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I guess it's not a psychological problem! A person should have a good love in his life, otherwise it will be in vain. Let's talk about it once!
I think you should stick to your own principles a little bit. Don't do what your parents say! This is a lifelong event, but you can't be sloppy!
But then again! What age is it now, and the blind date. You've just graduated from college.
You're still young! Youth is capital! When you're really in love!
You'll realize how indescribable it feels! Now you still work and slowly meet the prince in your heart! Good luck!
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I don't want to.
I'm not old yet. Ha ha.
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I just found out today that there are so many people who don't want to get married.
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Yes, it's fun to fall in love, but it's not fun to get married.
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And I thought the same. I'm thinking the same thing as you. A person has more freedom to do whatever he wants.
Don't waste time on unnecessary things. But my friends say I'm not gentle enough. He said that girls can't marry if they don't die gently.
If that's true. I don't think it's okay to be alone, so I don't have to change my personality for anyone.
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It's scary to talk about getting married, but it's also a part of life, and you can try to experience the joy that a man brings you! Slowly, you may change your mind.
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You are a person who is too independent, but as you get older, your mentality of not wanting to get married will disappear, because girls really need a harbor to dock into. Now when you are young, you will feel that being single is a capital to show off, but in a few years, when your friends have belonging, you will feel so lonely. If there's a suitable one, let's get along!
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Let's play first!
I really don't want to play alone anymore, so I'll find someone to marry!
Or find a place to hide!
Clean, pure!
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According to me, it is not qualitative!
The current psychology has not yet accepted love, and is still in self-centeredness and playfulness.
You don't have to be in a hurry, you can wait until one day, and a feeling of "I want to have a home" arises in my heart, that is, I am psychologically mature and acceptable, and I am thinking about how good it is at that time.
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Isn't it true that people live to be happy? Don't you think it's happier to be happy and share it with others?
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It's too playful, and you should become a responsible person earlier, and be responsible for yourself, your parents, and society.
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Isn't it true that people live to be happy?
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Don't be afraid, I'm 32 years old, I'm busy playing games and watching movies, and I don't want to get married.
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I feel the same way! I have a boyfriend though, and I don't want to get married! Even now with him, it's a little annoying! It's not that I don't like it Or maybe you've watched too much TV and movies! ``
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It's not a psychological problem, it's a problem of consciousness, your attention is focused on other aspects, shift your attention to it, breakup, love change, divorce is someone else's business, how do you know that you won't succeed, even if you break up, what does it matter, how can you see a rainbow without wind and rain, isn't life like this.
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Good evening, dear, why am I reluctant to get married. There are several reasons for this1Not yet of the age to get married.
2.I didn't meet the person I liked. 3.
I have experienced too much before, and I haven't come out of it yet. 4.There is someone in your heart who can't let go, and you can't accept anyone, and that person's position in your heart is too heavy.
5.The above points are the reasons for reluctance to get married. Honey, I hope mine can help you.
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There can be many reasons for this, and each person's situation is unique. Here are some possible reasons:
1.Independence: You can enjoy your independence and freedom and don't want to be bound by marital responsibilities and obligations.
2.Fear of commitment: Marriage usually means long-term commitment, including fidelity to one's spouse, financial responsibility, etc. You may be afraid to make that commitment.
3.Fear of the unknown: Getting married means entering a whole new stage of life, and you may feel uncertain or scared about the future.
4.Not finding the right person: You may not have met the person you want to spend your life with.
5.Questioning the institution of marriage: You may have some negative views about the institution of marriage, such as thinking that it is too conservative or unfair.
6.Personal goals and values: Your personal goals and values may not be compatible with your marriage, such as career advancement, travel, or other non-traditional lifestyles.
7.Past experiences: If you've been hurt in a past relationship, or if you've seen someone around you suffering because of your marriage, you may feel resistant to marriage.
These are just possible causes, and the specific situation needs to be thought about and explored by yourself. If you are bothered by this, it may be helpful to seek counseling from a professional counselor.
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Because you don't want to get married at all, you don't get married, you think it's a burden to get married, and you'd rather be single.
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There are a number of reasons why I am single and reluctant to get married.
One, because I don't have any money myself, I'm a relatively filial and lazy thing, because I'm not on camera, I don't like to go out to earn money, which leads to my lack of money to buy firewood, rice, oil and salt, so in life I'd rather be single than get married, because I don't want to give half of the money I have. So I'd rather be single.
Single. Second, I don't have enough knowledge. Some people are still married because they have no money, but not only do I have no money, but I also have no culture, maybe because I have no culture, so I don't want to get married, because after getting married, I may hurt others, and I will not hurt me, and it is precisely because of this reason that I refuse to get married.
Knowledge. That's why I've been worried about it and don't want to get married.
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Nowadays, many people have been single and reluctant to get married, and the possible reasons are also different from person to person. The main reason why I have been single is that I don't want to take on the responsibilities and obligations after marriage. Falling in love is a very easy thing, as long as you like each other, you don't have to worry too much about external factors.
