My girlfriend s mother doesn t agree with us getting married, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-05-23
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Let's be realistic, my husband and I didn't agree with my mother at the beginning, and even did not hesitate to force me to break up with my husband in various ways, what about me, it is undeniable that there have been hesitations and hesitations, after all, she is the closest person in my world, and the person who loves me the most, my mother and your girlfriend's mother have the same starting point, it is too far, in fact, we are farther than you, hundreds of miles, but in the end, considering that my husband and my husband have feelings after all, I love him, And he also treats me well, so he still bravely persists, of course, the tears in the complicated mental journey are not ordinary people can experience, what I want to say is, don't steal the marriage certificate behind your parents' back, this is at least disrespectful to her, and if you really love your girlfriend, you have to consider her position, I don't believe that she and you go to get the marriage certificate very peacefully, strive for the consent of the fight, and then go to get it, ask your girlfriend to do her mother's ideological work, after all, she is just afraid that her daughter will be bullied, right, Touching her with your love and care, I was the same at the time, I assured my mother, coupled with my husband's performance, my mother had to agree, and now I feel very happy. I believe that your girlfriend's mother will not be stubborn, and finally I wish you lovers to become married!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Friends are fine, in fact, if you both love each other, no one can hinder you, just like me and my friend is a north and south of Henan, a south of Henan, farther than you, more than 1,000 miles, my mother disagrees, but I don't listen, because I usually have to think about my future at this time. At this time, her mother is not good for you, but after a long time, it will become more and more pleasing to the eye, my friend was also very difficult at first, and now when he comes to my house, my mother is very good to him, and he actually said that the more he looks at his son-in-law, the more he agrees. Hey, it's okay, I wish you the love of your mother-in-law as soon as possible.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Since it's sincere, don't worry too much about it, otherwise you'll regret it for the rest of your life! Get married! I wish you a good 100 years!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Actually, if you have a deep relationship.

    Don't think about it so much.

    Like you said. Just go and register.

    Go back and tell the old man, who parents don't want their children to have a good home?

    But it mainly depends on the relationship between you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You just live together, raw rice and cooked rice.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not good to do this, but it's best to inform your family, otherwise it will be difficult in the future.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'm ready to get married to my girlfriend, but my parents are not happy with her and don't agree with us getting married? Whether it's a boy or a girl, their parents have reasons to disagree, and most of the reasons are for you. Although you may think it's nothing, like a long trip, a bad family, or nothing.

    Since you decided to tell your parents that you can accept it, you may also be unhappy with yourself, but I accept my feelings for each other. After all, I've been together all my life, but what if my parents don't agree? If the man's parents do not agree, it depends on the reason.

    If it's just some less important reason, it depends on whether the boy is determined to be with the girl. For example, if it is because of the other family, the girls have been taking special care of their own family, neglecting themselves, or taking care of their brothers. This situation should be taken into account.

    If you want to get married, you have to make it clear. After all, it's not like you're living alone.

    Parents should be happiest when they know that their child is in love and has the right partner. Of course, parents are also most concerned about the happiness of their children's lives, so no matter how ugly, demanding, and embarrassing parents are, we should communicate with our parents calmly. From the point of view of people in the past, they had to look at each other's problems and shortcomings in terms of each other's actions.

    Of course, we can't listen to our parents, but you can't. You can choose to communicate. Parents must analyze the truth.

    Although marriage is a matter of two people, it is a matter of two families. If the family does not agree, it is difficult to force the marriage. Future family relationships.

    will be more difficult to get along with. Therefore, the best thing to do is to ask for the consent of the family so that it is justified and logical.

    When your parents object, you might as well sit down and have a good talk with your parents. On the one hand, it shows your determination not to marry her, and on the other hand, it can better address your parents' concerns. Talk more about your girlfriend's strengths and convince your parents that she would be a good daughter-in-law.

    However, there is one thing you should be aware of. You must communicate calmly with your family and not make loud noises, because the louder you are, the stronger the family's willingness to object.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, you should understand your parents' concerns, and then find a way to convince them little by little, and secondly, you should make your position clear and explain your determination not to marry a girlfriend. I believe that parents will not be difficult for their children and will agree to your marriage.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You should have a good talk with your parents, tell your parents what you think in your heart, and you can also tell your parents, if you don't let the two of you get married, you won't get married for the rest of your life, and I'm sure your parents will be able to agree.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Tell your parents that your girlfriend is the person you love the most, and hope that your parents will accept her, and at the same time let your girlfriend behave well in front of your parents.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can say some good things about each other in front of your parents, and you should also tell your parents that the other party is a very gentle person and will definitely be a good wife and mother in life.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You should take the initiative to communicate with your parents, and you should also bring your girlfriend to meet your parents more often, so as to cultivate a good feeling.

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