How could this happen to my first love? Are you still infatuated?

Updated on healthy 2024-06-02
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    She's that you think of as a substitute.

    You should no longer be so obsessed with this wishful thinking, otherwise you will be very miserable in the future.

    Although the first love is not necessarily perfect, when one of the first loves becomes a victim of the other, then this so-called first love has lost its true meaning.

    Your imagination is still rich, and you will compare yourself to Duan Yu and Wang Yuyan. It shows that your view of love is not realistic. This will be your biggest Achilles' heel in the future.

    You should go back to real life as soon as possible and don't keep yourself confined to your fantasy world!!

    There is no grass at the end of the world, and birds are heard everywhere!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you read it, you might understand.

    The farthest distance in the world.

    Not the distance between life and death.

    Instead, they stand in front of you.

    You don't know I love you.

    The farthest distance in the world.

    It's not me standing in front of you.

    You don't know I love you.

    It's about loving you to obsession.

    But you can't say I love you.

    It's because I want you to be heartbroken.

    But I can only bury it deep in my heart.

    The farthest distance in the world.

    It's not that I can't say I miss you.

    It's about loving one another.

    But they can't be together.

    The farthest distance in the world.

    Not love one another.

    But they can't be together.

    But he knows that true love is invincible.

    But he pretended not to care.

    The farthest distance in the world.

    Not tree-to-tree distance.

    Rather, it is a branch that grows from the same root.

    But they can't cling to each other in the wind.

    The farthest distance in the world.

    It's not that the branches can't cling to each other.

    It's stars looking at each other.

    But there is no converging prosperity trajectory.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I still support you and accept her love, after all, you still love her, otherwise you wouldn't be thinking about it.

    But you have to be careful, she can not have an ex-boyfriend, or she can break up with you, depending on your efforts in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Find another one to give up on her, because I've tried, if you want to give up in words, you really can't give up, it took me five years to forget that my first love is so difficult, and then find another one, I learn to give up, if you live alone, it's so hard to give up.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Friend, if you love her, don't think about it, you are her first, borrow your words Duan Yu is the same as Wang Yu, what you say is just an excuse, you at least cherish the present.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    What does it matter if it's not your first love.

    Haven't you heard that basically first love doesn't end well?

    In that case, it's better not to be your first love.

    Isn't it great now.

    As long as he chooses you, isn't it?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You don't have the right to eyeballs The person you love is your first love If you really care about her, you should cherish the present Those are just excuses

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you can, then why not try to be with her First love can teach people a lot of things. First love is the foundation of later love.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Forget it. Even if you do come together, it won't last long.

    It's better to leave a little bit of good memories for yourself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There's nothing you don't need to take care of. Aren't you chasing girls just to be cheeky? She liked others at first, but didn't getting her after your efforts just illustrate the process of "chasing"?

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What love is love in the second year of high school! See you at university! There are a lot of good things to love in college!

    It is necessary to put their future.

    It's in the book. It's in the book. It's better for you to know.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Count the pull. My first love was very early, and that girl was far away from me.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't think about it, think too much, worry too much

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When each of us reaches a certain age, we will choose the person we like, we have had an unforgettable love experience, and there has been a person we like from the bottom of our hearts, this person can never be forgotten in our memory, even if we can't finally walk with this person, but this person will always become the best memory in our hearts.

    And for me, the reason why I like this person is precisely because in the process of interacting with him, I can really feel happiness and joy, and I can get a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction, so to speak, I have the same three views with him, we can achieve mutual tolerance and understanding with each other, the other party brings me not only the most intimate feeling between relatives, but also he is also a person who really understands me and can really enter my inner world.

    Although he and I eventually had to break up because of getting along, he always occupies an extremely important position in my mind, maybe as a woman, I still have some emotional things like this, and I often remind myself that I should forget that this man should start a new life, but I always have the shadow of each other in my mind, and I can never forget the happy days when two people are together, I like him so much that now I have a lot of suitors around me, There are a lot of excellent boys, but they are all rejected by me, even though I know that there is no result with him, there can be no future, but I have always been stuck in this relationship and can't extricate myself. Because when you pay your feelings, it is really hard to forget the person who has really liked it, especially the first love is very serious about a person's liking. That's why you will leave good memories, and the feeling of first love is hard to forget.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    First love means good memories to me. It is irreplaceable by any kind of feeling, and it is also the most memorable and unforgettable relationship. Most of the memories of first love are beautiful because they accompanied our youth.

    Although not people who have spent their lives together. but it teaches us how to love. Happiness is not a story, misfortune is.

    Often only experienced setbacks. It is only after experiencing the pain and struggle in my heart that it is unforgettable. Psychology tells you why first love is so memorable.

    Memory is the brain's response to past experiences, and past experiences can be perceived people, things, people, and things. The process by which these impressions are extracted in the brain is memory. The memory of first love is unforgettable.

    It is because it gives people the first perception and emotional experience, and it is very strong, and it is easy to stir up waves in people's hearts. Make people's impressions. In fact, psychologists can also explain the memory effect.

    The effect refers to people's impression of things that have not yet been processed. More impressive than what has already been dealt with. Psychologists have come to such a conclusion through experiments.

    It found random experimenters. Let them do the little work. One of them allowed them to complete all the things smoothly.

    And the other group. Interrupted by obstruction at completion. The results show people who didn't complete the work.

    The recollection of things is higher for clopyridine finishers. The love perspective in this experiment shows that when we first face love, we will stubbornly believe that the other person will be the person we will work with for the rest of our lives. But halfway through, they parted ways.

    Such an unfulfilled wish can also be said to be a pity. It will be deeply rooted in the heart and will not be forgotten for a long time.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The reason why I can't forget my first love:

    1.First love is the first spiritual sustenance that we read when we first fell in love, whether the first love is a good person or a bad person, whenever a person thinks about the past, he will always think of the first love, just like the first time we got the first pot of gold through hard work, that feeling is unforgettable for you.

    2.First love is a relationship established when everyone's emotions are at their simplest. The feelings we give to our first love are the purest and most sincere.

    When a person takes out the purest and most sincere feelings to treat another Huizhen person, then this feeling will be deposited in the bottom of your heart, like sand deposited at the bottom of the river, which is particularly strong.

    So the first love is unforgettable, but also we need the courage to face the emotion, although the first love is unforgettable, but we also have to face our own life, in the face of the person who loves you in front of you, even if you can't forget that you have to bury that feeling in your heart, become a memory that you enjoy alone. It has become a thing of the past, since you can't have it, why not let the people who accompany you enjoy happiness, use your current love to cover the memories of the past, the happier and happier you are now, the shadow of first love will become more and more dim.

    I don't think any relationship can be completely replaced, including first love.

    What we talk about replacing is to include the feeling of first love and the object of first love.

    Then I think that if it is the feeling of first love, it is indeed irreplaceable. The irreplaceable reason is because of the first time I experienced the beauty or regret of the relationship.

    If it is the object of first love, you see that many people are not with their first love in the end, it is possible to replace or replace.

    When people fall in love for the first time, they are all in that era, the level, and the environment are basically the same, and the first time they explore their feelings, they are even more fresh, fantasy, and pure. But in the back, some of them went their own way, and the gap between ideology, three views, ambitions, and visions gradually expanded.

    At this time, normal people will choose a suitable person to spend their lives together.

    Before you know it, this is replacement.

    If it were me, I would certainly not ask myself if my first love could be replaced. Only better, more suitable.

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