Why do women learn to be good? Why do women have to be good?

If you are not excellent, why should others look up to you, why should others respect you, and why should you pursue the life you like.

Only excellent can allow yourself to spend your life with equally good people. Don't say that it matters if a woman marries well, it doesn't matter what talent is, if you want to marry Huo Qigang like Guo Jingjing, you have to make yourself a world champion first, people have enough capital and are good enough to meet people who are also excellent.

Only if you are excellent can you take your destiny into your own hands and not be swayed by others. Just like Tang Jing and Luo Zijun in "The First Half of My Life", this era is no longer an era when women can only focus on female celebrities, if you want to be wonderful by yourself and live independently by yourself, you have to make yourself excellent. <>

Furthermore, why aren't you excellent? It's the same life, why do you want to live a wonderful life like others? Why can't you live the kind of life you desire? Why should you live this life with the inferiority of your own worthlessness? There's no reason why you shouldn't live like this.

So, being excellent is the only way.

Their self-love and self-improvement touched me. I admire these women and try to learn from them.

Self-love. A good woman will love herself, and there is a good saying, if you don't love yourself anymore, how can you expect others to love you? Women should first learn to love themselves, we don't approve of everything women do for others, women often do everything because they fall in love with someone and are desperate, in fact, this behavior is very stupid, you are not born to dedicate to this person, when doing something beyond the scope and common sense, please love yourself first.

Self-improvement. Excellent women never live on men, they live a chic life, they live freely, they have a decent job and a stable income, and they can live well without relying on their families or men. In modern society, professional women have become an indispensable and important part of social construction, they can take on a lot of men's work, but also do a lot of work that men can't do, they know that there is no freedom to be attached to men, and they have no right to speak, so excellent women must be self-reliant.

Self-examination. Excellent women will never be satisfied with the status quo, they will constantly strive to move forward in their work, be positive and never stop. They will also repeatedly scrutinize the gains and losses in work and life, self-criticism and self-education, people are not perfect, excellent women are excellent because they may start at the same starting point as us, but they are more able to find shortcomings from themselves and correct them, so as to continue to improve.

If women want to be better, they can try the following:

Learn and improve your skills: Women can actively learn new knowledge and skills, continuously improve their professional ability and knowledge level, develop their careers, and improve their competitiveness.

Establish your own career plan: Women can make their own career plan, clarify their career goals and development directions, and formulate specific plans and measures to achieve their goals.

Improve communication skills and leadership: Women can actively participate in team projects, volunteer, participate in social events, etc., improve their communication and leadership skills, and develop self-confidence and courage.

Maintain a healthy lifestyle: Women should pay attention to maintaining a healthy lifestyle, such as regular work and rest, healthy diet, moderate exercise, good sleep, etc., to improve the health of the brain and body, and improve their work efficiency and creativity.

Cultivating good relationships: Women should focus on building and maintaining relationships, maintaining good relationships with colleagues, friends and family, and building a network of supporters and supporters.

Build your own brand and image: Women can build their own personal brand and image, including image, word-of-mouth, credibility, etc., to make themselves more valuable and popular in the workplace and social circles.

Stick to your own values and beliefs: Women should stick to their values and beliefs, maintain their inner balance and strength, not be negatively affected by the outside world, and maintain their independence and self-confidence.

In short, in order for women to be better, they need to continuously learn, improve their skills, establish career plans, improve communication and leadership skills, maintain a healthy lifestyle, cultivate good interpersonal relationships, build personal brands and images, and adhere to self-values and beliefs.

When the child was three years old, I was admitted to the grassroots cadres and wanted to go to the county to study and train. The study lasts for about half a month! My situation is that there is no mother-in-law at home, my mother-in-law can't count on it, my father-in-law is very old (my husband is 41 years old, and he is almost 70 years old at the time), my husband has been working in the field, one night I called my son **, three-year-old he asked me "The mother of the little white rabbit doesn't want it anymore, my mother doesn't want me anymore" At that time, my tears came down, and I felt indebted to the child!