And marriage is not, marriage means that you have to work hard for your family, you have to run for firewood, rice, oil and salt, so many people will be afraid of marriage, and the solution:
First, don't be overly afraid or resistant to marriage. The reason why many older single young people are reluctant to get married is mainly because they are full of resistance to marriage. Especially when they see that many couples are not happy in their marriages at all, they are even more afraid of marriage.
However, you should not deny the meaning and value of marriage just because someone else's marriage is unhappy. In other words, you should not completely reject marriage from the beginning, you might as well approach a relationship with an open mind.
Second, marriage should be built on the basis of genuine love for each other. Regardless of whether you are in a relationship with the intention of getting married, you have to take the relationship seriously. Marriage is based on genuine love for each other, which is not in conflict or contradiction with love.
In other words, your love will not be diluted by marriage. Marriage also needs love as a support. Many marriages break down mainly because they didn't love each other from the beginning.
The third is that marriage is a matter of course, and there is no need to force it. In any case, marriage is a matter of course, and there is no need to force it. Whether you insist on unmarried love or fall in love with the intention of getting married, you have to be comfortable with the coming and going of a relationship.
Love is the eternal theme of human beings, and it is also a beautiful and noble emotion. Entering marriage from love involves the lives of two people, and will produce a third life, a new life, which makes marriage more social and gives rise to responsibility for society and family.
Love is not a person's private matter, it is related to the moral outlook and stability and unity of society. Love is the unity of spirit and flesh, which not only contains physical attraction and desire satisfaction, but also has higher psychological needs, emotional attachment, spiritual resonance, and spiritual enjoyment. With the development of social wheels, as well as the increase of social responsibility, the progress of science and technology, people's desire for love, marriage and childbirth is getting lower and lower, and the biggest disadvantage of single and unmarried people is that it is not good for physiology and psychology.
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The main reasons why I am single and reluctant to get married are the following two aspects.
One, there are many failures, and there is no enthusiasm.
To say that you don't want to get married is false. Seeing others in pairs, I still have some envy, and I also hope that there will be someone together.
Every time I put a lot of time and effort into it, I failed, and now I start to doubt that I can still get married.
Second, the inferiority complex in the heart.
When I just graduated, with a salary of 2,000, I always felt that 18,000 yuan was a small amount of money.
Now that I'm older, I have lost my temper when I am rubbed by reality, and I don't have the ambition to grind the scriptures, and there is no longer light in my eyes. Looking at such a pitiful salary every day, I feel that it is difficult to support myself, and I have the courage to get married.
Now even if you meet a girl you like, you don't dare to pursue it boldly, for fear of rejection, and for fear that you are not able to take on family responsibilities.
It's still single to save money, nibble on steamed buns, eat a bowl of instant noodles, and the day can pass.
I feel that I have achieved nothing, the income of the walker is not high, there is no house and no car, not only others dislike it, but I hate it.
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It's a person who doesn't get married, not because he doesn't want to get married, but because he hasn't found the right person, in fact, many people want to talk about love when they fall in love with Lu Shiai at a certain age, and there will be no regrets in life, but there are no reasons for getting married.
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I feel the same way, staring at a person who is filial and free to quarrel in arguing about arranging his own day as he likes, how good, you can avoid too many troubles, and there are mutations.
When I think of my grandmother, I don't think it's interesting to get married.
A good woman marries the wrong man, and she doesn't care about eating, drinking, prostituting, gambling, or smoking. Grandma did everything by herself to raise six children, and she couldn't afford to raise them later, so the youngest uncle gave them away. Leaving the eldest son and four daughters, because there is only one son, more care, and finally left behind a patriarchal eccentric mother.
After the daughter got married, she didn't care much about her grandmother, and the saddest thing was that the only son didn't treat her grandmother well, all kinds of dislikes, anyway, I finally heard that she died at the door of her own hut, which was very pitiful.
Therefore, I don't know why I want to get married like this, have children, exhaust my life, or live a life of endless suffering.
Nowadays, my mother only occasionally wakes up a little, and feels that she owes something to her grandmother, what's the use, everyone is dead.
Hehe!!! Don't worry, brother, what you need is time.
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I think you should marry him, if you don't want to get married, you can explain it to him, maybe he will think that you don't love him.
Some people get married because of the sublimation of feelings, but some people get married because of their future, of course, some people get married because of their parents, if your little boyfriend is not willing to get married, then you need to think about it, how about the relationship between the two of you, if the relationship between the two people is very good, marriage should be a natural thing, if the relationship is very good but he is unwilling, you can communicate with the two people, because men in this world may also be afraid of marriage, It may be because he has seen too many things or because he has a little problem with his own family, so you need to ask him, of course, if it is not because of this problem, the next thing to think about is whether he really loves you, in fact, I look down on a kind of person, say I love you to a woman, and then say I'm sorry I can't marry you, this is the performance that he doesn't love you enough, most people's feelings need to be expressed in marriage, if he says he loves you but is not willing to marry you, So how much of her love is true, at this time you might as well try to force marriage, some people like to use breakup or marriage to draw an end to their feelings, some people say that breaking up hurts feelings the most, but when you break up, you can also see whether that person really loves you! >>>More
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