To start a new relationship, it must be based on the fact that you like him before you can start, or you will directly and silently restart a relationship together and find that the two people are completely inappropriate, and then separate, I think it is very irresponsible to treat it like this.
Forget a relationship, don't compare this new relationship with the old relationship, or just pin the old relationship experience on the new relationship, in this way, in fact, it will not only make yourself sad, but also make the other party sad.
In fact, I think that if we forget to find some ways to divert our attention, such as finding something to enrich our lives, or doing something that we like to be filial piety, so that the time of the day will pass quickly, and there is no time for us to think about it by ourselves.
And if you find a new love, then in fact, when you are with this person, you may often recall your past feelings, so why look for such a way to hurt people?
I think that if you want to start a new relationship, you must deal with your past emotions, of course, it does not mean that you have completely forgotten, you can put the past feelings in your heart, keep the best memories, an experience, and finding a new love is not to forget, you must be responsible for your feelings.
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No, we can still numb ourselves with work and drinking, and it is very difficult to forget about a person.
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Yes, because time is a very long thing, so you can forget all the people you want to forget during this time.
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Yes, indeed. Only in this way can we erase the scar in our hearts, enough for us to quickly and completely forget each other.
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Some people are destined to leave with regret when they meet. At the end of love, only by truly letting go is the best result for each other. Zhang Ailing once said that it only takes two things to forget a person, and that is time and new love.
1. Give yourself a little time.
At the beginning of the breakup, pain and sadness are indispensable. But you will find that you are sad at first, and over time, sadness will slowly become a habit. Over time, this life will even disappear from your memory.
When it's long enough, you'll be able to fade his back and let go of the past and start living anew. So, give yourself a little time after a breakup, and don't deliberately forget it. With the help of time, you will find that the person's face is getting more and more blurred.
When you think of him, it's been a long time since you separated, so long enough that you can completely kick him out of your life, and then you can start a new life of your own. Instead of torturing yourself all the time, it is better to let go of the past generously, be a little more free, and let the past become the past. Some Zen people, no matter how much they like you, they won't come.
Second, new love
We often say that the best way to forget about the previous relationship faster is to start a new relationship and find a new love to spend with you. People who have a new love after a breakup do not mean that they have not really loved, but everyone has different ways to relieve pain after a breakup, and the approach is different. <>
Instead of indulging in the pain of falling out of love and not being able to get out of the empty dust, it is better to learn to rest assured and slowly let go. Moreover, we can't always hang ourselves from a tree, life is so long, there will always be some love that can't be found. Don't imprison yourself in the past, you must look forward.
So, say goodbye to the past in style, give yourself a chance, and give others a chance. Maybe the person you meet later is the person who is really suitable for you, and the person who can always be by your side. So, don't get along with yourself.
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I can't forget it because my heart doesn't hurt enough.
Falling in love with a person who has no chance to be married is like holding a needle tightly in your hand, and at the beginning, the needle is free to put in the palm of your hand and is not painful. Later, the tighter and tighter my hand became, I felt the pain, and when the pain reached the extreme, I had to let go.
Sometimes it's like when you suddenly touch the flame of a candle and are burned by the flame, or just burn it for a while, and the chain hand bounces back. This is a conditioned reflex and an inevitable consequence.
There is a phrase called "the extremes of things must be opposed", that is, everything, when it reaches an extreme state, will develop in the opposite direction. When the flower blooms to the extreme, it will wither; When a person walks up a mountain, he begins to descend. If a person falls in love with someone, but can't walk hand in hand, then you can only let go, and you can't let go because you haven't loved to the extreme.
If you understand the truth that "the extremes of things must be opposed", you will slowly stop loving him Chun Xiaochun. Because sooner or later you have to let go, it's better to take advantage of it, at least you won't hurt yourself so deeply, and you won't let yourself live so confused.
Many people, who love the wrong person, will think about "taking him back", and when both of them are old, they will go to him again. It's a competitive mentality, and everyone wants to win, even if it's "hitting a stone with an egg", give it a try. You really can't think like this, you don't need to do it, know how to let go, and you really win.
For feelings, winning or losing is just a mood, and there is no absolute standard.
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Diverting your attention, devoting yourself to a new job, hanging out with friends, traveling with your parents, going to the sea to shout, reading more, learning new skills, and other events will make you forget a person more quickly.
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Improve yourself, make yourself better and better, get better and better, answer yourself blindly, keep yourself busy, and then meet new people, you can quickly forget the code and remember a grinding person.
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You can travel, you can make some new friends, don't mention anything about him again, don't appear in the judgment place where he appeared, take the initiative to get out of the other party's life, and divert attention to Ming and quiet.
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Don't let the sad emotions of the jujube god code affect me, no longer contact my ex, stay away from my ex, accompany my relatives and friends, go out on a trip, start a new life, and forget about a blind personal stool.
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Of course, it is to start a new relationship, in fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person, more or less there will always be a place for him in a corner of your heart, the deeper the feelings, the harder it is to forget, to be honest, you can never forget, some things are just you choose to escape, the more you deliberately forget the feelings, the more you can't forget, and the more deeply rooted! I can't forget it, mainly because the new love doesn't understand me enough, I can't say it's bad, or the new love is not suitable for me.
It should be time, the new love is just a momentary impulse, and I will miss that person more later. Different people have different options, and time can dilute everything. It's time.
The new love is not good, and if you can't get it right, you miss him even more. You never forget your first love, or someone else doesn't have his style, or you're used to having his life. Some people say:
The antidote to feelings is to forget the past and look forward to the future (to marry a new love). Loving doesn't necessarily have it. Possessing this is not necessarily love.
Time can run in everything. Don't go reluctantly.
Zhang Xiaoxian said: If you want to forget a relationship, there is always only one way: time and new love.
If time and a new love can't make you forget a relationship, there is only one reason: the time is not long enough, and the new love is not good enough. If time can you forget, it means that it is not true love, if the new love can forget the ex, your deep affection for the ex will not give too much.
Time and new love are like sand, covering a person in his heart, but when the wind blows on the light and shovels on the heavy, he will be exposed, I will never forget the feelings I had in my heart, when my new love took you to do what you and he did, and the road you walked, who did you think in your heart? There is no comparison between the two experiences. Sometimes, forgetting may not be the best ending, and it may be better to hide deep in your heart than to forget your bones.
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