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There are certainly risks associated with getting married like this, but the risks are not as great as you think. Everyone expects that they can enter into marriage because of love, but in real life, there are too many marriages just because they are suitable. Whether it is because of love and walking into marriage will be happy, or because it is suitable to walk into marriage will be happy, no one can give you an answer except for those who have experienced it firsthand.
No matter what you get into a marriage for, getting married is always a risky thing to do. In today's era, whether you enter marriage because of love or because you are suitable, marriage is already a risky thing. In life, there are countless young couples who divorce after marriage, and married life.
It is not uncommon for quarrels and conflicts to arise due to various factors.
Whether a person will be hurt in married life is always unknown before entering marriage, but no one can deny that marriage has indeed become a risky thing, this is actually a game, you gamble the rest of your life and meet the right person.
A marriage without love is certainly risky, but the right person may be at risk. If you ask a person what exactly is the basis of marriage, everyone should give you a different answer. But for a marriage, love will become unrecognizable in the marriage, and it is possible to go further if it is suitable.
The so-called suitable marriage in life is actually a comprehensive family condition and personal mate selection criteria.
As well as three views and other factors, the most suitable two people to enter marriage may not love each other, but they definitely do not hate each other.
When two people enter marriage, they can cultivate their feelings, and they may be happy or loved in the future, which can only be known after marriage. Of course, there is a certain risk of entering into a marriage in this situation, but I personally feel that this risk is within the controllable range and within the acceptable range.
In life, everyone expects that they can have a marriage that is destined to be happy, but in reality, such a marriage does not exist. There's always a risk to getting married, and as long as it's acceptable, I think it's okay to try.
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There must be risks, you realized before marriage, there is no love, you choose to make do now, then you have to live for a lifetime.
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If you feel that he has no love for you at all, just suitable, then such a marriage may be at risk. Even if it is suitable, without the support of love, it may be difficult. The most important thing in the relationship is that both parties have feelings in order to continue.
So there is a real risk. But it's possible that both of you are suitable for each other. It will be good to run in later.
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If you feel that he doesn't love you, and he has been together for a long time just because he wants to get married because of your conditions, the marriage will become boring and boring, and it will be easy for him to leave you if he likes someone else again. And it's just a relationship of partnering, and the relationship is not deep.
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He only has the right for you, and when there is no love, such a marriage is not dangerous, because once a person chooses marriage, he will pay attention to the marriage, the so-called suitability is only a responsibility, the so-called love is only temporary, and slowly family affection may beat love.
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If there is no love, it is impossible to be fit. At least there is no love in which there is that kind of very like-minded relationship, if there is no such feeling, then there is no way to be together again. Maybe there is no such risk in getting married, it depends on how you cultivate your feelings, you can marry first and then love, or you can get married little by little until you are completely suitable.
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If you feel that he has no love for you and is just suitable, then such a marriage still has certain risks, because a life without love will definitely make two people feel boring and boring, and they may not be able to endure it for a long time.
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He has no love for you, only suitable, such a marriage is still very stable, the right room for two people, and the mother will go a little further Because the other party has put his heart in this family, he just works hard and has not put his heart yet.
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There will be risks. Because two people have no relationship at all, and two people do not have a certain emotional foundation, just like they will divorce after marriage.
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There is no love just suitable, it seems that there is still a certain risk, of course, suitability is also a necessary factor in marriage.
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I don't think he has love for me, it's just that it's risky to marry like this, depending on how well you get along, if you get along well, it's suitable, if you don't get along well, then it's dangerous.
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He doesn't have love for you, only the right one, as long as he is usually good to you, and all his obligations and responsibilities have been fulfilled, what does it matter? In fact, love can be cultivated, you don't need to force it yourself, and sometimes you can change the time you wait.
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It is also possible for two suitable people to get married, marriage is the beginning of love, not the end of feelings, as long as the right person can slowly cultivate feelings after marriage, such a marriage will be more stable.
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Such a marriage is very risky, you can't even feel his love, can you trust him to bring you happiness? So don't take that risk.
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If you can't feel love and habit before getting married, then this marriage is just a perfunctory after marriage, and you have to think about it as much as possible.
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In fact, often such marriages are risk-free and very bland.
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It's okay to be right-eyed, after getting married, the relationship is slowly cultivated, and after being together for a long time, it is good to slowly cultivate the relationship.
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Thanks for the invite. This topic or this question gives me the feeling of a spare tire, don't blame me for thinking too much, it does feel like this.
As a person who has come to say my own opinion, as an adult, first of all, we should know in our hearts that life is to live those beautiful and moving love stories like fairy tales, which are rare in real life.
The difference between love and affection is that love is always a good memory and longing, and affection is the integration of the relationship between two people or even two family members (the existence of marriage becoming more and more intimate).
My interpretation of marriage is: if you can't find someone you love, then find someone who loves you to marry and spend this life together, but whether it is the former or the latter, you need to run it with all your heart. With the person you love, no matter what happens after marriage, you have to learn to bear the consequences, and you have to work hard to walk the road you choose, and if you choose a person who loves you to get married, you will find that you are really happy, spoiling you all the time, worrying about you, and feeling sorry for you.
But no matter how you spoil you and love you, you should also pay attention to keeping warm in your married life, keeping the heat and humidity of your marriage warm, ensuring that it can't be hot and cold, and ensuring that the feelings between each other are long-lasting.
But there is one thing to note here: you are a suitable person for marriage, if you two don't love you, then don't wronged yourself no matter how suitable it is, okay, the above is my interpretation. Hello, I am.
PDS Fallen Leaves Thank you again.
PDS Fallen Leaves Thank you again.
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It depends on what you are pursuing, all you are pursuing is a stable life, and you can consider it if you don't need love.
But if you don't have love for this person, how do you know that he will be a good marriage partner, after all, how you feel now does not represent the real life after marriage.
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Steady and stable Those who have a sense of security don't feel it.
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Hello! Women's drops should find a strong sense of security, this society can't rely on anyone for a lifetime, especially men. It feels better to find an affordable man. I'm a female drop, personal opinion.
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