Why would you want to like someone who can t possibly be together?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-03
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You ask me why I like someone who can't be together, in fact, there is no standard answer to this, just because I like him, I like him, I like him, I like him, maybe just be with him,

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    People are emotional animals, feelings are not something that they can control, they don't like it involuntarily, and liking someone is also a kind of enjoyment and a thought.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Those who can't get it are always in turmoil, and those who are favored have nothing to fear. This is the human heart. People have pursuits, and no matter what they pursue, this is positive.

    Russell said that it is only because of the finite nature of life that it is brilliant. We seek a rope to climb upwards because of the fear of death. Some people choose to love someone, and some people choose to do something meaningful.

    The two are interconnected. But what you want is not necessarily what you like. Maybe by then, the person you like will finally look back and hold your hand.

    But you find that you are so strange.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    What you can't get is always in turmoil, and those who are favored have nothing to fear. In your last life, you took care of a person who fell into the water by the sea, and you met you in this life, and in your last life, you did good deeds and remembered saving someone. In this life, he came to return the favor.

    Who knows in the previous life. To put it bluntly, you think he's good, and you want to like him. Or maybe I don't really like him, but just nostalgia for the memories of the past.

    If you really put it in front of your eyes, you will feel as if it is different from what you imagined, but you are just entangled in the memories of the past.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't want to like him, but I really can't control my heart that likes him, and many times I'd rather not know him, because then I won't be miserable.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Feelings are always something that no one can say, so liking someone who can't be together is not what I think.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There is a little sweetness and a little pain, and you will keep speculating about whether he is interesting to you because of his inadvertent and unintentional little actions. You like him more and more, but you have the clear knowledge that he doesn't like you and will never like you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is no reason, even if I know that we can't be together, it doesn't delay me from liking him, silently by his side, and it's good to be a friend even if he can't even listen. ‍‍

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't know why I like him, I know that it is impossible to be together, but I can't control my eyes to pay attention to him, and I know that he has a lot of shortcomings, but I just like it. Like is like, how can there be so many whys.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    So what to do? The feeling of liking each other just happened involuntarily, and then the heart has been given, and it is not so easy to take it back, and it is not so easy to forget. I know it's impossible, but I can't forget it!

    Sometimes I hate myself, why can't I just forget it, but I just can't let go of it in my heart, maybe this is how my feelings are, maybe after a long time, I may let go.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I like a girl at the moment, and she also made it clear to me that I don't feel like another man, and I can only be friends with her, in fact, I'm the kind of person who won't talk anymore if it's not love, but I really like her, and I don't want to cut off contact with her, so I'm still trying to be friends, and I don't like it anymore after a long time, I shouldn't choose this state anymore. ‍‍

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I felt like he was the most suitable person I've ever met in my life, even though I knew he couldn't be with me.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    How can there be any reason for love, like is like, I can't say the reason, I don't want to let go, I have to say what the reason is, I can only be unwilling. ‍‍

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This may be the magic of love, I can't control it, although I want to interrupt, but I'm still wandering in pain.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There's no way, emotional things can't be controlled, who wants to like an impossible person, how tired.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Like is like, it's something you can't control, and there's no way to do it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then it's okay to keep having a crush, it's your own business to stop liking anyway, and if you confess that you are not accepted, or if you confess that you are accepted but can't be together, it will only be more painful. Crush is different, only you know about liking and stopping liking, so you don't have any worries, you may feel a little depressed for a while.

    Liking someone is a very beautiful and natural thing, it sprouts and grows from the bottom of your heart, you can't confess, but it doesn't mean that you want to strangle this seedling. You just have to let it grow, and don't pay too much attention to it and deliberately limit it. It's good to have everything go naturally, and so is your feelings, and if it's painful to like someone, I think you can stop.

    But often in many cases we can't control our feelings, so give it time, and slowly you will be able to see it, because you said that you can't confess.

    I don't know why I say I like someone but can't confess, it's so helpless. The reason for not being able to confess may be very deep, but the liking is not diminished, which will be even more painful. You have to learn to release and reduce this pain, because it's not like to be together.

    It is said that the farthest distance in the world is when I stand in front of your eyes, but you don't know that I love you. What's more, love is difficult to open in the heart, which is a more distant distance.

    Like someone but can't confess it, probably a kind of not meeting the right person at the right time, and then a right relationship. In fact, many feelings that cannot be confessed will become an unforgettable experience in the end. You may feel a little bitter when you think about it years later, but you know that you can't confess it, and you will thank yourself for not confessing.

    Because you are fully prepared, after weighing all the factors, you feel that you can't confess, then not confessing to the person you like is the best choice to make in the current situation. You won't regret your choices in the future, every day people are faced with a lot of choices, and these big or small choices will affect your future, not just the present.

    It's not easy to give up liking someone, but since you know you can't confess, it's good to keep it in your heart. Maybe in the future, when you remember this untimely relationship, you will thank yourself for your decision. People are bounded rational, but this rationality is enough to stifle the absurdity of feelings.

    Since there is no way to confess, let it be, you will always meet the right person at the right time.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't, but a lot of people do.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Not all likes have to be together, some people you love wrong from the beginning, such as an unmarried girl who falls in love with a married man, which is too late to meet; Or an unmarried man who is in love with a married woman, and your encounter is also a mistake.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    We should learn to let go and bury this love in the deepest part of our hearts, so that we can not hurt each other, and we are also letting go of ourselves and others. Loving someone doesn't have to be having, letting go is also a kind of love.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you like someone who can't be together, it means that you already know the result, and you are destined to have no future. So what you have to do now is to forget about him, cut off all contact with him, and stop the loss in time. The best way to forget a relationship is to start a new one.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    So have you told him now that you like him, and what is his reaction now, if you don't do it and give up, I think it's a pity, if you do it and he refuses, then I think you can give up.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think we should calm down and think clearly, and then try to get ourselves out of this relationship as much as possible, otherwise it will only hurt us more.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think we should leave right away, because this kind of relationship is fruitless, so there is no need to waste time.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You can't hide from it, and you can't chase it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If I were young, then I would insist that even if we can't be together, I have to have a love affair with this personEven if I know that I will be separated in the end, but at least I have been with the person I love very much, and I will not regret it in the future, but if I am no longer young, then I will choose to stay away from this man, because I can't afford to play anymore, because my youth is running out, and I can't waste the little youth I have saved for someone who can't be together.

    If I were still young, twenty-one or twelve, seventeen or eighteen, even if the person I fell in love with was wrongYes, even if we don't have a future, even if he can't give me a future, I will be with him, because I like it, it's hard to buy it, I like it not, and when everyone is young, they want to have such an unforgettable love, and obviously this love that I know can't be together will give me that feeling, so why should I let it go, I will be entangled with him, painful and happy, I think this kind of love is enough to feel, in order to make people feel that this love is alive, this love is warm.

    But now that I'm in reality, I don't have such a pole anymoreBecause I have lost the age of being crazy about love, and I have no chance to love for a person again, I have reached the age of an older leftover woman, if I know that a person will not give me a future, if I know that a person is impossible with me, then I will stay away from him, maybe it will be very painful.

    But I think the pain now can make me resist more than the result of the pain in the future, and I at least have other choices for the pain now, but after being together, if we separate in the future, I will be really pitiful at that time, because I have no other choice, how sad I will be then, there is really nothing, and where should I go at that time, and I believe that if he loves you, or he has feelings for me, he will not provoke me when he knows that it is impossible.

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