It was very late when I came home after studying, and I saw my son asleep there, and he didn't take off his clothes, and his eyelashes were full of tears, which made me feel distressed, and I immediately decided to accompany my child even if I didn't do anything! The child is hope, and I can't miss his growth.

The second time was when my husband and I contracted some projects in the city, it was inconvenient to take children, my son was six years old, he was in elementary school at home, there were a lot of things on the construction site every day, he couldn't do without people, and he forgot about his children when he was busy! But every half a month must go back to the child to wash and wash, that time there is something to go back two days late, it is said that the son goes to the village entrance every day to wait for me, that heart, unspeakably uncomfortable to go back to the son said, "Mom, don't leave on Sunday, I feel uncomfortable watching you go, I go to school on Monday, you go again"! I really couldn't stand this kind of worry, so I simply brought my son out!

At that time, I didn't know how long I could live in the city, I had no fixed place, I was displaced, I had no relatives, I had no support, and I couldn't see tomorrow today! But for the sake of the children, overcome all difficulties! On the third day I came to the city, I took my son by the hand to find school, and my son was as happy as a bird, and I never had to be separated from my mother again!

At that time, it was still borrowed, exams were required, and relatives needed to pay money! In those days, I made a small blackboard and tutored my son in the shed, and my son lived and ate with us!

The third time my son was in the second grade, their school recruited teachers, and I applied for the job for my son, and I worked in my son's school if the application was successful, walking and going back together every day, so as to take care of him! Later, when my son graduated from elementary school, I had to quit my job because I had to pick him up and drop him off from school every day and accompany him to various interest classes! So I got my current job, a drainage company logistics!

The time is relaxed, there are holidays, it is convenient to pick up and drop off children, and do not delay taking care of the family, (my father-in-law is old, and we have taken it over), such days have passed for more than ten years, and now the children are older, the old people are gone, and I am also old

But my dedication is also rewarded, I did not miss every stage of my son's growth, my son or Ji is not only filial, but also able to write and martial arts, excellent character and learning, which makes me proud! My efforts have seen the achievements! Although I haven't been able to make a difference in my career, it's worth thinking about my family and my children!

If the career is brilliant, the family is not harmonious, and the children are not successful, this life will not be happy! There must always be someone to make concessions, according to their actual situation, no matter how outstanding a woman's performance is and how important her work is, she will not be able to have a happy and perfect family

1. Because life doesn't treat you well just because you're a girl.

Life is the same for everyone, no one is easier than the other, and there are not so many things to take for granted. You always feel like you're a girl, so you shouldn't run around for life, you should sit back and enjoy it. But life is never going to be extra kind to you just because you're a girl.

You want to be loved, and you must also know that you can only be loved if you strive to be good yourself. When you are sad, you can vent your emotions hypocritically to soothe your emotions, and don't hold on to it when it's over. In fact, you should be grateful for those years that allowed you to learn to survive.

Second, because there is no gender in the workplace, there is only competition, and the survival of the fittest.

There will only be a difference between "capable people" and "incapable people" in the workplace, and there will be no difference between "men" and "women". Nowadays, when the white bones in the workplace encounter difficulties and setbacks, they have no right to be coquettish and no reason for stage fright, because the men or women you face will only be your colleagues, comrades-in-arms or opponents, and no one has the responsibility to take care of you in their hands.

3. Because you don't have good economic conditions, you don't have enough time and energy to take care of your parents, you don't have the freedom to work if you don't have money, and you can't spend more time with them. Where there is a need, there is no money. Working hard and becoming successful in the future is the greatest and best hope for parents.

Striving to successfully meet this request of parents is the best expression of honoring parents. We little girls have no financial income, but this is only temporary, and we believe that we also have the ability to use what we have learned to earn a good financial income in the near future. At that time, you can also repay and honor your parents materially, so that your parents who have worked hard all their lives can take a good rest.

So, what is the prerequisite for obtaining this good income? That's hard work, hard work, try hard!