Why are you so different from others?

Since I was a child, in fact, I was very unconfident, because I felt that I was always worse than others, and later I found out that I always compared myself with myself, which was already better than you, and many people compared me, so I always had low self-esteem, and I was always trying to catch up with them but still looked at them.

Later I realized how helpless I was because I never reached that end. Later I realized why I was so far from others.

First of all, this is a comparative level, if you are more urgent, there is a reference point, I am so different from others, then first of all, is it not that the starting point of yourself and others is different, you are at the foot of the mountain, and then you see others at the top of the mountain, you say that you are not much different from others, the starting point is not the same, no matter how you compare there is a huge difference.

The second is that you just think about it, you know that you are so different from others, but you don't make an effort to close the gap, but others have been working hard, and you are still standing still, so the difference will get bigger and bigger.

In fact, I personally think that many times you feel that you are very different from others, most of the time it is a manifestation of your own lack of self-confidence, if you are very confident, you may be more comfortable to accept this difference, and then to narrow this gap, instead of blindly asking why, why.

Be confident and try to close the gap, you are the same as everyone else, and we are all the same.

Because others work hard and are strict with themselves, and I can't leave my mobile phone, I am not self-motivated, and naturally the gap between me and others is getting bigger and bigger.

I've always thought it was my brain that was bad, but my mom said I had low emotional intelligence, but I didn't know why.

Why are they all people, and the difference is so big? ”

In fact, the answer is very clear, although they all have the same blue sky above their heads, step on the same earth, and breathe.

The same air is human-like, but each individual is often not the same species, so the difference between people is often the difference between species.

To put it simply, the difference is so big because others are not people.

Why do you say that, Mr. Xiaolai's words can be said to be very vivid.

Every time you learn a new skill, you evolve into another species.

You learn to lift a number of sheds and drive, and you evolve into a species with longer legs;

When you learn a foreign language, you evolve into a species with a wider field of vision; You learn to speak, and you evolve into a species with a louder voice; When you learn to write, you evolve into a species with a more penetrating voice;

Once you have mastered the theory of statistical probability, you have evolved into a species that can see the essence more clearly;

When you learn the method of co-ordination, you will evolve into a species with "three heads and six arms", and you will be able to do a lot more than others;

You delve into psychology, and you evolve into a species that understands the world as a whole more accurately;

If you have a thorough understanding of modern financial theory, you will evolve into the most favored species in the current financial era.

What is the method of growth?

There is almost only one answer: learning.

In a meaningful life, there seems to be nothing more important than these two words.

When you acquire every skill, you empower yourself and make yourself more capable.

The reason why people can progress and grow is because of the ability to learn, and the ability to learn has opened up the gap and opened the gap between people, so learning is another form of evolution.

Would you rather evolve or degenerate?

Recently, my right knee has started to hurt from time to time again.

Visited the doctor twice and prescribed some medications. I haven't dared to do any strenuous exercise for more than a month.

It's not very serious, but it's a long time to recover.

When you are not feeling well, your emotions are always untouchable.

In the past, in order not to reduce the resistance, I would exercise a week to get some reassuring and pleasant dopamine.

Now... My friends all say I'm a weak chicken. You can't lift your hands, you can't run your feet, and your eyes can't take in bright lights.

Every time they say I'm a weak chicken, I can't argue with that.

People always have to wait for the time to lose before they realize that they didn't cherish it in the first place.

It wasn't until you lost your health that you realized you weren't taking good care of yourself.

Last night, I watched a documentary.

The first interview was with Selina Ren Jiaxuan.

After reading the whole **, I found that many of my views and ideas with Selina were unexpectedly similar.

During those days, the reason why I was able to be optimistic and persevered was because I needed to see people who were worse than me. It's human nature, and there's nothing wrong with that. Indeed, it also made me feel a little better.

Seeing that they are worse than me, but they are surviving well, then what qualifications do I have?

But one day, I realized that this was a ridiculous idea.

This is my life, why should I compare myself to others?

I feel miserable compared to good people. I have to compare myself to bad people so that I can feel better.

Although I have benefited from this, I have received the tragic stories of others that have allowed me to get through those difficult days.

But, it's just weird. I don't think that's right, and I don't like it even more.

I think the silver trail should be out of comparison.

If you want to compare, then you should compare it with yourself yesterday and yourself ten years ago. 」

That's what I've always insisted on and believed.

I've always felt that everybody is starting in a different quadrant.

From childhood to adulthood, there will definitely be people who compare you with people around you who have the same qualifications.

When you are studying, compare yourself to children with good grades.

When you work, compare yourself to people who have a successful career.

When you start a family, compare yourself to someone of your age who already has children.

No one can escape these.

But people forget that the two are not comparable.

People often divide the crowd into groups.

12 zodiac signs, 12 zodiac signs. As everyone knows, every second, thousands of births are born on the earth.

People born in the same year, month, day, and second at the same time can have completely opposite personalities, growth environments, and life experiences.

So, how to talk about comparison .

Always staring at the good of others, or holding on to the bad of others, you can't live a good life.

People who always look up at the sky!

Don't forget to look down at the road under your feet.

Maybe one step at a time, life is much better.

Everyone's thoughts are different, and it's normal for personality to be different!What he encountered, his values, and his subconscious all affected his character!

Everyone has a different background, a different living environment, and a different level of education, so everyone is very different.