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Because parents feel that their son will go out to break out of his own world in the future, they will let their son develop very freely when he is young, and also hope that his son can become independent and strong. But these parents will feel very sorry for their daughters, and they will love their daughters like princesses since they were young, and they don't want them to go out and suffer too much, so they won't let their daughters be so free. <>
1. The future positioning of boys and girls is different. Although men and women are now equal, the division of labor between boys and girls in society is different. Regardless of whether a boy has a high degree or not, he must bear the responsibility of two families in his life, so the boy is destined to be under a lot of pressure from the day he is born.
Many parents cultivate the independence of boys when they are young, and many parents want their sons to be independent from an early age, so that they can make their small family better in the future. Boys are also more courageous, so parents don't have to worry about boys being bullied outside, and they will quickly agree when boys want to go out and play with words. But girls are different, many people are afraid that their girls will be hurt when they go out, so they are more strict with girls from an early age.
Second, girls are prone to injury. Girls are still relatively weak in their hearts, they have been wronged outside, if they are unwilling to tell their parents, these emotions accumulate in their hearts for a long time, it will become a very serious mental illness, so many parents who give birth to daughters attach great importance to the development of their daughters in adolescence. Adolescence is the time when these children are about the budding love, and many parents of girls are nervous, they are afraid that their children will be hurt when they are in love, but for those parents of boys, they don't have to be afraid of this kind of thing.
Boys are naughty from an early age, so their parents don't discipline them too much when they grow up. But the girl has always listened to her parents since she was a child, so the girl's parents are very possessive and always want to participate in their daughter's life.
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Because parents think that their daughters are more vulnerable outside, and the current society is so chaotic, all kinds of incidents of seducing girls occur from time to time.
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Because of the son's words, they need to learn to be independent, but the daughter is relatively weak and needs protection.
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Because they think that their sons should be bolder, and boys will not be bullied outside, girls are worried that they will be hurt, so parents generally like to protect girls.
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Fear of physical harm to her daughter. Before I went to college, my classmates inevitably drank alcohol in order to celebrate, and I remember that my brother was fine when he drank, and it was my mother's turn that kept telling me not to drink.
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Because now it is girls who suffer the most in society, boys and girls are different, parents just want to protect their daughters, so they restrain them.
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Because I feel that my daughter will be weaker, I am afraid that I will be bullied by others when I go out, and I am also afraid that my daughter will be outside and may marry far away, but my son is different, and he may become stronger when he wanders outside, and he can support a family in the future.
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Because boys are more capable of protecting themselves than girls, they are not easily harmed, and boys will also be the pillars of a family in the future, giving them more freedom is also training them, so that they can grow through more freedom.
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Because the gender of sons and daughters is different, basically boys need to break through, so girls are relatively weak, so girls will not have much freedom.
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It seems to me that children are a somewhat complicated thing.
The lifespan of a human being is no more than a hundred years, and every living thing will pass away one day.
The best proof of their existence is their children.
In a life that may be short or long and fragile, leave behind future generations as proof that you have existed and that you have lived in this world.
On the one hand, it continues its own bloodline, its traditional culture and history, and on the other hand, it serves as a proof of its existence after death, so that people can remember it.
Whether it is important to be free for a while or to be able to continue for thousands or even tens of thousands of years depends on what you think......
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