Some people get married just because it s suitable, but does such a marriage really make sense?

I think this kind of marriage is also meaningful, as long as two people do not hate each other, they will also have feelings after getting along for a long time, and all love will eventually become family affection, not necessarily to marry the person you love, choosing the right one is also a way of marriage.

It doesn't make sense. Anything related to laws and rules rarely has true feelings.

I think this kind of marriage is meaningful, because for a suitable marriage, two people can understand and respect each other, and they will grow old together.

It will not be said that the husband is the only relative that he can choose. However, in marriage, love is always greater than affection. Two people can achieve spiritual and soul resonance together is the secret of long-term marriage freshness.

Unless, two people are suitable for marriage and can find the feeling of love after flash marriage. That is, getting married first and then falling in love, however, this situation is difficult to encounter in today's society.

No, it won't. Doing so will only make me feel very uncomfortable in my life, and it will also make me feel unhappy, and I will definitely find a partner who has love.

I won't, because this will cause a lot of problems in the relationship between the two people, and the damage will be relatively great.

Actually, I wouldn't do that because I don't think I can force myself.

You will marry each other because it is just "suitable".

No one should choose to get married because the people around them are married, and don't marry for the sake of getting married.

It's definitely not like this, I want to get married, that's because I found someone who can live together, have the same three views, and have the same goals in life.

First, the three views are very important.

A person's three views are directly linked to his ruler and his god world, so if your spiritual world can't be the right one, then your three views may be difficult to be consistent, two people with different views live together, it is very tiring, and marriage will naturally be useless after a long time.

Clause. 2. Life goals.

In marriage, the husband and wife will be able to achieve long-term harmony if they have the same life goals, but if the husband and wife are inconsistent in spirit and ideas, then it will directly affect the goals and structure of the marriage.

Therefore, many people do not care about the family background and family background when they get married, thinking that as long as they have feelings, they can overcome the habits brought by these original families.

Clause. 3. Common language.

The most direct manifestation of the spiritual level is whether there is a common language, you are talking to him about the world political situation, but he replies to you trivial, like a chicken and a duck talking, you can never find a topic to chat with, and slowly you will be alienated, and the spiritual world will feel very lonely.

Fourth, learn to be understanding others, which is often as difficult to do as demanding of yourself. We are always trying our best to find each other's faults, always feel that the other party can't get along with me, always feel that anyone is making enemies of me, there are many things that are unintentional, but there are those who are cautious and always have to sit in the right seat and find troubles.

will not understand others, often a sentence unintentionally said, the person who has the intention to provoke listen, he sat down, thinking that he was sarcastic and sarcastic, he couldn't get along with himself, and he became troubled. After a long time, once or twice, there may be a general outburst in the end, a fight, and even a person's **. All kinds of social news reports in the newspaper, such as a person who made a person for a few dollars, and a joke caused a tragedy.

Learn to forgive: Learn to forgive your friends and loved ones. The closer people are, because they care too much about each other, they are prone to misunderstandings.

can't explain, can't explain, outsiders can't see jokes, and they can't let go of their dreams. At this time, the only thing that helps is time, time will dilute a lot of things and will melt resentment. One day you will find out that if you are a friend, you will definitely come back.

And the sooner you forget the words you have said or heard in your anger, and forgive each other or yourself one day sooner, the biggest beneficiary is not the other party, but yourself, and you will be happy and sweep away your troubles.

If you are a person with a pure heart and few desires, and your emotional needs are not so strong and easy to satisfy, then being with the right person can gradually develop emotions, and a smooth life will also make you feel more satisfied.

But if you are a person with particularly strong emotional needs, then marrying someone you don't like, your heart will definitely be unbalanced, and your unmet needs will definitely explode at some point in the future with a stronger destructive force, and this kind of person is definitely not suitable for marrying someone you don't like.

Happiness is not bought by sacrifice, you must first find your own position and let the happiness that belongs to you come to you. You have to know what kind of person you are, and then make choices accordingly.

In our social environment, marriage will inevitably involve two families, don't make decisions that are not conducive to the overall situation because of personal disappointment.

On the road to happiness, everyone stumbles and suffers some damage, and if the mind is distracted by a momentary injury, the result may be worse.

Willing to take into account the overall situation, choose a number of concessions, but this concession is mutual, not one side, only if each other knows that the right model can be sold, will let life continue, to a certain age, with a certain experience, naturally know that some of the behaviors of the year potato with Hu Qing, it simply does not work.

I will. How long does love last, three months? Three years?

