Is love really immutable, is love immutable?

Updated on society 2024-06-02
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's going to change. I fell in love at first sight with someone who was two and a half years older than me. After dating for more than a year, they broke up.

    It's been 3 years since we broke up, and I haven't seen him for two years. I have to admit that I liked him very much before, but after these two years, I have matured a lot, and I find that my feelings for him have also deteriorated unconsciously. In my opinion, there is no eternal love in a person's life.

    Love will always go bad.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you want to change, you can change, and if you don't want to change, you have a way.

    I think you're wondering if two people can stay the same If so, I think you just need to be able to do it for a long time, and the love of the sea is not nothing, it's just very little, it's like winning the lottery or being struck by lightning in the rain, although the odds are small, but there are still some! As long as you don't regret what you've done, you're not violating the word love.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    OK. Since you firmly believe in your attitude towards love and have such a belief, you will not be wrong to do it well and do it with your heart.

    Also, as long as you are very sincere and take it seriously, why care if others are dissatisfied? Besides, you can't do anything to satisfy others, as long as you do your best.

    By the way, you're a good man, you can see it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It starts with your personal and the other person's mentality. It depends on whether the two sides are playing or really paying. If it's a game to play, it quickly deteriorates. If it is true, it can usually maintain a long "shelf life", maybe it is a long time, maybe it is menopause.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It will change, time will tell.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love can change

    We've known each other for several years.

    She went abroad, and we didn't want to be separated before she left.

    But after she left, it changed, and it was only two months after she left

    Love can change, it often changes, women are faster than men!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Actually, it's hard to say.

    It's not very difficult either.

    It's not that hard. Actually, it's quite difficult.

    In a word. It depends on what kind of love you love.

    Will it change.

    If it really can last a long time.

    Then there won't be so much breakup love! ~~

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, what hasn't changed is because I haven't met someone to love.

    Of course, what can't change is the fact that I loved it in the past.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Yes: I talked about it before. We were really happy at that time. Everyone else says that it will change, and I can't step on them. But now what. I have to believe that even if you don't change, he will change

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's going to get because of a lot of things.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's been a lot.

    People naturally change.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Everyone likes to talk about love, love is also regular, love is never static, but a dynamic process, a two-way interactive process, in marriage has different manifestations.

    First, love will automatically consume over time, and second, love will decrease or increase greatly with events, large and small.

    For example, if a pool is draining all the time, the amount of water is fixed, and in order for the pool to start to store water, more water needs to be injected, and the speed of filling the water must be greater than the speed of drainage. But the capacity of the pool is limited, and the capacity of love is also limited, no that is to say, there is no infinite dust mountain of love, one day if you don't start filling water, the water will still drain, and the water in the pool will be exhausted.

    It's not that finding someone who loves you will sit back and relax, without continuous feedback, you will gradually become discouraged, and once you run out, it will be irretrievable. Love is never a one-and-done process.

    Not loving now does not mean that Pai Zhong will not fall in love in the future, and loving now does not mean that he will not love in the future. Some love starts from 100, some love starts from 0, the former mostly starts with the hormonal love of young people, and the latter mostly starts from the weighing pros and cons of mature middle-aged people.

    How can people's love be as affectionate as we imagined, and some things will inevitably be encountered in life, no matter how much love there is, the problem of principle, the problem of loyalty, once the pool will break a few holes, the water will leak a bunch, and the volume of the pool will become smaller once. No matter how much water is injected, it is not as good as the original.

    So, can feelings be cultivated, and can you have feelings if you get married without feelings? Not necessarily.

    In the process of getting along with each other, there are thrust and resistance, thrust makes the relationship go further, resistance makes the relationship regress, and the balance between thrust and resistance does not advance or retreat.

    From the perspective of resistance, changing the shortcomings that the other party does not like can only reduce the disadvantages and maintain the temperature of the relationship, but it cannot enhance the relationship.

    And the relationship will naturally decline over time, and will gradually wear out with the trivial contradictions in life, which is an inevitable resistance, so if you do not add new thrust or maintain thrust to counter this resistance, the relationship is likely to collapse in the gradually increasing contradictions and become familiar strangers.

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