My girlfriend is pregnant and wants to get rid of it, but I don t agree, how to deal with it?

Updated on society 2024-06-04
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There should be a good communication between the two of them. Then rational people face this problem. After all, it's a matter of two people.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If your girlfriend is pregnant and wants to get rid of it, it is nothing more than distrusting you and she has no sense of security, you can give enough promises and fulfill them to give her a secure future.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If your girlfriend is pregnant and wants to get rid of it, but you don't agree, you can communicate with your girlfriend and clearly express that you want to have a complete family with your girlfriend in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think you should give her enough security and should propose to her, and when you get married, I believe she won't want to kill the child.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If your girlfriend is unexpectedly pregnant, if you don't want to get married yet. You have to communicate and communicate with your girlfriend, explain your ideas to her, and then ask your girlfriend for her opinion. After all, miscarriage is very harmful to a woman's body.

    So as a man, you also have to take responsibility and don't run away from reality.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all, a man must have a sense of responsibility, and if he can't afford to pay the responsibility, he must take safety measures, it all depends on the woman's wishes, she will stay if she wants to, and she will not stay if she is not willing to stay.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Since you don't want to get married yet, why should you get your girlfriend pregnant? When you don't want this child, you should take safety measures early, you are not responsible for the child, you must know that the child is yours, and you are not responsible for your girlfriend.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you really want to meet such a person, there is really no way, right? So what about people like you, who have no responsibility, no responsibility, and meet such a person, well, what can you do? Alas, really warm.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't want to get married later, I want to get married after I give birth to a child.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you have an unplanned pregnancy, but you don't want to get married yet, I think you are very irresponsible, since you don't want to get married, why should you get your girlfriend pregnant? He was also told to give him a hanging needle and kill the child, of course. It is not you who suffer.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    1. Make it clear that you will be responsible for her.

    Girls need to commit at this time.

    2. Find an authoritative hospital.

    3. Explain why you don't want children now.

    Ask for her opinion.

    After understanding her thoughts, make targeted solutions to solve them.

    4. Pay attention to safety in the future.

    Finally, I wish you all happiness.

    Girls choose you.

    It's something you need to love.

    Hope you all have a good ending.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    She didn't want to be afraid.

    If you don't feel secure, then you have to give her a guarantee.

    Questions. So how can she be comfortable?

    Give her a home.

    That is, you and she say, I'll marry you.

    Questions. That's it.

    But did you do it.

    Hee hee [hee hee] woman, to give her a reassurance.

    Talk to her parents, she also considers your current situation, and having children is also a burden.

    If you want a child, you have to consider the current financial conditions, can you really protect her? Women are thoughtful.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Husbands and wives of childbearing age shall follow the relevant provisions of the State in family planning, and the relevant departments shall provide safe and effective contraceptives and technology to ensure the health and safety of women undergoing birth control operations. Article 48: When women's lawful rights and interests are violated, the victim has the right to request that the relevant competent departments handle it, or to raise a lawsuit in the people's court in accordance with law. When women's lawful rights and interests are violated, the victim may file a complaint with the women's organization, and the women's organization shall request that the relevant departments or units investigate and handle it, so as to protect the violated women's lawful rights and interests.

    My girlfriend is pregnant, but I don't want it, but she doesn't want to kill the baby, can I sue.

    Hello, it's a pleasure to answer for you; Your girlfriend is pregnant, but you don't want it, but she doesn't want to kill the child, so you can't sue; She has the freedom to have children, and she also has the right to choose not to have children, so whether to have children or not is her own free service, and you can't ask her not to have children. After the child is born, you can sue you for the child if you don't pay for the child's support.

    Legal basis: Article 47 of the Law on the Protection of Women's Rights and Interests: Women have the right to have children in accordance with relevant state provisions, and they also have the freedom not to have children. Husbands and wives of childbearing age shall follow the relevant provisions of the State to plan for family planning, and the relevant departments shall provide safe and effective contraceptives and technology to ensure the health and safety of women who undergo birth control operations.

    Article 48: When women's lawful rights and interests are violated, the victim has the right to request that the relevant competent departments handle it, or to raise a lawsuit in the people's court in accordance with law. When women's lawful rights and interests are violated, the victim may make a complaint to the women's organization, and the women's organization shall request that the relevant departments or units investigate and handle it, so as to protect the violated women's lawful rights and interests.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Summary. Communicate with her to figure out why your girlfriend doesn't want children, worries and concerns, and make it clear that your girlfriend expresses your unwavering love for her.

    My girlfriend is pregnant, I want to give birth, and she wants to get rid of it, what should I do.

    Communicate with her to figure out why your girlfriend doesn't want children, worries and concerns, and make it clear that your girlfriend expresses your unwavering love for her.

    Because I am over 40 years old, she doesn't want to give birth, I want this child very much, how can I persuade her.

    Is it you pregnant or your girlfriend is pregnant.

    Because it was the second marriage, we were both over forty years old, and she didn't want to have it, oh very much for this child.

    It's not easy to get married for the second time and form a pure family! There are more scruples, it's okay to have another one at the age of forty now, the age is just right, not too old for pregnant women, this age must not hesitate to think about it! If you want to get pregnant immediately, if you want one, if you don't want it, you don't want it, but you can understand your object's thoughts, he really wants to have a child you believe in, otherwise he may always feel that it is not a real family, this is the difference between a man and a woman!

    If you can, ask for one!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Cha Zhenjing In the process of getting along with couples nowadays, many people don't know how to use contraception correctly, every time their girlfriend is pregnant, and then they will regret it.

    I think if you and your girlfriend are still college students, then I think this trip is a more shameful thing, and let their parents know, but also let this girl beat the child, and will severely reprimand you, I think you are too disagreeable, rather than this, I think the two of you can take care of this matter by yourself, silently go to a regular hospital to beat the child, Because a girl who is still studying went to give birth to a child, this reputation is not very good.

    But if you are already working, or just graduated, then I think this is the time for you to be responsible, at this time you must not let your girlfriend have an abortion, you should think about how to give your girlfriend a home, you should think about how you have to work hard, and then how to give your girlfriend a good environment, not that you feel scared, or want to escape this responsibility, it will just make people think that you are a coward, a working person, If you are pregnant, it is better not to have an abortion, and it is better to get married as soon as possible.

    Therefore, I still hope that couples really have to take safety measures when they get along, so that your girlfriend is pregnant but you don't have the ability to give her a family, I think this is very unacceptable, and abortion for girls is not good for girls' bodies.

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