The most important thing is that the person who will accompany you for a lifetime is suitable, the two are evenly matched, and they are not tired of getting along. The right two people to form a family will not have a bad time, although you may feel that she He is not your prince (father) (lord), you may feel that your life is not vigorous only wealth, rice, oil and salt, but life is like this, the vast majority of people's lives are as plain as water, Dan Liang is plain and plain is not a kind of happiness.

Over time, two people will become a habit when they are together for a long time, they feel like relatives, they can't leave each other, love is not common in marriage, if it is me, I think I will find a suitable person, because I don't believe in love, since I think the role of love in marriage is not as important as the Mo tacit understanding between two people together, I have seen many people in life who think they have found true love, and they are desperate to get married with joy, and they jump into it alone but are very unhappy in the end. Life is different from TV dramas, there are too many things to consider, find someone who doesn't hate being nice to you, get married late, and get along slowly There will be surprises.

And if you meet someone who can make you feel at ease to get married, then it means that you are very sensible, because there are very few people who can share the ups and downs with you, and you can clearly distinguish the difference between marriage and lovers, the person you love may not be able to give you happiness, and the person who loves you may not necessarily like it. Happiness is unattainable, fate is fleeting, the key lies in your rational choice, if you can choose soberly, then congratulations on you are happy in this life, if you want to choose the person you like, then you have to have the determination to pay for each other in this life. Happiness is bland.

In this era, too many people, after the age of 26, began to worry about their marriage, only to realize the problem of getting married. If it's just that the parents are satisfied, materially satisfied, and don't feel at all, don't hand yourself over so irresponsibly. It is said that feelings are cultivated, and since you have met the right one, you can also give yourself and others a chance.

Marriage is a turning point in life, and it represents a process in which two strangers meet, know, and fall in love. It is the basis for the formation of a new family. So would you get married just because both parties are suitable?

There are many interpretations of what is appropriate. Being suitable is not the same as falling in love. It does not mean that they know each other well.

First, the interaction between the same sex, sometimes at work, the contact between two people, the communication between two people due to work needs, and slowly understand each other's personality and temper until the tacit understanding between two people, this is called appropriate.

Second, the interaction between the opposite sex, the so-called suitability, refers to age, family status, height, and the usual economic income of two people, etc. It takes a while for two people to go from acquaintance to falling in love and then getting married. During this period of time, we have learned about each other from living habits to personality and temperament.

There are still people living so-called flash marriages in their lives now, and they don't know what's going on? Maybe it's because of age, or because you really think it's appropriate, some people choose to divorce after a few months of marriage.

Thirdly, in today's social development, some people feel that it is suitable, they do not have a full understanding of marriage, and at the same time they are full of curiosity about it, so they feel that it is suitable, and if it doesn't work, they will break up, and they will look at marriage too thinly. Therefore, you must choose the right one for marriage, just choose someone who can accompany you for life.

I wouldn't get married just because I was married, and I wouldn't have a happy marriage, and it would make me unhappy, which would be unfair to either of you.

For me, marriage is a very sacred thing, and you can't marry for the sake of getting married, it would seem meaningless. It is only a happy thing for two people to get married when they like each other, so that the two people will have a common topic, understand each other, and thus feel the actual value of marriage. The people around them suddenly got married, this is their choice, they can't go with the flow, otherwise they will put themselves in the abyss of misfortune, and they will make themselves depressed.

Getting married because of marriage, so that two people will not be happy, and it will delay each other's time, and there is no hope for a marriage like Shen Zao. Marriage will only be happy if it is based on the same heart, and such two people will trust and respect each other, otherwise it will only be a kind of companionship in the marriage process, and such a marriage makes people feel very numb. If you don't live with the person you like, every day is a kind of torture and filial piety, and it will also make people feel that life is an unfortunate beginning, and such a marriage hurts two people, or even two families.

Although marriage is a very beautiful thing, you will be happy when you are with the person you like, and you will get married for the sake of getting married, such a marriage exists in name only, and it will only make people not see the real appearance. Marriage should be responsible for each other, not as simple as child's play, only two people are built on love, so as to get a better ending, not two people choose to be together in order to get married. If you get married for the sake of getting married, you will lose each other's happiness and your longing for love, so you won't let people see happiness.

Marriage is when two people come together because of love, not for the sake of marriage, which can lead to a tragedy. In my opinion, you can't get married for the sake of getting married, otherwise it will make the marriage meaningless, and it will also make two people live in an unhappy atmosphere, and in the end they will not get the happiness they want.

Hello, when we choose a marriage partner, it is more important to choose a suitable person, but also choose the person you like, it does not mean that you choose the right person you like, you must choose the person you like, he also likes his own person, and also choose a suitable person, the future two people will live better, happier, and get along more harmoniously.

I think you decide your own life, you don't have to ask about other people's lives.